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Originally Posted by Bob148
The kids don't feel safe. They want to feel safe. Fix it by making schools safe.
1. Fundamentally, why do people need adult status before we take them seriously?
I talk to my 5 year old about guns. I talk to my 5 year old about penises. I talk to my 5 year old about cholera in Yemen.
When he's scared I try to make him less scared but also explain that sometimes adults are scared too and it's okay to be both brave and scared at the same time.
2. Adults get scared too.
I'd argue that a big part of the gun debate is gun owners being scared. There is crime, there are scary things, and having a gun is their way of feeling better.
This debate really isn't adults vs kids, it's adults with kids having a frank discussion on how to make everyone safer.
3. Adults need to set the example.
I'd argue a good way to make kids less scared is to set up adult systems the look like they're working, and preferrably, actually working. Every time we demonstrate conflict resolution skills, we stack the deck in favor of our kids learning how to settle their disputes without guns. Every time we treat people with respect - whether they're friends/enemies or people of other races or people who struggle with mental/physical illness or whatever combination it's hardest for us to respect - we make it more likely that our kids care about people.
--- politard alert ---
Trump sets a pretty bad example so parents need to step up their example game.