I can't really advise on playing BvB, but in general, there's a
famous hand chart for 6-max by GGaRJ for UTG-BTN opening and blind defence from an UTG-BTN open and also a hand ranking function for HU/3-max/6-max/10-max at
ProPokerTools that alas doesn't account for positions as it's based on pure preflop equity (to access the raw chart files, go to Help/Docs and scroll down). They're not solutions, but they'll give you an idea of where a hand stands in terms of strength.
Regarding KK28 rainbow or single-suited and similar raggy KK, I just fold it to a 3-bet in any position. It's hard for me to tell where to draw the line, it also depends on the opponent, of course - e.g. vs total maniacs 3-betting ~100%, I guess it's profitable to 4-bet it for value and shove every flop (but not flat the 3-bet).