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Originally Posted by BobbyPeru
Was quite confident that you had what it takes.
Forgive me if this question is too personal but what is your life situation like atm? Do you live alone? Are you working to pay bills? There's a lot more questions like this that need answers to before you should consider quitting your job and making a go at it. Circumstances will determine whether its feasible right now or best to wait down the road.
I discuss it with my Fiance quite often. It's possible but not at these stakes. I'm not sure exactly what sort of time frame I could put on it for full time but worst case scenario, I still hold my journeyman status and in good standing with my Union. I always have a job @$40/hr. My current plans were to reach an hourly in poker that is sustaining and supplement as needed with my "job." The nature of my work is come and go so that is a solid fallback. I have a strong reputation as far as skill goes so I'm not worried about finding the work in the times of need. I moved away from the Union side and now took a job with the county because there was a lot of room for downtime where I could slam study like I am. I'm doing whatever work needs done at work and in basically every free minute watching content, or going over hands, browsing poker related stuff, then i come home eat with the lady spend some time until she sleeps and play a few hours each day. Weekends are on blast, typically doing minimum 6 hours of play. The days I call off work and spend all day doing the same stuff, studying/playing/etc feel so much better for my mental health. I'm able to go grab a coffee or take a walk in the park or lift, whatever it is that makes me feel pretty good and then still go and put some work into something I get a lot of satisfaction from in return. Also I don't feel a time crunch if all I have to do is play a few hours, then study in my free time but I WANT to study, I really do enjoy that part of the game. The money is becoming decent, not great by any means, but the gains I feel in life from avoiding scenarios and people i dislike just feels incredible.
10 hours minimum is dedicated to my job and most of that time there feels depressing. This is a sign to me that the career will only lead to me looking back one day and asking myself why I never went to try to chase my actual passions and things I obsess over. I didn't choose my current career out of love or interest of the field. I only chose it because they take in anyone and it offers a decent salary with little to no effort. Imagine working next to some clown who barely scraped through apprenticeship, is just buddies with the coordinator cause neighbors, yet you are both on the same hourly. That same guy almost killed someone running a man lift into the hot rail because that's how someone jokingly told him to test if the line was hot. Blew machine apart lucky not to be dead. Like you have to be braindead to do that. We make the same money, he probably gets offered more jobs/hours at "easy money gigs" than I ever will because he asks his buddy clown to come over for BBQs. Thanks, but I want no part of that politics. It's one of the most dangerous jobs around and I'm just not into doing it anymore around people that can barely wipe their drool. I have tried to express my beliefs and concerns with my union and I have basically been told to get bent. It's not a career I will ever be able to fight for.
I'm so bitter about it, even if i had the opportunity to push work again (foreman, basically the ceiling of the business) I wouldn't take it because I just feel like the entire day is wasted to something that I have no part in, other than getting a paycheck. There has to be more to life than going to work for someone who is exploiting you, because this is basically over half your existent considering you have to sleep. And if I am going to be in the business of exploitation, then I want more in return than someone else's effort going towards someone else's company/dreams/passions, telling guys to go build something for someone else doesn't net me any satisfaction or fulfillment.
I'm not really sure if poker is the answer but I can say this. Poker has opened my eyes to all kinds of things I never ever had a hint of a thought about. There's a lot of good feelings and great revelations that have come to be as a result of this game. This makes me feel like it has great significance. Obv there are takeaways from my job, from my travels, from rock climbing and everything before that. There was a time I thought traveling was the absolute best thing I could have ever done, I also have days and even years stretches that I feel like that was a complete waste of time too. Maybe I will just never be satisfied. Maybe that's okay.
Looking back in life, i seem to prefer to take a path less traveled (I'm not saying I am super unique, obv others have done what I have done and more). Most attractive are the things that people fear or speak about from the outside without having any experience with it. I notice this a lot just talking to people, i trend into playing devils advocate with everything no matter the subject or it's significance. This leads me to thinking this is just in my nature. It's a very good possibility that I am insatiable.
Last edited by swerbs22; 03-28-2024 at 08:22 PM.