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Originally Posted by Mightyboosh
I dunno, I'm with him on that one and I think there are positive benefits of having to 'tough it out', like having to take responsibility and the strength and determination that can come from a belief that it's up to us to sort out problems rather than rely on divine intervention or claim that it's not our fault. For all Atheists, the buck stops with humanity.
Re 1st: Only Rick Perry want's to hold a massive prayer to ask god for taking care of climate change. He couldn't even fill the stadium. Not many christians belief that we should wait for divine intervention to sort out our problems.
2nd: I'd argue that, if anything, Religion is slanted towards it ALWAYS being our fault. That's why we need forgiveness and salvation, after all.
But besides the talking points (sry), my bigger problem with this kind of bravado, especially in the context of death, is that a few crucial things get lost.
- most people dying are old. What's the "tough it out for truth's sake" worth when roughly the only dignified decision you have left is whether you go kicking and screaming or with a smile on your face?
- The "experience life to the fullest"/"appreciate the preciousness of life"-trope equally is not taking into account the reality of those most likely grappeling with death. It's fine to think of the healthy 30yr old fighting his brain tumor. But what about the 80yr old with lung cancer? What's he
fighting for? That's why I asked earlier on if people itt are seriously equating lenght of life with quality of life. No one responded; apparently it got lost in the noise.
- One of the non-religious counters itt are that life has, basically, it's own beauty. Life is
fun and
beautiful and
exciting. That's all the justification one needs for living it - and I agree. But if so, then this extends to death too. The question becomes, quite literally, how do you have a
good death? By proclaiming some Nietzschean aphorisms and admiring your own toughness-in-truth?
- Society doesn't really include death and suffering anymore. You may sing the tough-truth-and-honesty songs all you want, fact is that on a societal level, the sick and old are being shipped into some nursing home and kept out of sight as much as possible. We've lost our ability to talk about death because - what's there to say? "At least I'm not deluding myself" is not much of a positive (in the sense of substantive) statement.
On a more abstract level I think that life has very few possibilities of get in touch with our basic humanness, so to speak. Birth is one. Death is another. We can fight our entire life and we can choose to never give up. Death is a reality that is so overwhelming that it's impossible to even conceive of what "not giving up" could even begin to mean. Hence death forces us to look at us and accept that - finally - we've hit upon something that we just have to give in willy nilly. To me, that's a very important part of being human and it's importat to get right. Whatever helps you "get that right" is good, imo. If you manage that without belief - more power to you. Most don't. I wouldn't make this an argument at all. And if so, then more about "aesthetics". My life comprises my death too. And if my life is beautiful (that's why I'm living it), I want my death to be beautiful, too. And an experience worth having and I want to not squander it by fighting an unwinnable battle. If anything, believing that death is not the ultimate end is giving me the chance to take my mind of things that would distract me in that last important feat of my earthly life and let me focus on getting that last thing right.
Which is, basically, why I agree with zumby from post ~7 or so in saying wtf@topic. What do I say to someone who had a tragic accident? Whatever helps
him, obv., to get
his death right.
Last edited by fretelöo; 01-18-2013 at 07:01 AM.