~~~been in kinda a negative mood lately due to some RL friend drama, it definitely shows in my recent responses in this thread. sorry guys I want to be better than that
much of my friend circle is through meetup.com so it is very inclusive, and I struggle with co-existing with people I dislike. I think this even shows through online as well, as I've literally quit PG&C'ing before multiple times because of how bad I feel when someone (e.g., upswinging, who I now realize I should be thankful for) makes me feel like my life choices are garbage. But then when I'm in a better state of mind I think, hmmm why do I care so much about someone whose posts are 50%+ negative, clearly they are not making better life choices than me
But yea, I'm struggling with some IRL stuff where basically I don't want to hang out with a bunch of mutual friends because of how anxious I feel with 1 specific person, I think I haven't really been dedicating enough time to solve this problem. Instead I've literally just been hanging out with a different friend group- which has been great, I met my girlfriend through that, but I don't want to be results oriented. I just super rarely hate anyone so when it does happen I really no idea how to deal with it, I don't want to make fake amends because I don't think I will ever respect them
I do feel like I finally took step 1 which is really recognizing how badly this issue is affecting me