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Originally Posted by synth_floyd
That's why some people love to splash the dealers with big tips in small stakes games. It makes them feel powerful and in control and like they're "better" than the dealer. I guess it's like a mini-power trip.
I think this is a bit off. I overtip because as someone that has worked for tips in various facets of business (valet, bellman, poker dealer), I appreciate the fact that they choose to work in a mostly thankless job and their paychecks are mostly at the mercy of their customers. I do it to let them know that I'm on their side. I know there are probably some people that think/act like what you said, but it's very seldom the notion of "I'm better than you". Actually, now that you got me thinking about it, it's obvious that big tips are just paying money for attention, which is almost saying the opposite of "I'm better than you". It's saying "I'm giving you money to treat me like a king because otherwise I don't deserve it". It's often the most self centered and demanding people that end up being the lightest tippers. Oh, how lucky we are to have the privilege to serve them!
I dunno. I know I'm not the norm in the world as far as tipping goes, but I think I have a good understanding of people's motivations for doing the things they do. (caveat: most of the time)