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Originally Posted by TroothSayer
The absolute best thing for you would be for you to admit you’re not very good at poker. You need to start from there. This might motivate you to study more effectively and discover why you aren’t beating the easiest games on the internet for a decent bb/100
Studying effectively is for sure a big thing and something that gets better over time. As for me I've mostly studied theory and areas I find interesting, because that keeps me motivated. Interesting doesn't always mean effective or particularly useful, in terms of profitability. I'm aware of this and priorities need some work.
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Like I mentioned before I've had some struggles. For years I've had low self-esteem, stress, demotivation, slight depression and so on. Nothing what I would say is unusual for a human being, but definitely something limiting me being my best self, which is not how I want to live my life. On paper my life looks great: I've graduated, I've done decent in my career so far, I have a lot of hobbies I like (including poker), I've progressed a lot as a person and I've got amazing friends and family.
My mind has been all over the place for several years, and it's gotten to a point where everything feels pointless because I've been unable to focus on anything fully. Every good feeling gets overwritten with something else, and every bad feeling is overwritten in the same way. It's hard to explain, and I don't understand it fully myself. But the result is kind of an emotional flatline where I can't fully take in negative or positive emotions. About a month ago I just sat down and cried, in a way I haven't for a long time. And it was one of the best feelings I've had in years. I was actually legit sad and could feel it to my bone. Something triggered this, and it wasn't random, but the direct cause for it was irrelevant. The most important thing was that I felt something, and I let out everything else that had nothing to do with the thing triggering the feelings. I'm slowly feeling more emotions, both good and bad, and it makes me very optimistic.
I've wondered if this type of emotional flatline is due to poker, but it's not, because I've had this for so long. But I'm positive poker makes people less receptive to emotions over time, handling a ton of emotional rollercoasters week in and week out, and working on making it less impactful on decisions. What I'd like to think is that poker helps you acknowledging emotions and studying them, but in the process I'm sure you get a bit more numb anyway.
During these two months or so, I haven't thought about poker much at all. Even though I've had moments where I felt motivated to play. Still gonna get back to the grind, but not just gonna jump into it like I never had a break. I'm feeling better than ever now mentally, and bringing back the grind is starting to feel like a good decision. Before the break grinding felt like an obligation in an already stressful environment with my new job and a list of other things, and I don't want it to feel like that, at least not most of the days. Instead of playing poker I've been been outdoors a ton, and socialized a lot more than before. I'm realizing I need to socialize a bit more, even if I originally though I don't need it that much. I also went to a psychologist a couple times through work, which helped me find a direction on what to work on.
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My poker goals have not been my priority for a while, and they might need some adjustments getting back. It is what it is.
Talk to you later guys
Thanks for reading and making sure I'm alive lol.
Some pictures summing up the past 2 months: