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Originally Posted by Willd
Except everything about this debate stems from you reading the article as saying something it doesn't come close to. Your starting position was therefore completely divorced from any real policies and it's the insinuation that it's something that could realistically happen that causes the friction in the first place.
I can entirely believe that you have no issues with the actual policies and I am fine saying that it would be problematic if a cis man could simply claim to be transgender and get placed in a women's prison. This dispute stems from the fact that you insist on getting people to agree on the latter point as if it's important when it is actually completely asinine and not anything close to being a real issue.
I think in your case it's entirely a function of the way you approach arguments/debates rather than anything malicious but distorting real policies into something extreme and then arguing against the extreme position is pretty much the number one go-to of people trying to deny trans rights. Again I really don't think you are doing it maliciously but try to understand why your insistence on getting people to acknowledge your position on these extreme examples is problematic.
Perhaps you are seeing the longer article. When I click thru I only get a tiny bit with the rest behind a paywall.
My take on what the article says is not your take and we can agree to disagree on that.
But what is in dispute here is not the ARTICLE it is my TAKE and COMMENT i came away from, after reading the article.
I merely made statements along the line of 'if what is being suggested is that cis men can claim to be trans and be sent to women's prisons based on that alone and no form of check, that is dangerous'.
THAT IS WHAT WE ARE DISCUSSING.
If someone instead said 'I don't think that is what the article says, nor do I think that is the reality (here is what is done in Canada)' I would say 'great extra info, fine' and we would move on.
Instead they chose to argue 'it is crazy, wrong, transphobic to suggest any such safe guard would be necessary. You are seeing trans bogeypersons everywhere', while later quoting that Canada has exactly what I was suggesting already set up.