Somehow ended up in this thread after being confused on why there is a "brick and mortar" and a "mortar and brick" subsection, so I clicked on each to see what difference was and ended up clicking this thread because of view count and the fact that I have played a lot of live poker in my day and my tipping policy has changed dramatically over the years.
The first thing I learned from this thread is that the B/M section has to have the highest iq per reg poster %. So many well thought out novel length pots with perfect punctuation and huge fancy words in the 30 pages of this thread that it actually hurts my intellectual ego because I consider myself of above avg intelligence. But with the amount of good content in this thread all over tipping, you would think this it was being debated by a bunch of members of MENSA .
Secondly, The Palimax has been owning this thread really hard in the last few pages, and as much as I hate to say it its true with regards to dealers.
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Originally Posted by The Palimax
You're paid to eat my crap and smile.
Ive seen dealers take so much **** from players time after time and have on numerous occasion stood up for the dealers, its just part of the job. Deal with it.
My tipping background/policy goes like this. I started playing live poker when I was sneaking into my local card room at 17 to play 3/6 hold em. Obviously didn't even know it was the norm, and took a few sessions to catch on to what was going on. I grinded live hold em at the same card room for probably 3-6 days a week for 3-4 years, starting at $3/6 and eventually moving up to 15/30 which was their big game. It was a card room of only like 7 tables and a smaller pool of dealers, so playing the amount of hours I got to know them all and saw them almost daily. At the time I really wanted to be what I would call a "known reg" I guess, where all the dealers and floors liked me and knew me. So for years I was tipping anywhere from $2-8 per hand all while playing small-mid stakes limit holdem, something that is obviously going to kill your winrate.
I finally found online poker and started to succeed at it when I was 22 and for like three years I didn't play live at all minus summers at wsop. After Black Friday I decided to start going back to the card room I had originally started playing at to play $30/60 a few days a month when I wasn't out of town/country. Even though it had been like three years since I had been there, it was literally all the same faces dealing. Everybody was obviously very cordial at the beginning because I had always been a very good tipper, but it was funny how things changed when I didn't tip so liberally. While playing online and learning about win rates and never having to tip, it made me realize that I had just been naive about tipping before and was cutting into my winnings pretty substantially. Now I was only tipping $1 per hand and the occasional 2-3 for big pots, good service etc.. Some of the dealers that used to always be so friendly, were now being cold and rude because I guess they were expecting more. Its almost all about the $ in the service industry, which if fine, but when the level of service/treatment is greatly impacted by how big of a tipper you are its crossing the line.
I now play almost exclusively live $10/20 and 25/50, and usually tip $1-3 on pots <5k and anywhere from 3-25 on >5k. I've never tipped more than $25 even on puts 30-40k, does that make me cheap?
Here are the few basic things that I am looking for in a dealer and will influence my level of generosity.
1.DO NOT INITIATE CONVERSATION!!!!
Over the years this has become by far my biggest pet peeve, and the thing that slows the game down the most and causes the most errors. Its ok to greet the table with a "How is everyone today?," but when a dealer starts making small talk with the players its literally the nut low. I would say <5% of the dealers are skilled enough that they can both make small talk and keep the game going with a good pace and no mistakes. Normally it just ends up with the dealer getting distracted and loosing the action, burning and turning too quickly etc..
2. Keep the speed of play reasonable
Some tables, especially bigger NL games are going to be a bit slower with lots of people going into the tank, but as a dealer be aware of when someone is thinking about a decision and when someone just clearly does not know that the action is on them.