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02-23-2011 , 10:33 PM
http://forumserver.twoplustwo.com/13...s-will-985274/

Full PDF here: http://servicewomen.org/wp-content/u...Litigation.pdf

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46. In February of 2009 SGT Gavrilla reported for four weeks of active duty training. During this training, she saw her rapist in the shopette on Fort Leonard Wood. Upon seeing her rapist, SGT Gavrilla went into shock. She immediately sought the assistance of the military chaplain. When SGT Gavrilla met with the military chaplain, he told her that "it must have been God's will for her to be raped" and recommended that she attend church more frequently.
I suppose if you want to use this to mock religion, I suppose it's not likely that you'll be stopped. But upon consideration of the larger picture, it's a small, petty victory.

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9. SN Cioca began to be harassed and threatened by her superior. On one occasion, when SN Cioca made a mistake during a knot-tying quiz, her superior stated - in front of SN Cioca's work colleagues - that she was a "stupid f***ing female, who didn't belong in the military." Her superior spit in her face on that occasion.

10. While changing out for training, SN Cioca's attacker would try to force the door open and tell her that "he needed to perform a Personal Protective Equipment Inspection." Often, when this supervisor would walk past Ms. Cioca, he would grab her buttocks, and order her in a hateful tone to "turn you f***ing disrespectful non-rate."

11. SN Cioca complained about her superior's abusive behavior and expressed her fear of him to other military personnel in her military chain of command (hereinafter "Command"). Rather than resulting in a cessation of the superior's misconduct, this reporting led to an escalation. The superior begain to drive past her home multiple times during the day and call her repeatedly, leaving voicemails threatening her life. He then began to break into her room at hight, stand over her bed and masturbate. SN Cioca began sleeping with a knife under her pillow to defend herself.

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32. On November 7, 2009, the co-worker began to stalk TSgt Gallagher. He tried to break into her room, claiming TSgt Gallagher "didn't know what she was missing." He telephoned her repeatedly. TSgt Gallagher again reported her co-worker's threatening behavior to Command, but was advised that they could not do anything because "it was a 'he said, she said' situation".

33. On November 12, 2009, the co-worker sexually assaulted TSgy Gallgaher in the restroom. he pushed TSgt Gallagher up against the left side of the wall, took his right hand pulled TSgt Gallagher's pants and underwear down, and then used his hand to rub her vagina. He simultaneously ground his p**** against TSgt Gallagher, and talked about how much he was enjoying the assault.

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42. Command required SGT Gavrilla and her work colleagues to attend classes regarding the prevention of sexual assault and harassment once per year. Command, however, made a mockery of these classes. As the instructor would describe prohibited conduct, one or more of the class participants would immediately begin to engage in the prohibited conduct. One soldier stripped completely naked and got on the table during break in the middle of class. Command decided that his "punishment" for this conduct was to serve as the Equal Opportunity representative and serve as the next instructor for the sexual assault and harassment training.

43. SGT Havrilla deployed to Afghanistan in 2006. Her supervisor sexually harassed her, stating on one occasion that he "really wanted to f*** [her] right now." On another occasion, as SGT Havrilla's peers watched, he walked up behind SGT Havrilla, grabbed her waist and bit the back of her neck. He began to slap her bottom whenever he passed by. He also belittled and mocked SGT Havrilla. SGT Havrilla suffered from the harassment to such a degree that she sought medical assistance.

44. Subsequently, SGT Havrilla worked with an individual from a canine unit. That same colleague raped her. He pulled her into his bed, held her down, and raped her. He also photographed the rape.
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Originally Posted by rizeagainst
is this an onion article?????
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02-23-2011 , 10:58 PM
pics or gtfo. seriously though do we need two threads on this?
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02-24-2011 , 12:02 AM
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Originally Posted by deucedeuces
pics or gtfo. seriously though do we need two threads on this?
Maybe he started the thread in another forum and mod moved it here.

I say lock this one up.
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02-24-2011 , 12:33 AM
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Originally Posted by Stu Pidasso
Maybe he started the thread in another forum and mod moved it here.

I say lock this one up.
I don't think you get Aaron's point.

Addressing Aaron--I agree with rizeagainst: while obviously there are more serious issues in this case than the chaplain's response, on a forum about religion, that is the relevant issue. I don't know that it says anything larger about religion as a whole (do pastors or chaplains commonly minimize rape in this way?--I don't know), but that doesn't mean that the chaplain should be condemned for saying this, if in fact he did so. Also, any military chaplain that could think this would be the proper response is clearly unqualified, and so I wonder if this is a sign of a more serious problem in how chaplains are trained or how they view their jobs.
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02-24-2011 , 03:35 AM
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Originally Posted by Original Position
I don't think you get Aaron's point.

Addressing Aaron--I agree with rizeagainst: while obviously there are more serious issues in this case than the chaplain's response, on a forum about religion, that is the relevant issue. I don't know that it says anything larger about religion as a whole (do pastors or chaplains commonly minimize rape in this way?--I don't know), but that doesn't mean that the chaplain should be condemned for saying this, if in fact he did so. Also, any military chaplain that could think this would be the proper response is clearly unqualified, and so I wonder if this is a sign of a more serious problem in how chaplains are trained or how they view their jobs.
s/b "but that doesn't mean that that the chaplain shouldn't be condemned for saying this."
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02-24-2011 , 03:43 AM
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Originally Posted by Original Position
Addressing Aaron--I agree with rizeagainst: while obviously there are more serious issues in this case than the chaplain's response, on a forum about religion, that is the relevant issue. I don't know that it says anything larger about religion as a whole (do pastors or chaplains commonly minimize rape in this way?--I don't know), but that doesn't mean that the chaplain should not be condemned for saying this, if in fact he did so. Also, any military chaplain that could think this would be the proper response is clearly unqualified, and so I wonder if this is a sign of a more serious problem in how chaplains are trained or how they view their jobs.
I assume my insertion is what you intended.

I certainly don't disagree that if the characterization of the chaplain's advice is accurate that there are serious issues about it which need to be addressed.(I'm not particularly convinced of the accuracy of the reporting on this incident, especially with the relatively low quantity of detail given elsewhere in the report and the fact that apparently this is at a low enough level of interest that the chaplain is not being pursued as a part of the lawsuit -- I have no doubt that testimony will be heard regarding the assaults, but I'm skeptical that there will be testimony heard regarding the chaplain. I would not be at all surprised to discover that the anecdote has been amplified for effect.)

I also don't think that there's any reason not to discuss that aspect of it as if it's an important issue. If one is going to take the role of a counselor (of any type -- not just as a "chaplain"), it is important that the counselor be properly trained. And if there is a systematic issue that is as bad as the systematic issue of how sexual assault is handled, it is a big deal.

The association to "religion" is obvious, but the blame of "religion" is not. In particular, it's not at all clear which religion is involved, nor has the argument been made that this particular theological point is consistent with the unknown religious perspective (How could it be if we don't know what it is?). I do not deny that religion provided the language of "God's will" but the advice could well have been "S*** happens. Get over it." (And given the other reporting in the document, this would not seem particularly out of line.)

But, as I said, if the purpose is to simply mock religion, rize et al are free to take this incident and do so. They're not likely to be stopped, nor would it be likely that such a stoppage is appropriate. However, it's also important not to get so wrapped up the enjoyment of those couple sentences that one loses sight on the actual reason that this is being brought forth.

As is the case in theology, a position built around a sentence taken in isolation of its context should be given less credit and less importance than concepts that are repeatedly expressed in multiple places.
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02-24-2011 , 03:52 AM
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Originally Posted by Aaron W.
I do not deny that religion provided the language of "God's will" but the advice could well have been "S*** happens. Get over it."
By the way, it's worth noting that "S*** happens" is a position that is consistent with a naturalistic or humanistic philosophy. Do we blame those philosophies for reaching that conclusion?
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02-24-2011 , 04:02 AM
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Originally Posted by Original Position
Also, any military chaplain that could think this would be the proper response is clearly unqualified, and so I wonder if this is a sign of a more serious problem in how chaplains are trained or how they view their jobs.
Not to derail from this thread's point, but employing the unqualified seems the main area of culpability for the military.

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She immediately sought the assistance of the military chaplain.
So if the military didn't employ chaplains at all, where's the culpability?
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02-24-2011 , 05:06 AM
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Originally Posted by Aaron W.
By the way, it's worth noting that "S*** happens" is a position that is consistent with a naturalistic or humanistic philosophy. Do we blame those philosophies for reaching that conclusion?
Do you think it's harmful conclusion?
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02-24-2011 , 05:53 AM
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Do you think it's harmful conclusion?
I hesitate to get involved with this topic, but it could easily be as harmful a response as the chaplain's. Either response could be some kind of comfort I guess, but both are (unless you know the person really well) insensitive, unsympathetic and fraught with potential for harm, given the issue she's coming to you about.

Which you find worse probably depends on which you consider to be the more accurate statement.
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02-24-2011 , 06:09 AM
This is a religion, god and theology forum...not a forum for discussing stoneage gender discrimination and the sexual offender inclinations of specific members in the American armed forces...so that is why the focus was on the Chaplain.

However, to comment further upon this...the chaplain's action are horrible. Little is more important in the battle against rape than the will to take women who have experienced such things seriously, or else you risk making a culture where rape is not reported and maybe even accepted.

People like this Chaplain stands in the way for solving a serious problem. As far as I'm concerned, he just as bad as the rapist.

If you were raped AaronW, how would you feel if the first person you dare tell this to would simply note that it is "God's will"?
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02-24-2011 , 09:06 AM
The chaplain could be making the same mistake rize is. He over generalizes.

People tend to frame Christian theology as an either/or. Either its all free will or its all reformed when the truth is a lot of things in theology and about God are paradoxical.

While God rules the world there's nothing to prove he motivates evil actions. God could have allowed a temporary condition in which we become knowledgable of our own evil so we are able to leave it permanently and voluntarily in the future. As Christ says "the only good one is God."
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02-24-2011 , 10:32 AM
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Originally Posted by Aaron W.
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But, as I said, if the purpose is to simply mock religion, rize et al are free to take this incident and do so. They're not likely to be stopped, nor would it be likely that such a stoppage is appropriate. However, it's also important not to get so wrapped up the enjoyment of those couple sentences that one loses sight on the actual reason that this is being brought forth.

As is the case in theology, a position built around a sentence taken in isolation of its context should be given less credit and less importance than concepts that are repeatedly expressed in multiple places.
I agree with pretty much everything you say here, although I will note that your title is misleading as to your true position since you don't seem to view the chaplain's actions as simply a matter of "straining the gnat," but as potentially a "big deal."

As for whether we'll ever know, I think that regardless of whether the chaplain is part of the suit the military should investigate the matter more fully and perhaps provide additional(?) training to chaplains (and officers more generally) on how to respond to victims and perpetrators of sexual crimes. Outrage on the part of citizens is the proper response until then.

As for rizeagainst and others using this as an opportunity to mock religion, there isn't much you can do to stop that.
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02-24-2011 , 10:43 AM
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Originally Posted by duffe
Not to derail from this thread's point, but employing the unqualified seems the main area of culpability for the military.

So if the military didn't employ chaplains at all, where's the culpability?
I don't get your point. The military does employ chaplains. The problem I have is not with the idea of military chaplains, but with the purported actions of this specific chaplain. It is certainly possible for the military to use chaplains that would respond appropriately to sexual assault.

The issue of whether the military should have chaplains is a mostly unrelated issue.

Also, I don't think that the hiring practices of the military is the only issue here. I'm also concerned that this incident is a sign of a general culture of permissiveness towards sexual assault or sexism in the military.
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02-24-2011 , 10:56 AM
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The chaplain could be making the same mistake rize is. He over generalizes.
This is a pretty ridiculous comparison. The purported actions of the chaplain constitute part of a systematic professional and personal betrayal of a person who has agreed to serve her country by placing herself at risk of death. Rizeagainst overgeneralizes in the manner that almost everyone (definitely including you) does on internet forums. Whenever you make this accusation that atheists, or New Atheists, or particular posters overgeneralize about Christians, you expose yourself as a hypocrite, as you continually push false assumptions and incorrect generalizations about atheists.

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People tend to frame Christian theology as an either/or. Either its all free will or its all reformed when the truth is a lot of things in theology and about God are paradoxical.

While God rules the world there's nothing to prove he motivates evil actions. God could have allowed a temporary condition in which we become knowledgable of our own evil so we are able to leave it permanently and voluntarily in the future. As Christ says "the only good one is God."
It is true that Christian theology has developed many ways to try to avoid this conclusion. However, it is questionable whether any of these attempts to make God not culpable for the evils of this world are successful.
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02-24-2011 , 11:40 AM
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Originally Posted by Original Position
This is a pretty ridiculous comparison. The purported actions of the chaplain constitute part of a systematic professional and personal betrayal of a person who has agreed to serve her country by placing herself at risk of death. Rizeagainst overgeneralizes in the manner that almost everyone (definitely including you) does on internet forums. Whenever you make this accusation that atheists, or New Atheists, or particular posters overgeneralize about Christians, you expose yourself as a hypocrite, as you continually push false assumptions and incorrect generalizations about atheists.

Lots of people over generalize until they re-think or are corrected. As for me I don't over generalize as much as you think because my problem is timing and language. Sometimes I respond too quickly in flowery language. That doesn't mean I can't redefine terms and or correct myself. I frequently do but this format doesn't accomodate that well. You almost have to be an emotionless bot to post successfully on here without offending someone.

Also most of my overgeneralizations are in the explanation of good and evil to drive the comparisons home. I don't think atheists are necessarily more evil than theists in their carnal natures. What they are is more spiritually blind and they use their logic as chains to keep themselves in blind bondage. If you recall the Apostles chained in the Book of Acts it took an angel to break their chains. Well in this current administration we can't see angels only the Apostles were granted that privelege by God. Instead what we have is the double witness of the Spirit and the Word to break your chains and set you free onto the path of true life.

I think you can spot good and evil at work in the world but instead of naming it Christian or Muslim or Atheist why not try ascribing it to God or the Devil. It's likely that's truer as the battles are in the minds of participants not in the labels. Labels can be misleading with atheists pretending to be theists to gain business advantages and Christians acting like devils unknowingly, etc., etc.


It is true that Christian theology has developed many ways to try to avoid this conclusion. However, it is questionable whether any of these attempts to make God not culpable for the evils of this world are successful.

No offense but I suspect you never learned to reason like a Christian. A lot of Christian reasoning is observation based via scriptural comparison.
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02-24-2011 , 11:49 AM
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Originally Posted by Original Position
I agree with pretty much everything you say here, although I will note that your title is misleading as to your true position since you don't seem to view the chaplain's actions as simply a matter of "straining the gnat," but as potentially a "big deal."
The size of the deal of an ill-informed counselor is small relative to the size of the deal of the events that lead up to the counseling. On the one hand, you have a large corpus of evidence that points to a systematic problem, and on the other hand you have two sentences about a chaplain's poor counseling skills.

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As for rizeagainst and others using this as an opportunity to mock religion, there isn't much you can do to stop that.
I agree. I don't expect it to stop. So I'm just taking the opportunity to point out how silly it looks to those who are paying attention.
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02-24-2011 , 12:01 PM
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Originally Posted by tame_deuces
If you were raped AaronW, how would you feel if the first person you dare tell this to would simply note that it is "God's will"?
I'd shrug the person off as if he's ignorant or insensitive, and I'm not sure whether I'd take the time to figure out which one it is.

The phrasing of "God's will" is about as nebulous in the minds of many Christians as "the pursuit of happiness" is in the minds of many Americans. People see it meaning different things at different times (sometimes in a systematic and consistent way, sometimes not), and so that language doesn't always convey the same ideas to different people.

However, there is a difference between "simply noting" that this is "God's will" and using that phrase during the conversation. Given the circumstances, I think it's clear that the chaplain used the phrase *somewhere* during the time of counseling, but it's not clear how exactly that language was used. For example, it could well have been that the chaplain was already doing a crappy job at counseling, the woman was getting agitated because of her frustration, and at some point he mentioned "God's will" and that set everything off. Or it's possible that he just "simply noted" it.

So I hesitate to attribute that level of callousness on the part of the chaplain, but I also admit that it's entirely possible. The absence of information, I believe, should prevent us from trying to draw too specific a conclusion on the nature of this individual's counseling, and too broad a conclusion on the general nature of "religion."
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02-24-2011 , 12:05 PM
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Originally Posted by gg911gg
Do you think it's harmful conclusion?
"Harmful conclusion"? Not really.

I think that the conclusion (from both a naturalistic philosophy and a theological position) is true. It's not the conclusion itself that's harmful, but it's the use of the conclusion in a manner that does not edify the other person that is harmful. The Christian phrasing is "speaking the truth in love." It's not sufficient simply to speak truth, but it must be done in a way that is respectful to and caring about the person you're speaking to. Simply being right is not sufficient.
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02-24-2011 , 12:19 PM
Nothing really to add, just wanted to note I misread the title as swallowing the came. That is all.
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02-24-2011 , 01:22 PM
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Originally Posted by Aaron W.
The absence of information, I believe, should prevent us from trying to draw too specific a conclusion on the nature of this individual's counseling, and too broad a conclusion on the general nature of "religion."
You have it backwards. We (or well, some of us atleast) don't use inductive logic and conclude religion is BS because of what this chaplain does.

What this chaplain does is merely the natural implication of religious justification for ethics.

The only reason this is even debated is because it is controversial. If it was about some ethical justifications most Christians could agree on, eyebrows wouldn't even be lifted. Now however, convoluted arguments as to why this example should not apply or accusations towards the politicial biased behinds its application (like your OP) is probably shoveled up in spades.

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02-24-2011 , 01:36 PM
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Originally Posted by tame_deuces
As far as I'm concerned, he just as bad as the rapist.
Seriously?
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02-24-2011 , 02:25 PM
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Seriously?
Yes, this goes in the same category as every other deragatory comment where one tries to blame the victim instead of the offender. "She had it coming because of the way she dressed", "She shouldn't have walked home alone", "She should have gone to church more". It is a cliche, but it is true that rape is rarely about sexual attraction or sinful behavior on the victim's part - it is about power; it has nothing to do with "asking for it". It is not uncommon for female (assault) rape victims to be 70+ years old, and that's because this makes them helpless against the offender.

It is also funny to see how these views are almost exclusive towards women being raped. It is usually just poorly dressed up gender discrimination. I can't prove it because it is always kept out of sight in cases like this, but I'm pretty damn certain this guy would never use this argument towards a man who had been raped by another man.

These kinds of views ultimately all tend to boil to the same thing; they are based on an implied acceptance of women being raped. Not that anyone would ever admit it, but it's there allright.

So yeah, I find him to be just as bad...and in some aspects worse, because people like him actually have the power to stop rapes from happening. Now a bunch of rapists can relax because God is on their side, punishing sinners who ask for it.
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02-24-2011 , 03:05 PM
I think the problem here is with religious people who insist that both (1) God is personal and intervenes in human affairs and (2) God is worthy of worship. That tension, of course, is what creates the problem of evil, but it also is what gets people to start believing that bad things reflect God's desire and thus must actually be good in some sense.

And if people would grow up and give up the idea that the creator of the universe gives a crap about their pathetic existences, we wouldn't see this sort of thinking-- which is both harmful and offensive-- rise its ugly head.

So yeah, it counts as a harmful effect of religion-- at least the forms of it that are egotistical enough to assert that we are important to God.
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02-24-2011 , 03:14 PM
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And if people would grow up and give up the idea that the creator of the universe gives a crap about their pathetic existences
Yes

And that is redundant.
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