Quote:
Originally Posted by 6bet me
Look regardless of whether you guys are right or wrong, I don't see me discussing whether or not I'm a failure / how much I f**ked up to be a productive conversation. Especially when I'm in the middle of a poker holiday and I'm grinding the lowest stakes at the casino right now, as I'm typing this.
It's like telling an alcoholic one week into their sobriety what a failure they are... How about saying something supportive when they're actually doing the right thing?
It's not constructive to support your thoughtless gambling habits either. You have to be doing "the right thing" first before you can judge whether people will be supportive of you in such circumstances. In fairness, they not always will be (some people questioning you selling the ME ticket was pretty ridiculous), but you haven't been doing the right thing enough to really test if you can count on the thread's support.
The example of the struggling alcoholic trying to quit drinking and being met with little support falls flat on it's face when you don't recognize any of the issues you have yourself. All you have to do is accept that although you may have enough ability to beat entry level live stakes in the long run, you have huge leaks in your money management (playing severely underrolled & over your head spending habits, just to name two) and mental side of the game (emotional instability at the table and poor impulse control, just to name two), which you need to address. I'm even leaving out the obvious leaks you have in your technical game, which have been pointed out in a thoughtful manner endless times itt. As long as you don't put yourself in a vulnerable spot to learn from the obvious mistakes you're making and ensuring you progress towards the goal you've set, which would be "the right thing" to do, people are not gonna sympathize with you. I'm actually quite an empathic person, but if I haven't seen you do anything with a single good piece of advice in hundreds of pages of text, there's little left to do than to mock your continual ignorance. Just put yourself in a vulnerable spot and admit that you're not as big of a crusher you thought you were, that you have especially off-table issues you have to deal with if you want to make something of yourself, and adopt a learning attitude so you won't repeat this endless cycle of making some money and then going broke. People will be much more forgiving to someone who's made mistakes, admits to making mistakes, makes mistakes again and actually tries to work on fixing them in a meaningful way, as opposed to someone who already believes he's the dog's bollocks, even though in the grand scheme of things he's earned f*ck all in his poker career.