I have read the whole post, and realize that depression is not something that is easily empathized with. So, getting medical help is great, and once you make some progress, read this again, and know I am not trying to be mean.
But. Think about what you are writing, and where you are in relation to many others. I know feelings are individual, and inward turning, but sometimes a little gratefulness goes a long way. You sound like you have ZERO empathy for others, yet. Maybe it is maturity, maybe it was so much poker, maybe, maybe, maybe. Grow up. (but only after you get over the depression
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Hey guys,
Used to play high stakes quite a bit, then got pretty depressed and had to move down. In the end I left with roughly $150k in savings.
Many folks play poker for years and have nothing to show for it. Some because they never won much, others because like Shane Schleger says of himself, he thought it would never end, and he wasted a lot of it.
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I am totally over poker now and its really time for something else. Unfortunately I am very much struggling with this.
so you played so much you burned out on it. Happens to many players. Some regroup, go back, others move on. Pick one. If you like the path, great, if not, pick the other one.
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I went to an okay, nothing fancy, university and got a degree in economics with some small delay and a mediocre GPA of 3.4 (this was while I still was playing poker).
Your parents and your school will both be very happy to know how low you rated the quality of this education. If the parents paid for it, SHAME ON YOU. Maybe you should think about how spoiled you sound. An 'Okay , nothing fancy University that others would kill to have the opportunity to attend, and yet you managed a 'mediocre GPA'? wow, ask the psychologist about that one...
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I took 6 months after that travel, in the hopes I would find a spark in life but I havent, and here I am now. I am struggling what I truly want to do in life and poker burned me out a lot.
Six months of travel sounds like a great opportunity to get in touch with how others live. Yet all you found out is that you have no 'spark' ? Sounds to me like yet again, SPOILED! You spent 180 days looking around at new places and did not see others engaged in life? Did not see how others handled the stress of living? Did you not notice that most everyone else was working? Struggling maybe to survive and provide for others? Or did you spend your time at Starbucks wondering how hot the latte was ? I find it hard to believe that someone who set out to find a spark could not do so in 6 months...
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I truly regret ever starting with poker, it made me disconected with society, not building up friendships outside of poker, not getting any real life expierences (on professional level). Especially with my results compared to other students who have superb GPAs, are going to top grad universities because of that, and good internship expierence.
well, try and see it from the other side. From their point of view, you have nothing in common with them. Most people form bonds based on common experiences. That is one reason why the super rich sometimes feel isolated. Their experiences and concerns rarely match the general society. You know what it is like to bluff more than a months salary into a pot. And maybe lose, and try it again the very next round. You have swings in a day that others have never, and WILL NEVER experience. Your relationship with money is far different than theirs. You see money as a tool. Others see the same $150,ooo after graduation, but it is their STUDENT LOAN, not their BANK BALANCE after four years. Some students look at a 3.4 as anything BUT MEDIOCRE.
Grow up.
This is really harsh sounding, and if you needing medical help, please ignore all of this until you get better. But once you do, read it again. And again.
My number one piece of advice is to find a charitable cause and volunteer. Go to a soup kitchen, stand in line serving others. Learn how bad it can be. Maybe you have the same mental health issues some of the folks going through the line have. But at least you have a safety net they lack. See the other side of fence.
Many in life go through seeing the 'grass is greener on the other side'. My advice is to look for brown grass. You seem to think you have it so bad. But step back and really look. A roof and warm bed, provided by parents that love and worry about you. Plenty of money to give you time to work through whatever issues you have presently. And time.
Being young, with money in the bank, and little financial pressure is a good spot. It is the definition of "Opportunity".
Sadly, too much choice can be debilitating for some. Sounds like this may be an issue with you.
In the meantime, volunteer! It will get you out int the general society. Folks who need help, on both sides of the equation will be happy you are there. And you can go from there.
my two cents.
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