I'm TimmyOx, or one who's been allowed his power of attorney....nah, it's me.
At DopeyMcDope's insistence, I am going to attempt (I say 'attempt' because I feel like the court of public opinion has already spoken, and usually doesn't change its mind) to clear the air.
I will preface my defense by saying that these forums can be very good, and they can also resemble the lunch table of girls at a middle school cafeteria. A bunch of people with half-truths making hasty assumptions and gaining allies through mob mentality tactics.
And before I get into the discrepancy at hand (reimbursement of funds), I want to address my table image/chat issues. There's no justification for that. The stress of playing 300-400 games a day gets to me. I'm human, and I have anger issues when it comes to poker. Outside of poker, I am a completely different person, believe it or not. I'm working on it. So please disregard that from what's really the topic. Let's be objective and not muddy the water here.
Okay, so this disconnection policy with regs.
1.) Not all regs do this, for one to assume that all should is awfully bold
2.) Get solid internet. That's your issue, not mine. I've lost over 6k in disconnects this year.
3.) I have played over 100,000 sngs and not once have I ever asked/petitioned/demanded reimbursement from any given player, nor do I expect them to
4.) I am not your peoples' friend. I have no alliance to you, nor should you to me. We are all here to make money.
5.) Is the money you take from fish from disc's less important to them, or are they less entitled to that money than a reg? It's so god damn smug of the poker community that believes it's okay to do this with fish, but not for regs. Not to mention, it's hypocrisy in its purest form, and it's difficult to hold a moral high ground when the diatribe preached about what is fair and what is not fair is completely ignored in the next heartbeat.
6.) If I understand the inherent risks of ONLINE poker, and do not ask for refunds from players, isn't that much more mature a notion than "I am entitled to this money because I'm a reg, and I've earned it (my stripes and the $60 now in your cashier)." From what I gather, the major reason for regs refunding other players is to calm the waters and prevent potential fallout from the aforementioned mob; it's fear of consequence, an image thing, or assumption of a future quid pro quo. One thing I can tell for sure is that it's not an issue of morality. If that were the case, I would expect all of you to reimburse ever fish you play for disconnects. Sorry for holding the mirror up to you.
7.) So I have a different policy or belief about disc's than the majority of you. So that means release the hounds?
As for the picture posted on facebook. It had nothing to do about robbing anyone. I did not see that he was disconnected and sit his lobbies to get free money. The $200 one he had 40 chips left, for the record; and one of the 115s I was overwhelming chip favorite. So really, we're talking about one 115 and one 60. That's what we're quabbling about. The picture was posted on my best friend's wall because we had lived in the Bahamas, where the internet was notoriously bad. Together, we've lost over $10,000 in disc's in the time we lived there. Our disdain for disc's and poor internet was unparalleled. So when I posted the picture, it was to the effect of "hey buddy, finally regaining some FREEV (free EV) that we've lost in the last year or so. Essentially, that our green line and red line for disconnections could possibly even meet (not going to happen....ever. I assure you. I've lost too much in these already). It had nothing to do with atomfred or the fact that the money was "stolen" or whatever you'd like to call it.
The way that a lot of you decide to gang up on people after being presented with half of a story is quite reprehensible and devoid of tact.
I'll leave it at that. If you want to know anything else, contact me. Thanks for the few who defended me or my belief. It's much appreciated. As for those who spoke ill of me, it's just as scummy as anything I've ever written in a chatbox on ftp or stars.
Regards,
Tim