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Originally Posted by Beerocrat
guys that had a bachelor party - did you only invite friends you invited to the wedding?
Would it be an insult to be invited to the bach party and not the wedding?
We are trying to keep the guest list small since it is at our house, and my family alone is like 30 ppl (that's what happens with 9 sisters)
I've been invited to and attended 3 bachelor parties of fraternity brothers where I wasn't invited to the wedding. Big weddings, but situation where good friend from 10 years ago who I rarely see, and never hang out alone with. But some of their best friends are my friends too, so I got a casual "Round 2" BP invite and accepted fully.
If it's a small wedding, even more reason to invite more people to your BP and them to be understanding cool with it. Unless it's a "Oh, so-and-so was invited but not me when I thought we were as good of friends, etc." But that's more acting like a chick.
You can always throw a bigger post-wedding bash (even a few weeks or a month later) that includes all your male/female friends that didn't attend the wedding.