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Originally Posted by djj6835
I hate to be a rules nit but I guess it's better to says something before it actually matters. I was playing a few weeks ago and this guy to my right was habitually folding out of turn. It wasn't on accident, he just clearly didn't care but nobody every said anything, including me because I didn't wan't to seem like a dick. Eventually he gets in a pot that gets to the river three way where he's last to act after the aggressor. The aggressor ends up bluffing the river and of course the one guy folds out of turn making it a much easier call for the guy in the middle who calls and wins. I would have been really pissed if I was the guy who lost the pot.
The problem is 90% of these people are idiots and they get all butt hurt when you ask them to play by the rules. The consequence is that people let these small things slide in the interest of avoiding conflict. I'm clearly guilty of doing the same thing. It amazes me how pissed off I've seen people get when players or dealers simply remind them of the rules.
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Originally Posted by MrFizzbin2
What did you expect the dealer to do ? Flog her ? Call her a stupid bitch and tell her to pay attention ? Really ???
If its the first time a dealer sees an minor infraction he should be polite and remind the player to follow rules. If its been a long or frustrating session players can have mental lapses just let it go.
Your first part was unfortunate but are you sure that your hands were not making any motions that might be misunderstood as a check ??
I was just upset because 1) this particular woman tilts the isht out of me 2) the dealer is the chattiest dealer ever. He's a nice guy, but way way too talkative in big spots (and overall) 3) the dealer didn't even flinch when she walked away effectively folding out of turn 4) the dealer was way too nice in asking her to not fold out of turn when she returned to the table. 5) mainly this woman just tilts me.
I'm sure I'm also being a bit nitty, but it seemed to rain on me tonight w/ weird things happening. I ended up mentioning it to the floor after the next incident, in which I played a hand that lasted nearly 10 minutes. I checked river heads-up and villain tanked for ~5 minutes. During this time, players not in the hand were whispering about it, including a player on my right (not in the hand) addressing the tanking player "xxx do you know its on you?" (to be fair the player on my right was being sincere, but he still should not address a player in the tank) and the lady on my left asked the dealer for a clock, but the dealer informed her that only I could call the clock. I then asked the dealer stop people from talking about the hand in progress "this is kind of a big spot." I think that comment actually may have helped me though as it made me sound weak.
Re: the check - I am sure I didn't move or check - I play regularly and when I take an action, the dealer and players know. The dealer just made a mistake and normally it would've been quickly caught as I spoke up instantly however the villain had turned his hand up instantly as well. It was just unfortunate. I still tipped her.