I kept looking at this thread and up until now have yet to open it. Guess I just figured I knew what was inside already, a lot of love for thelipofund. I was right. So, I suppose it wouldn't hurt to share my thoughts of this young man from a more personal perspective.
I lived with Marty for a few years (2 or so I think?). In that time I learned more about poker than I ever would have had I let things run its natural course. I could also argue that everything happens for a reason and that meeting Marty and then living with him was all apart of "the plan" thus the natural course of life. Either way, I came out on top as far as I'm concerned. Although, he still owes me a personal session for my birthday which I couldn't get him to stay off 2+2 long enough to give me. He is a very active person and hates any down time at all. I'll try to explain Marty from my POV..
For one, Marty is a terrible basketball player but he claims he played previously in high school or something :P. For someone as uncoordinated as him, he holds his own, though. As far as tennis goes, we are both on the same level and he was always fun to play with. We were always out of shape and so after an hour we were dragging ourselves around the court. He has a nasty drop shot and an even sicker return with lots of topspin. I'd like to play again with him perhaps in Vegas vs other sub par tennis players like ourselves. I haven't seen him play any other sports but I'm sure he can hold his own in them as well. The likable thing about Marty and sports is that he will always put forth an effort and rarely finds himself embarrassed for trying; its certainly admirable in that regard.
Marty is truly a very talented poker player as many of you know already just from playing with him online. Outside of poker Marty's greatness definitely flows into his real life. It shouldn't come as any surprise that he maintained an excellent GPA throughout high school and college. The man is a genius and bursts my bubble every time I mention my 31 ACT score by reminding me of his 35. He is a superb student and so dedicated to learning (but more so just graduating) he walked to class for his last semester of college. It was probably about 6 miles roundtrip. Most of you would've consider this impossible. Although, I do think he started to take cab rides when it would rain and also started to after he shipped a few large field MTTs. Understandable, though.
He isn't exactly known for being a huge giver at least not in the monetary sense. In fact, he once told a homeless man, who begged him
by name, that "theres no such thing as a free lunch" as he strolled right past his cries and shouts for mercy. Marty isn't a pushover by any means. His mercilessness and poker winnings could have some correlation. However, when it comes to people he loves, he would give them anything (w/in reason of course).
He is quick to ask if someone needs a hand with something and even faster to catch a friend if he sees him falling.
I've had a back and forth relationship with Marty where he has treated me poorly one day and the next day like we were best friends. I played it off as just one of the experiences of living with others. Its not always easy. I had conflicts with Marty over various things in the past. I was viewed as a moocher and/or freeloader for quite a long time, perhaps still to this day, I'm not sure. This, if you recall how I described Marty's feelings about people like that, often made Marty upset with me. I understand it better now that he was more disgusted with my lack of motivation to better myself as well as who I was in general, asset-less and busto. So, we have had our differences in the past because of that. I probably smoked his bananas too often, used his car/gas a lot, and ate too many of his groceries. However, I'm pretty certain that because our taste in music, films, women, and life in general we were able to get along quite well considering I was a sad broke b*tch.
Marty introduced me to so many beautiful aspects of life. Outside of introductions to artists I listen to and still follow to this day, amazing films, games, books, people; most importantly I learned to be more selfish with my time and money. Its a disease that our beloved fish are cursed with. They don't know how to be selfish enough to hold on to their money and thus lose it into poker where Marty and other sickos promptly withdraw it and then rarely lose it back. It wasn't a lesson where he sat me down and explained it to me. It was just a daily display that after viewing for so long I finally understood what I was looking at. In fact, a lot of lessons I learned from Marty were learned without a single word being exchanged. It was just some kind of understanding that I had to grasp most of the time.
Thats why this..
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-network, network, network. meet people, meet the people they know, and then meet those people and the people they dont even know yet.
..is so important. It seems simple enough but truly something most of you don't understand well enough otherwise you would be on more nuts than you are. You gain so much by just talking to others. Listening to the way they speak, how they think, their rationale, point of view, understanding of, and so forth, its all important. More often than not you couldn't possibly absorb everything in one day, two, three or even longer. After time, you start to see whats going on and understand it all better. I'm sure I didn't pester Marty enough when I was living with him for poker knowledge. Its my only regret now.
Now, I'm never really too sure that when I write something on here I'm not upsetting anyone or making an ass out of myself. I just start typing and let free whatever my flow of consciousness feels. I let it out through words. So, while I feel I could continue writing about this great individual and the many things he has done to impact my life personally, I will keep the post reasonable in both content and length.
Marty, I hope I haven't said anything out of line or untrue. I believe I portrayed you honestly and in a fair light. I think you are one of the greatest of all time and deserve every last cent that you win/earn. I do appreciate everything you have done for me in the past and one day when I finally "make it" I will give much credit to you and what I gained from having you in my life. You've been a great friend to me and I hope you feel the same about me.
Congrats on your 10k post and 2p2 should feel honored to have such an amazing person as part of this community.
-Leeroy