Sup guys. Can't believe it's been nearly 2 months since my last post but here it goes.
April was a terrible month for me. I completely lost myself mentally and had one of the worst depressive spells in recent memory. Everything fell to ****. Fitness; nutrition; mental-health; sleeping habits; and of course poker. Whilst there was some non-poker stuff that I think heavily contributed to this, I have to say that I did very little to help myself and have to look inwards for answers as to why I allowed things to get so bad. I know what I need to do to give myself the foundations to make progress in all areas but I did very little of that and meekly succumbed to whatever stresses I was going through.
WRT poker specifically I lost sight of the bigger picture. Volume was garbage (little more than 25k hands) and general productivity was garbage too. I've been plagued by this nagging doubt that maybe I don't have what it takes and that I'm too simple-minded to ever truly achieve much in this game, and when I indulge those sort of terrible negative beliefs it completely crushes me. I've been heartened in recent times by messages from a few guys in my stable though, who have expressed feeling similar ways at times. One of those guys recently posted about the doubts they had as a struggling 25nl grinder. That guy is now a 10k (k!) nl crusher.
Anyway, it's made me realise that there must be a graveyard of former poker players who allowed similar beliefs to fester and quit too early. Maybe if those guys had persevered they'd be the ones crushing 200nl+ by now. It also made me realise I am a member of the graveyard. From 2013-2015 I grinded 180s hard, put in a lot of work but lost myself mentally and effectively left the game for several years.
If I had been stronger mentally and carried on persevering who knows where this graph would be by now? I don't want to become a corpse again and, whilst I haven't had any overt suggestions that this is a possibility, I do have to be aware that if I don't pick things up and start showing signs that I can be consistent in my efforts, maybe my backers might decide that there is a queue of grinders who would better utilise the amazing opportunity that being a member of bitB presents. I'd be devastated if that happened because it truly is a world-class stable and I love being a part of it, but I haven't made the most of this opportunity so far and there has to be big improvements in the near future.
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There were a couple of positives in April. I played a small amount of volume at 50NL and, whilst I was definitely a bit shaky during those sessions, I do think I'm technically competent at the level. One of the guys in my stable was also kind enough to send me his HUD which I semi got used to during the last days of April, so that should be a big help moving forwards as my previous HUD was not fit for purpose despite a lot of hard work having gone into its creation.
And finally, the site move that I was talking about a few months ago is finally close to happening. It's been delayed due to a series of unfortunate circumstances but I'm basically 99% certain it'll happen in the next few days. The plan is to play X amount of hands at 20nl and then, once I'm all setup and used to the software, move up to 50. With the deal we have effective rake should be a decent amount lower so I'm really looking forward to the switch.
I've got a bunch of **** to do over the next few hours but I'll drop by later and set some goals for the evening. I want to be a lot more active in this thread than I have been and hold my feet to the fire, then once I've moved sites I can start setting long-term goals again. I'm also looking forward to not checking results again as I've been checking daily for a while now (and even sometimes during sessions
) and I know it's aids for me mentally. Once I've moved I'll make that a thing so that I'm not swinging from feeling like I'm the next Ivey one day to feeling like collecting trolleys at tesco is about my level the next.
Update later, cheers.