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01-18-2010 , 08:58 AM
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Originally Posted by bogan4life
Who is the ideal person for it, some guy who works 90 hours a week never around. Someone who doesnt care for the kid at all. I have my issues i dont doubt that, but i also do anything for my child and everything i can to protect her.

Thats what i see as important.
That's obv the most important thing, but I guess you know that it won't be good for your child if her parents are fighting all the time for example.
01-18-2010 , 08:59 AM
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Originally Posted by bogan4life
**** you saying my child is unwated, my child is much loved and i would never kill my own sporn. Once you know that she is preg its a person imo.

You have no clue the sort of bond you can have to a unborn child nor do you know much about the real world, you are sheltered behind your looks and your innocent little world. When society comes to your door and shows you what real life is like you will have no clue.

Face a battle in life, then come back and see me
lol innocent world
did you run from falling bombs at the age of four
nice innocent world that was

Last edited by MadeLiefje; 01-18-2010 at 09:00 AM. Reason: the most stupid thing you can do is judge people you dont know
01-18-2010 , 09:03 AM
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Originally Posted by MadeLiefje
lol innocent world
did you run from falling bombs at the age of four
nice innocent world that was
At least you weren't pregnant back then, that would have been a bummer.
01-18-2010 , 09:03 AM
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Originally Posted by MadeLiefje
you're american, we will never agree on this




you should read posts before replying
i dont know anything about you so how could i imply that?
you asked the question if you should have done it and i replied what i thought of it which is if you felt like you werent ready for the child at your age you could have chosen for abortion cuz it's just a damn seed in the first few weeks, not a child
it's a child when it grows up miserable, not raised properly by his parents and not given the amount of care and attention the child deserves
Well put it in your actually poast, you say something like that and im going to get pretty mad. Sure for some people having a kid is a burden to them and **** but for us its a gift that we cheerish. We may fight sometimes but we do love each other and we make sure our daughter has everything.
01-18-2010 , 09:03 AM
I'll be back later when the mood's a little more lighthearted.
01-18-2010 , 09:06 AM
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Originally Posted by 11beatsperminute
At least you weren't pregnant back then, that would have been a bummer.
zomg you're right. i didnt even think about that!

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Originally Posted by bogan4life
Well put it in your actually poast, you say something like that and im going to get pretty mad. Sure for some people having a kid is a burden to them and **** but for us its a gift that we cheerish. We may fight sometimes but we do love each other and we make sure our daughter has everything.
it's not like it's hidden, the edit is right there

it's actual, actually even has a different meaning
geez you should at least know how to speak properly before having children

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Originally Posted by The Brickie
I'll be back later when the mood's a little more lighthearted.
im sorry
01-18-2010 , 09:08 AM
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Originally Posted by 11beatsperminute
That's obv the most important thing, but I guess you know that it won't be good for your child if her parents are fighting all the time for example.
Bloody oath it wouldnt be good, i wouldnt just stay with her because she has my child. We both have our battles mine wore brought on myself where as hers wore cause of what men have done to her. We both see shrinks to improve ourselfs, something we wore not doing pre child.

Sometimes the stresses get to much and we have a verbal fight and one of us goes somewhere for the night so that we dont keep fighting, were not perfect people no where near it but our child is both our worlds and we do all to improve ourselfs.

It makes me really mad when people think that i cant be a good parent because of my past and i get very defensive over this. Everyone in my life doubts me, but ill prove everyone wrong.
01-18-2010 , 09:10 AM
I really wish you good luck with this bogan.
01-18-2010 , 09:11 AM
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Originally Posted by MadeLiefje
zomg you're right. i didnt even think about that!



it's not like it's hidden, the edit is right there

it's actual, actually even has a different meaning
geez you should at least know how to speak properly before having children



im sorry
Ha your good im sure my spelling on a internet forum will effect my ability to be a good parent and not everyone reads the edits you should just put it in the normal poasting part.
01-18-2010 , 09:12 AM
you conveniently ignored my innocent world post
01-18-2010 , 09:19 AM
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Originally Posted by 11beatsperminute
Don't kill anyone MsBlue!
They all lived through the night thank you! For the record, I don't kill them, having no circulation for a while kills them. We work with what we have and sometimes we don't have much.


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Originally Posted by The Brickie
I'll be back later when the mood's a little more lighthearted.
Have I come at a bad time?
01-18-2010 , 09:28 AM
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Originally Posted by MsBlueberry
They all lived through the night thank you! For the record, I don't kill them, having no circulation for a while kills them. We work with what we have and sometimes we don't have much.
No your honour, I didn't kill him. He died because he had no circulation for a while, not because I shot five bullets in his head.
01-18-2010 , 09:28 AM
i dont see a totp image
01-18-2010 , 09:29 AM
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Originally Posted by MadeLiefje
you conveniently ignored my innocent world post
a 4 yr old does not understand the drama, go through a drama now and see how you cope.

anyway i cant be ****ed with this **** see ya omg
01-18-2010 , 09:36 AM
Daisy
Post new ones of you
And ill get you one of the kid
01-18-2010 , 09:38 AM
are you saying getting a child (and problems around that) and being an addict (i think this is what your past is about, but im not sure so dont shoot my head off) is worse than being in a war?

you really are ignorant
you think the children in haiti dont realise what is happening to them now?

and **** you for making me talk about this

Last edited by MadeLiefje; 01-18-2010 at 09:49 AM. Reason: meh you're not worth it for me to upset other people
01-18-2010 , 09:41 AM
Daisy bell
addicition is as cut and dry as its your fault you could of prevented it.
01-18-2010 , 09:44 AM
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Originally Posted by killa
Daisy
Post new ones of you
And ill get you one of the kid
good deal, i will do this, but not now

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Originally Posted by killa
Daisy bell
addicition is as cut and dry as its your fault you could of prevented it.
i have no idea what this means
01-18-2010 , 09:50 AM
I think when you say " its your fault for becoming an addict" you are not fully understanding it. Its not as easy as "well if you never touched coke"
01-18-2010 , 09:51 AM
Any I'm more awake now baby playin with toys I want some breakfast.
One of you womenz go make me some eggs
01-18-2010 , 09:53 AM
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Originally Posted by MadeLiefje
are you saying getting a child (and problems around that) and being an addict (i think this is what your past is about, but im not sure so dont shoot my head off) is worse than being in a war?

you really are ignorant
you think the children in haiti dont realise what is happening to them now?

and being an addict is your own goddamn fault, everyone knows what happens when you start drugs
and i know there are other ex addicts in here but it's the damn truth

and **** you for making me talk about this
Being a addict was my own fault i say that all the time, turning to drugs was an escape from the issues in my life that i wont talk about on here.

Living through war would be hard for sure but as a child you would not understand it imo, but id much prefer to live through a war then live what my partner went through as a child. There are some really troubled things in this world that i hope to be able to keep my daughter away, id love for her to grow up and have a innocent life.

What you dont understand is that at any stage you attack me over my abilty as a father i will react harsh, attack my addictions cause ithat was my fault but never question me as a parent. i cant change who i was, but i change who i am
01-18-2010 , 09:54 AM
No response to PM - make your own damn eggs.

Hi everybody! I hope you are well. Eventful chat this morning.
01-18-2010 , 09:55 AM
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Originally Posted by MsBlueberry
No response to PM - make your own damn eggs.

Hi everybody! I hope you are well. Eventful chat this morning.
Oh I just haven't been on a pc ! The PM 's suck on the phone
01-18-2010 , 09:56 AM
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Originally Posted by MsBlueberry
No response to PM - make your own damn eggs.

Hi everybody! I hope you are well. Eventful chat this morning.
Too much for my brain, so much seriousness it hurts
01-18-2010 , 09:58 AM
i didnt question you as a parent, so read edits from now on before you start attacking people
i wont even respond to that, there's no need to be so srs here

and thanks for quoting that
i would appreciate it if you left the quote out

also im gonna leave omg now, i tend to make it too srs

      
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