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Originally Posted by Aaron W.
But there is no "something else" for wide swaths of religious viewpoints. I keep telling you that two of the same thing is different from two different things. That is *THE* thing. The argument is grounded in history and stretches across every single culture.
And the things that you're talking about are IN ADDITION TO marriage. At least for Mormons, you're still married even if you don't do the temple ceremony. That ceremony seals something else. I'm less sure about the Catholic view, but I'm moderately confident that the Catholic church acknowledges marriages that weren't performed by them.
Sex is part of marriage. But two people who have sex are not necessarily married. Love and commitment are part of a marriage, but you can have love and commitment without marriage as well.
Of course there is more to it than just "between a man and a woman". There are lots of relationships between a man and a woman that are not marriage. Don't be daft. It is a "something between a man and a woman" and if you are going to hammer it down precisely you need to elaborate on the something. Various theological treaties describe it as a covenant under God or that it is ordained by God or something like this. So just as someone who holds such a definition can find it in conflict with the man and a woman part, they can in theory ALSO find other types of marriages in conflict with the covenant under God part. In practice this has actually occurred in the past with, say, the Catholic opposition to mixed Catholic/NonCatholic marriages which violated holy nature of the union.
Now the marriage that I personally have was not ordained by God, had no mention of God, and could not in any sense be called a covenant under God. But it
is between a man and a woman. So while it passes that part, it is not at all clear that it passes the other part of the definition. However, for the most part our society has accepted this broader concept of legal government marriages that have no theological relation...the religious aspects are all stuff you add on to the side.
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Originally Posted by Aaron W.
The hardest part for you to accept, and you almost certainly *won't* accept it (given your protestations up to this point), is that the definition of marriage you want to define is in an unresolvable conflict with other people's views.
It is shocking how after all this time you remain so profoundly ignorant of my views. I have never denied - in fact I have explicitly stated it - that the definition of marriage some people hold is in conflict with a gays being able to marry.
Of course, I think this view is incredibly stupid, about as stupid as a view that says "my definition of marriage is something only between a man and a woman of the same race". But I absolutely do not deny that people have this stupid definition and that this stupid definition is indeed in conflict! My goodness. Have you honestly been labouring under the impression I don't accept this?