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Originally Posted by Slighted
I have no idea what you’re trying to say. You’ve changed the argument so many times now I don’t even know what your point is.
If I could trust that you would acknowledge you made some mistakes when reading my post, I'd lay it out of for you. The gist is, you only responded to selective bits, ignored others, and modified a bit. Like your previous post focusing on mental health, ignoring the other component I listed. Then I bring it up, and you are like, "what are you talking about". However, you are going to insist I'm the one talking sideways, so we should just let it end.
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You spent a day telling me my experience was not indicative of the population at large....then say this:
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no one is disputing the idea that mental health issues can lead to poverty and homelessness.
I'm not the one talking sideways.
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Behavior isn’t the cause/issue.
Then you talk about how it's not behavior that keeps people in poverty, which is just absurd. It's just wrong (with the exception of disabled folks, old people, and children).
You seem to think pointing to behavior that leads to poverty is some sort of moral judgement. For instance, when symptoms of schizophrenia manifest via behavior, it's not "behaving badly," as your edited version of my statement indicated. You have to be beyond ignorant not to think those behaviors lead to bad outcomes for the person.
Same thing with life skills. Having sex while you are a teen, even if it's unprotected, is not "behaving badly", but it is behavior that can put you behind the eight ball when it comes to a persons future financial positioning. This is an example of one behavior, there are tons more such as buying cars, buying phones, credit cards, living arrangements....(unwilling to live in a poor neighborhood, which started this) there is a significant list. Since we know poverty is a cycle, chances are kids are never taught behaviors from parents that will lead to financial success, and they will rely on what they've seen, and repeat it, generally.
Maybe if you did not warp what I said, you would not be so confused right now, but lefties will argue themselves into pretzels to avoid acknowledging behavior is the issue. You really think I believe your all your clients made life decisions that should lead to financial success, and they are just getting held down by what ever -ism, billionaire, or boomer? Nonsense. Every single person, with the exception of disabled folks that were in the shelters with me, made bad decisions....those decisions were preceded by a laundry list of issues they experienced, mental illness, emotional trauma which always leads to some sort of disorder that leads to behavior that's not conducive for financial success, or no parents, or bad parents, or good parents but were not equipped with the skills to make good decisions, etc etc. I do not believe your experience is different than the multiple different shelters/programs I was a part of.
Last edited by itshotinvegas; 12-14-2019 at 11:42 PM.