ya but you have to look at the mm thread from an evolutionary prospective. The women obviously want a committed relationship with the alpha male because of the relatively long term maturation period for an **** sapien fetus. it the longest in teh animal kingdom for the newborn to learn and reach relative autonomy. so the female wants a committed relationship. however, the alpha male has the evolutionary urge (mandate) to spread his superior seed to as many reproductive females as possible so therein lies natures conflict.