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Originally Posted by BTirish
As I indicated before, infertility (whether known or unknown) does not preclude that a person can be open to the natural results of the act of sexual intercourse. For this reason, impotence is an impediment to marriage (because it prevents the marriage from being consummated), but infertility is not.
I almost pre-empted this dodge in my last post and I wish I had now. The dodge is that such couples are still 'open to life' (the phrase I've heard most often). Perhaps, the reasoning goes, there will be a little miracle for the couple, and for this reason their union is as legitimate as that of a fertile couple.
But we are not talking about some penny-ante low sperm count business, here. We're talking hysterectomies and various conditions and disorders which preclude conception - total infertility. Situations where the 'little miracle' would be no less a miracle than it would be for a gay couple.
As I said before, I think you simply stop at the most convenient level of abstraction - one penis and one vagina - and hand-wave the objection because bless their little cotton socks, at least the infertile couple are
trying. It doesn't pass muster. If you do not oppose terming unions between the various iterations of couples that are not fertile heterosexuals 'marriage' then I don't see how you can continue to oppose gay marriage.
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Like most other legal institutions, the institution of marriage is founded upon what happens in the majority of cases rather than upon what is exceptional and rare.
I'm pretty confident that same-sex unions will be in a considerable minority.
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Total infertility is rare, even if partial infertility or decreased fertility is not uncommon. In any of these cases, marriage is the relationship between a man and a woman who agree to raise any offspring they may have together. That a person knows it may not be likely (or that it will be virtually impossible) that a child may be conceived does not preclude the right intention concerning marriage.
But all you're saying is that as long as they want kids... I'm confused. Many gay people
want kids.
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Anyway, your line of argument could at best lead to the conclusion that sterile people can't marry, not that there is no difference between marriage between a man and a woman and other relationships. I accept the explanation I've just given (that the intention to raise any children born as a result of the act that naturally produces children); if you don't, then adopt the view that sterile people can't / shouldn't get married.
Eh, no,
you adopt that view. I'm fine with marriage both for gays and for the sterile.
I gather from this that you would in fact oppose marriage for the infertile before you would endorse marriage for same-sex couples. I find that somewhat disturbing, I must say - and difficult to square with any claims of non-bigotry.