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Originally Posted by FlyWf
Pussy is more problematic that misogynist, because of how it reinforces traditional gender roles, sexualizes the concept of weakness, etc.
But...
Nah, let's stop at the "But" and really explore your rationalization a bit.
Question: What is a problematic form of communication that reinforces gender roles and, in particular, sexualizes the concept of weakness and other undesirable traits as being inherently feminine?
Answer:
SEXIST SLURS.
Follow up: What would you call the minimization of slurs as being merely problematic?
Answer: RATIONALIZATION.
Anyway, Melissa McEwan buys into your theory, Fly, of using labels to ID all misogynists, big and small, as a means to not pardon those who are less flagrant...such as yourself! She writes at FinallyFeminism101, among other places, and puts it better than I can.
"...reserving these terms (misogynist, sexist, racist) for the extremes allows people to, "rationalize away such incidents because a real racist burns a cross on someone’s lawn, or ties a black man to the back of a truck and drags him until his limbs fall off.” Reserving “misogynist” (or “sexist”) for equivalent displays of contempt for women means that a guy who flippantly refers to another guy as a **** (or a bitch, or a pussy, or a girl) can justify it with assertions that he isn’t a misogynist
Here's an exerpt from an EverydayFeminism article.
"Think about the implications of this. ****, a word literally meaning vagina, is the most offensive word you can hurl at someone.
And don’t even get me started on the common use of pussy to put a man down.
Vaginas are offensive. Vaginas are dirty. Vaginas are insulting. Being associated with all of that? What could be worse? Nothing, apparently, according to society. And yet the average person doesn’t even think about this, doesn’t even make the connection. This shows the sexism ingrained in our culture."
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#dudeliterally should stop making excuses for using this language as it undermines you and sets a poor example for those you vehemently oppose ITF. Plus, it disallows you from calling us out on using sexist language, which basically would cut your posting frequency in half. Finally, being that you recognize your own misogynistic tendencies, you should slow the f*** down with hurling insults whenever it is you get a whiff of those you consider to be MRAs, or whatever else might trigger your mania.