Nits imo. If she's not married and not dating one of your friends, I don't see the issue.

uhh...you realize you guys are 0 for 2 against us?

u shouldn't feel bad at all. maybe pitty for the guy who's girlfriend is a whore and won't stop cheating/break up with him but that's about it. if you were friends with the guy it's completely different but you're not.

i slept with 3 girls who work at the same place and all had boyfriends and all of the boyfriends either suspected or found out about it. one of them was actually told right infront of me (by another, jealous, girl) the other night and I asked if he had any problems with me that we had to deal with and he said no and kinda laughed it off (sure he cried that night tho). in my experience most guys really don't want to get in a fight with another guy over something like that unless they are actually crazy.

SiQ, when you meet the crazy one you will probably die over it. Might be something to consider, as it sounds like you have a thing for women in relationships

cliffs on whats happening in here?

The world would be a much better place if we all followed the golden rule imo. If you don't want other dudes banging your girlfriend, don't bang other dudes' girlfriends.

^^ Pretty much what he said.

Sometimes they just have it coming.

oh, what a break through, thx. lol

Braggin: Got my Phish tickets this morning, show sold out in < 1 min!!

Venue looks like a super cool place to see them! Only 4k capacity, Slap Shot filmed there, MSG was modeled after this rink

Totally this ^^^. Get on MSN for pics imo. Sounds like you could probs hit again.

I shipped kid cudi tickets today and I'm pumped for that ****. Phish are a little too...Dave Matthews Band-y for me.

I look at it from the other side, I don't want my gf banging other dudes. Not I don't want other dudes banging my gf. If the gf is putting it out there, there is something wrong with the relationship anyway. She's probably just waiting for something better to come a long.

+1

entim i would **** her again for good measure :P

If people behaved in perfect rationality in relationships, then this argument can work. But, instead, people often behave in ways that they later regret or in ways that they would not have done if they had been thinking entirely rationally. This can be because of a variety of hormonal or emotional states among other things. So, to say that, because she's willing to cheat, the relationship must be doomed doesn't seem entirely correct.

Also, to those of you who say it's OK because she's not married, what is marriage supposed to change? Marriage seems to be just a formalization of an agreement that people in monogamous relationships already have (i.e. not to sleep with other people). Who cares if this agreement is legally recognized or not?

Eff the golden rule. Dont think WWJD. Think what would The Situation do.

Sorry, I wasn't thinking rationally/was in a hormonal state when I acted on said thoughts/emotions and sat with durrrr for a couple off buy-ins. I'm really very $$ responsible. Could you please stake me again?

It's one thing to feel something/have your mind out of sorts, it's a whole other to act on said thoughts/emotions when you know (or as an adult should know 100%) of the negative consequences of said actions. The chance of that relationship being successful are much closer to zero than 100%, and of the times it "works" it's probably a case of the dude just being the biatch in the relationship and getting run over every which way.

The question of responsibility is different. I'm not claiming that the girlfriend is not responsible for her actions. I'm also not claiming that her boyfriend ought to forgive her.

To be clear -- I'm making a pretty specific claim. I'm saying that we cannot see that she's willing to cheat and say, ipso facto, that the relationship is doomed. People can cheat in relationships and the relationship can continue, people can be disposed to cheat, fail to act on it, and later determine that they want to stay in the relationship. So, her wanting to cheat is not the same thing as them breaking up.

I'm not sure what likelihood to assign to this relationship working out, but I'm not sure how much it matters. I think the general principle here is that we ought not aid people in breaking important promises to others and we ought do things that could cause emotional pain to others. Sleeping with her violates these, so it's wrong. It's especially wrong because there's an easy alternative -- wait for her to break up with him and then sleep with her.

I'll stake you gramps. I know you didn't mean it. My mom hates you, but she doesn't know you like I do. She doesn't see the tender moments.

One of the factors was that a mutual friend told me that the guy in question was SIMILAR to me, and being a little competitive I felt obliged to **** over my entim opposition

KB obv won't be disappointed with msn pics

imo if you feel bad you feel bad, if you don't you don't. It's your life after all. I'd also expect NE to say you should hit it

Where's my pics WTF let's be fb friends forever

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i5bOcsHYm8I

nsfwish

Thank you suzzer. When I got busto again, it will be a REALLY big emotional/funky-thoughts time, and I'll apologize even more than I did this time. I promise.

And man I had to hold back on the Mom jokes with that softball setup...

QFwin.