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04-08-2014 , 05:39 PM
jesus this is sad, backer has awful business sense, continues to back known loser like a horse with crippled legs, sometimes you gotta cut your losses and call it a day.

Asylum - please get a job that pays consistent money and stop dreaming about poker, if you cant beat $3r then you need to treat poker as a bit of fun
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04-09-2014 , 01:11 AM
OK, thanks to everyone for their patience. I had a PM exchange with demetri earlier today letting him know what we decided, and now I'll share that decision with everyone else.

For the tl; dr crowd, I'll start with this - demetri no longer has Marketplace Approval or a thread in the Offering Stakes forum, and can't seek horses on the forums. This could be temporary, depending on demetri's actions from here.

Here's my initial PM to demetri:

Quote:
Originally Posted by Bobo Fett
Sorry for the delay in wrapping this up.

This hasn't been an easy situation for us to deal with, in that it's not like some kind of cut-and-dry scam, but at the same time it can't be ignored either. If this latest situation was the first occurrence, it would be easy enough to say no big deal, give you a warning, and move on. But in this case, there was also the NVG jokeruis thread, and I've had many people tell me that this kind of behaviour is not at all out of character for you. And it's not like you lost your temper and snapped for a few minutes and raged at him, you did it repeatedly over several days.

Of course, you're entitled to run your business in any fashion you choose. But when you advertise with 2+2, or even when you just have Marketplace Approval, the way you run your business reflects on 2+2. I think it's in your best interest to handle things much differently, but that's up to you. But if you're going to do business with us in the future, you'll need to make some changes.

A lot of people have called for you to be banned - as far as I'm concerned, that was never on the table. If there had been threats made on 2+2, that would be different. However, it's not like it could never happen with activities outside of 2+2 - if, for example, someone was harassing and abusing people on Skype or via email as a spillover of 2+2 events, we might take action. But in this case, I didn't think such a thing was appropriate.

So, this is what I've come up with:

Marketplace Approval and paid thread removed for at least 6 months, and no seeking horses on the forums. After 6 months, we will review things if you want us to - said review will include putting the question on the forums as to whether any of your horses have been abused/berated in a similar fashion after today, and if they have, the suspension will more than likely be extended, and/or possibly made permanent. If the review comes up clean, we will consider reinstating privileges, but make no guarantees.

You've talked about hiring someone to do all the management of horses for you. If you take this additional step, we will consider doing this review early, at 3 months. Again, there is no guarantee that if you hire someone to manage your horses, you will have your privileges reinstated.

Buying pieces is something not controlled by Marketplace Approval (IE brand new accounts can do this), so we will not be restricting this.

I hope this all makes sense and is clear to you; please let me know if you have any questions.

Thanks,

Bob
Basically, if demetri would like to have Marketplace Approval and/or advertise with us, he'll need to change the way he does things. I know some people won't be happy and will think the suspension should be permanent, but I'd like to give demetri a chance to improve.
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04-09-2014 , 01:49 AM
^

Seems fair
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04-09-2014 , 08:05 AM
Quote:
Originally Posted by Bobo Fett
OK, thanks to everyone for their patience. I had a PM exchange with demetri earlier today letting him know what we decided, and now I'll share that decision with everyone else.

For the tl; dr crowd, I'll start with this - demetri no longer has Marketplace Approval or a thread in the Offering Stakes forum, and can't seek horses on the forums. This could be temporary, depending on demetri's actions from here.

Here's my initial PM to demetri:


Basically, if demetri would like to have Marketplace Approval and/or advertise with us, he'll need to change the way he does things. I know some people won't be happy and will think the suspension should be permanent, but I'd like to give demetri a chance to improve.
Not surprising but in the circumstances of this thread it is understandable the position you have taken.
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04-09-2014 , 11:01 AM
16k or not people that speak about my family like that might get buried
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04-09-2014 , 01:06 PM
grunch

JFC, What a ****ing psycho
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04-11-2014 , 04:54 AM
I am so glad I ended up accepting a different staking offer back when I was applying to stables.
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04-11-2014 , 12:39 PM
I think you need to relax a bit , the way u insulted him,
hes wasting a lot of his hours, yes hes losing .
But at least he didnt dissapear like most of the scammers do
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04-24-2014 , 06:53 AM
I still can't get all this talk about 'scamming' and 'breaking contracts' - is any of this legally written up/approved? 'Agreeing' to some staking document is hardly signing a legally-binding contract is it?
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04-25-2014 , 01:27 PM
Just read whole skype convo. I wonder what your private life is like Demetri, you sound like a legit psychopath.
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04-25-2014 , 09:21 PM
Why would you suspend his marketplace thread but leave this one open??

He doesn't really have an immediate opportunity to improve his image and reputation if he can't sell stakes but instead it can only be made worse if he continues to get demonized as is currently occurring. The decision is too one sided for me...
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04-26-2014 , 05:02 AM
Quote:
Originally Posted by bundy5
Why would you suspend his marketplace thread but leave this one open??

He doesn't really have an immediate opportunity to improve his image and reputation if he can't sell stakes but instead it can only be made worse if he continues to get demonized as is currently occurring. The decision is too one sided for me...
poor OP
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04-26-2014 , 10:13 AM
Glad someone is going to teach this **** some manners. Do it Ruse!!!!
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04-27-2014 , 11:18 AM
Not a nice way to talk to anyone!
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04-27-2014 , 07:10 PM
so backer posts on isreali forum how OP is a scammer and thief and "broke the rules". Then later admits OP never broke any rules nor scammed. Still that post is on the web for a day. just wow.

just forward the skypelog to Mossad.
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04-28-2014 , 08:14 AM
Quote:
Originally Posted by bundy5
Why would you suspend his marketplace thread but leave this one open??

He doesn't really have an immediate opportunity to improve his image and reputation if he can't sell stakes but instead it can only be made worse if he continues to get demonized as is currently occurring. The decision is too one sided for me...
I agree that the situation is essentially resolved from 2p2's end with Bobo's decision in the marketplace and this thread has run its course. If anyone has any information that they think needs to be added to this thread they can PM any of the MTTc mods to request we reopen it.
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09-20-2014 , 06:08 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by Bobo Fett
OK, thanks to everyone for their patience. I had a PM exchange with demetri earlier today letting him know what we decided, and now I'll share that decision with everyone else.

For the tl; dr crowd, I'll start with this - demetri no longer has Marketplace Approval or a thread in the Offering Stakes forum, and can't seek horses on the forums. This could be temporary, depending on demetri's actions from here.

Here's my initial PM to demetri:

Quote:
Originally Posted by Bobo Fett
Sorry for the delay in wrapping this up.

This hasn't been an easy situation for us to deal with, in that it's not like some kind of cut-and-dry scam, but at the same time it can't be ignored either. If this latest situation was the first occurrence, it would be easy enough to say no big deal, give you a warning, and move on. But in this case, there was also the NVG jokeruis thread, and I've had many people tell me that this kind of behaviour is not at all out of character for you. And it's not like you lost your temper and snapped for a few minutes and raged at him, you did it repeatedly over several days.

Of course, you're entitled to run your business in any fashion you choose. But when you advertise with 2+2, or even when you just have Marketplace Approval, the way you run your business reflects on 2+2. I think it's in your best interest to handle things much differently, but that's up to you. But if you're going to do business with us in the future, you'll need to make some changes.

A lot of people have called for you to be banned - as far as I'm concerned, that was never on the table. If there had been threats made on 2+2, that would be different. However, it's not like it could never happen with activities outside of 2+2 - if, for example, someone was harassing and abusing people on Skype or via email as a spillover of 2+2 events, we might take action. But in this case, I didn't think such a thing was appropriate.

So, this is what I've come up with:

Marketplace Approval and paid thread removed for at least 6 months, and no seeking horses on the forums. After 6 months, we will review things if you want us to - said review will include putting the question on the forums as to whether any of your horses have been abused/berated in a similar fashion after today, and if they have, the suspension will more than likely be extended, and/or possibly made permanent. If the review comes up clean, we will consider reinstating privileges, but make no guarantees.

You've talked about hiring someone to do all the management of horses for you. If you take this additional step, we will consider doing this review early, at 3 months. Again, there is no guarantee that if you hire someone to manage your horses, you will have your privileges reinstated.

Buying pieces is something not controlled by Marketplace Approval (IE brand new accounts can do this), so we will not be restricting this.

I hope this all makes sense and is clear to you; please let me know if you have any questions.

Thanks,

Bob
Basically, if demetri would like to have Marketplace Approval and/or advertise with us, he'll need to change the way he does things. I know some people won't be happy and will think the suspension should be permanent, but I'd like to give demetri a chance to improve.
All right, time to revisit this.

demetri PMed me about this a couple of months ago, in the summer. He's apparently got someone running his stable now, which is good to hear.

For a variety of reasons on my end, I've left this much longer than I should have, so I want to thank demetri for his patience with me. He's handled that wait pretty well, which I think is also a good sign - of course it's not the way he handles his relationship with me, but with his backers that was the issue.

I wanted to get a little community feedback before moving any further with this. I'm hoping people can set aside any personal dislike they may have for demetri when giving their opinions. Whether demetri is likable or not really isn't the issue. The problem here was that he had taken things much past being disagreeable, to being abusive with some of his horses. However, I said before, and I'll say it again now, I believe people sometimes deserve another chance. demetri has sat out his suspension and been very patient with me, and he has taken the step of getting someone to manage things. If we allow demetri full permissions again, this thread will still be here for people to see. We could possibly make a link to this thread a requirement in his Offering Stakes thread, if we allow him one again.

I'm hoping we might hear from some people that have dealt with his new manager. A parade of people extolling demetri's virtues probably won't go over well with the crowd, but I'd still like to hear from some who have experienced this change in management first hand, whether their experience is positive or negative.

Something I want to be clear about - on 2+2's end, this is not about the money. The $150/month or $1,000/year is not going to make or break 2+2 or me. Our Offering Stakes forum has a healthy number of threads already. This is about fairness and redemption. If we want people to change the way they do things, I think it's only fair that we allow for second chances.

I'm sure my post is giving away which way I'm leaning. And this isn't going to be decided by a democratic vote. But I promise you I will read every post and I am capable of doing so with an open mind. Even if I decide against the majority, that doesn't mean your posts weren't carefully considered. And there's also a whole spectrum of ways we could give a second chance - from unfettered access to everything now, to taking this step by step on a short term basis.

So, fire away I guess. But maybe not so much "firing" - it would be nice if we could make this a constructive thread and not a flame war.

Edit to add: The plan is to come to a decision on this by the end of the month at the latest; sooner if possible.

Last edited by Bobo Fett; 09-20-2014 at 06:18 PM.
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09-20-2014 , 06:43 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by Bobo Fett
All right, time to revisit this.

demetri PMed me about this a couple of months ago, in the summer. He's apparently got someone running his stable now, which is good to hear.

For a variety of reasons on my end, I've left this much longer than I should have, so I want to thank demetri for his patience with me. He's handled that wait pretty well, which I think is also a good sign - of course it's not the way he handles his relationship with me, but with his backers that was the issue.

I wanted to get a little community feedback before moving any further with this. I'm hoping people can set aside any personal dislike they may have for demetri when giving their opinions. Whether demetri is likable or not really isn't the issue. The problem here was that he had taken things much past being disagreeable, to being abusive with some of his horses. However, I said before, and I'll say it again now, I believe people sometimes deserve another chance. demetri has sat out his suspension and been very patient with me, and he has taken the step of getting someone to manage things. If we allow demetri full permissions again, this thread will still be here for people to see. We could possibly make a link to this thread a requirement in his Offering Stakes thread, if we allow him one again.

I'm hoping we might hear from some people that have dealt with his new manager. A parade of people extolling demetri's virtues probably won't go over well with the crowd, but I'd still like to hear from some who have experienced this change in management first hand, whether their experience is positive or negative.

Something I want to be clear about - on 2+2's end, this is not about the money. The $150/month or $1,000/year is not going to make or break 2+2 or me. Our Offering Stakes forum has a healthy number of threads already. This is about fairness and redemption. If we want people to change the way they do things, I think it's only fair that we allow for second chances.

I'm sure my post is giving away which way I'm leaning. And this isn't going to be decided by a democratic vote. But I promise you I will read every post and I am capable of doing so with an open mind. Even if I decide against the majority, that doesn't mean your posts weren't carefully considered. And there's also a whole spectrum of ways we could give a second chance - from unfettered access to everything now, to taking this step by step on a short term basis.

So, fire away I guess. But maybe not so much "firing" - it would be nice if we could make this a constructive thread and not a flame war.

Edit to add: The plan is to come to a decision on this by the end of the month at the latest; sooner if possible.

since this thread i have taken on around 8-10 more horses ,with no problems

i have bought %%% of people in the market place .with no problems

i even had a problem getting my money from daniel negreanu as i had a %%% of his one drop ,no problem my end

(" This is Daniel Negreanu. Wanted to apologize personally about the mix up with the transfer and let you know that I'm going to handle it personally right now. I just sent over $20k and once I have confirmation you received it, I'll be able to send over the rest. I wasn't aware the bank ****s you so hard on wire transfers! That's absurd. Anyway, we will get you squared away.")

the few horses that have left me since this thread was made have done so because they have gone on there own.not because of a problem or getting a better deal

so i can get them plus more to post how great things have been run,but i did that already and don't see the point in that

the problem i had with the person who made this thread has also been resolved .lets not forget he broke rules and was rude to me to .but i then went over board and was very rude to him...that is all (he can post in here to confirm all of this if need be)

just to confirm when you have over 40 horses and you offer the best deals around you will have problems .horses going missing ,breaking rules etc etc

i try to not go so mad any more ,but you still have to tell them of and have a go at them.that it what a boss/partner/manger should do

not so long ago i went over my 300th horses,i have been scammed 3 times total and had 2 problems where i blew up and shouted at them and called them names for stealing and breaking rules

no hit men ,no one got hurt ,no one died etc etc

so a 99% record is not bad imo
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09-21-2014 , 05:19 AM
reinstating demetri fully would be a joke.
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09-21-2014 , 07:07 AM
Damn why'd you delete your post demitri? Day 1 and we almost already had a demitri blowup I think your best bet is to just not post at all and use your account strictly for buying action and other business related things. Gl sir
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09-21-2014 , 07:09 AM
Quote:
Originally Posted by dalaxthedonk
Damn why'd you delete your post demitri? Day 1 and we almost already had a demitri blowup I think your best bet is to just not post at all and use your account strictly for buying action and other business related things. Gl sir
i did not delete it ,Bobbo did and took away zima's "staking" in his location

we have to pay for that on 2+2 ,he has been advertising for free!!!...hence me saying that is a joke to

which is fair comment ah !?

(and really a blow up ?,lol.he said it was a joke me being on 2+2 .yet he breaks there rules all the time and advertises for free.i thought that should be highlighted imo)

no blow up dude ,just a fair comment
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09-21-2014 , 07:26 AM
Ahh fair enough. Just seemed like you were trying to get into a little confrontation already, on your first day back. Just keep it cool and you should be fine man.
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09-21-2014 , 09:32 AM
ever since this thread has happened me and demetri have came to an agreenment that i will grinding the MU whenever i can. So far i have only played like 500 sng's in half a year which is nothing but he has yet to say or do anything bad. he's been patient and understanding that im focusing on real life job and i also spent a month in half in army during the summer so havnt really touched poker much. we have also agreed that at no point whatsoever i play a tournie that isnt the 3r180's without a permission for him. and he at no point what so ever can ever insult/threaten and post further information of mine over the web or the entire deal is gone down the drain. he was also kind enough to chop the fpp's i had stacked up since the begining of our deal which he didnt have too.
as i stated all throuout this thread i never wanted to dump the deal and always showed how i want to grind back the money lost. now that its a little easier to talk to him i beliave at some point this will all be over clean.
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09-21-2014 , 10:07 AM
Leaving aside personal feelings as suggested seems like there's no reason not to move on then imo, im sure Bobo will be on top of it if anyone posts anything else.

I think this thread highlighted some of the problems that easily crop up in the staking business, but also that things can help get resolved with input from a wide variety of views.

It also highlighted how easy it is, on the Internet, to both sound like a ****** and go way way overboard while sitting behind a computer and trying to quickly verbalise your thoughts on an emotive issue. Myself included.

Not having the benefit of normal conversation in person is really difficult if you let things get away from you.

Hopefully it all remains ancient history.
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09-21-2014 , 10:48 AM
Quote:
Originally Posted by fivetypes
Leaving aside personal feelings as suggested seems like there's no reason not to move on then imo, im sure Bobo will be on top of it if anyone posts anything else.

I think this thread highlighted some of the problems that easily crop up in the staking business, but also that things can help get resolved with input from a wide variety of views.

It also highlighted how easy it is, on the Internet, to both sound like a ****** and go way way overboard while sitting behind a computer and trying to quickly verbalise your thoughts on an emotive issue. Myself included.

Not having the benefit of normal conversation in person is really difficult if you let things get away from you.

Hopefully it all remains ancient history.
i'm in shock

and thank you
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