Get it right,
I am currently`in the same boat as you. I, also, am a girl. I was a mortgage banking account executive and my company closed and filed bankruptcy owing me 45k over a yr ago. I have been doing some contract processing and odd jobs and working on my game since then. There has still not been any solid job offer. This isn't as easy to do as one would think. I switched my focus from sitngo to cash and personally like it better. However, it is a catch 22 because I need a bigger roll to generate more money safely and take out cash for expenses also at this point.
I downsized my bills and housing CONSIDERABLY and got my total monthly outgo down to 2k per month bare bones. I was only just learning poker when this all happened to me so I honestly am just at the point where I feel I have a real clue of what I am doing, after much study and practice. I have a positive roi in very small stakes sngs and mtts as alexsinn on stars but have always made more at cash thus far. I have focused more on cash as welll too though. I feel great when all goes well, then a downswing hits and its mentaly brutal, lol.
If I did not do other things on the side, right now I could not just make it from poker yet. I urge you to not try to depend soley on this income yet at this point. Do a lot of bonus whoring to get your roll bigger and use for small extras.
If you dont mind my asking, on average how much are you generating daily doing your sets of 20.00 DONs? I think I would become suicidal playing that many of those, so kudos to you.
Hang in there. We will all get through this one way or the other. But, based on what I know of what is still outstanding on the secondary market, it is going to get way worse before it gets better.
I have lurked here daily for the last 2 years but rearely post. So yes guys, there ARE girls on 2+2 ,lol. I have learned more of the inner workings of the male psyche here than just about anywhere else, lol.