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Originally Posted by LektorAJ
That's wrong. If you are friends with someone like that, imagine what happens if you get into a dispute with another of his friends, but one who is closer or has been his friend for longer.
Also reading between the lines, Zach was going to pay the full amount but his friends and family advised him he didn't have to, thus leading to his reputation being trashed.
Those are two very good reasons why fairness and objectiveness are the qualities a true friend offers - and that is particularly the case where mental illness is involved and the person isn't always seeing things straight themselves.
+1 to this, great post.
Zach clearly owes the money.
He is at a crossroads in his life. There are 2 clear paths to go down and he can take either one.
Ok, so he's broke and the $4k looks huge and he can't see how he can pay it, though I'm sure deep down he knows he should.
So make a payment plan. Break down the huge problem into smaller parts.
If his friends are telling him he shouldn't pay, they are giving him absolutely terrible advice. They need to give him good advice, not supporting 'my friend, right or wrong'.
And people need to start understanding the power of the internet and social media. This stuff is there FOREVER.
If Zach doesn't pay this, in 5 years or maybe, 10 years time, he will realise he's made a grave error. And it will have consequences that will make him think that $4k was nothing.
Can it be fixed? Yes, it can.
Pay dat man his maney.