Look on the bright side, if the girl is pregnant, gotgot123 could be the godfather to your future kid, lucky you!

If she is sincere and legit worried, the brain can do a lot of things including making her think her breasts are more swollen than usual and possibly actually make her breasts more swollen than usual.
You just gotta white knuckle it to the conclusion.
In the ended it's either nothing and you keep banging or you're a father to a beautiful child.
Win win!

You know her and it's up to your judgement. I just know it's easy for SEA newbies to fall victim to a lot of BS some Filipinas will tell you. Whether that's claiming to be virgin/only 1 partner, their intentions with you or some made up emergency why they need to live at your condo (I had 2 of those, said no to both but if they were hotter prob would've said yes)

Yes, she might have gotten really stressed because her period was a bit late, believes she is pregnant, getting more stress and then the period just skips, then she starts believing all this like her breasts are more swollen, like you said 5 south. Her cycle or something is not over yet tho, still some days left.

I just dont understand what intentions she could have, she dont seem to want anything from me.. She has a nice place to live, a job that pays her well, like I said earlier, I saw her take out 200 000 php, how many 24 year old filippina girls have cash like this, she even payed for her brothers education ?! She dont seem to wanna be my girlfriend either.. I dont know what, we were just hanging out. Luckily, it wont be some kid crawling around in dumpsters atleast.. If..

https://imgur.com/a/qNl2cH4 This is not the full chat ofcourse, just to point that out

wat. swing&miss.

Welcome

i have no opinion on your situation. But this is standard for 95% of filipinos with a younger brother or sister.

Oh.. And still have atleast 200k in their bank account?

Edit: This includes paying for their rent, food, transport also? I really dont understand how they can afford this, it seems to me most here barely can feed themselves. Also, this was an older brother, I think he was 1 or 2 year older.

Whats her job?

btw isnt pullout method something like 97% effective over the course of the whole year having sex? Unbelievable run bad if shes pregnant just with two times.

Probably makes up for the super run hot of finding the "i have only ever slept with one guy" girl on tinder who has over 200k+ savings whilst being only 24 (where i doubt the top students make more than 30k/40k p/m in couple years in employment) who is from a wealthy family but she has to pay for the brothers schooling whilst not living in a city. Her job must be pretty good

running back on EV

She works online(I cant remember the name of this job right now, but it was a common job) and she has work on a Yacht, where she can earn some good bonuses if she gets people to join on the trip(I know there is a word for this, but I cant remember this one either), ranging from 5-30k if she is lucky. I had the jobs confirmed, no way she could lie about this. The bonuses, yes could be a lie, but I dont understand why she would do so.

Yes I know, and this was also right before her period was supposed to come, so it should be more unrealistic to get pregnant.

Wealthy wasnt the right word, but her family seemed to live in better conditions than the avg family here.

If EV is making 10% of the girls here pregnant, what a year this will be..

Went through something similar recently and prayed and worried for a good amount of time before she could take the test. Thankfully it came back negative. This will probably be the case for your situation too.

I'm sure you will learn a helluva lot from this experience though.

Might be wrong but all her stories and all the great things shes told you about herself, you keep ending it with "i dont know why or dont believe she is lying." I mean do you really have hard proof or know for a fact or are you just going by what she tells you? Lived in Thailand for 3 months and some bitches be crazy, like legit something wrong with them crazy. Could just be an elaborate trap

Also i cant be the only one that had to look up what a IUD was?

The reason people are skeptical about the girl's character despite all your "I promise she's different" explanation is that we've all been in the same situation and we've all read countless reports by guys in the same situation.

I think it might be valuable to consider the idea that people are not black and white. There aren't just "lying sluts" and "good girls." The behaviors available to women are universal and depending on the circumstances, any girl might adopt behaviors from either end of the spectrum.

I've read everything you've written and actually, I do not believe the girl is being dishonest. However, it's impossible to be sure. Info's similar experience is a great reference point. Whenever you have to write something over and over again to convince others, you have to wonder - am I really trying to convince myself?

Now let's say she is being dishonest. You wonder what her motivations are. She could trap richer guys. Sure, but that's going down an unproductive line of thinking. She's not some criminal mastermind. Trapping a foreigner is trapping a foreigner. Even if you don't have money, there's a great chance that your family does. And even if her family has money, there's always more to be had and it's not just about money - trapping a foreigner has benefits of status, as well.

And sure, you two have had heart to hearts and blah blah blah, she should know better than that. At the end of the day, anyone can fake anything for a short period of time. You can't trust someone you've only known a short time.

Again, I'm not saying she's lying. I'm just saying that you can't be sure she's not. And basically every time I've ever heard a guy say, "this one's different," they've been wrong.

Can you elaborate on what you find so amazing, or the great things she told me? I mean, she was never bragging about any of these stuff, she was really chill about everything. Its not like I have her work attest or anything, but I did see pics/videos of her working on the boat, I met her co-workers who was working in this stand recruiting people to join on this trip also. I met 20-30 of her friends, also her family(Not like we had a dinner togheter). I saw her work online also, not like I followed in detail, but seemed legit after all I know. She might lie about her getting extra cash from getting customers yes. Also, I never spent any money on this girl when we was out eating and all this, we simply payed one time each. One time I payed for a long taxi drive that we shared with another couple, it was about 1500 php, but that was it..

If It was me making this big lie, I would be kinda scared to let the person meet so many in my social circle.. Somewhere it would go wrong somehow, im sure.

After our trip to this Island, we werent supposed me meet again, we said our goodbyes and that was it, never loved involved. Later, I told her I could come visit her on this other Island, she never asked me to come. This was never some girlfriend, boyfriend thing, she wont even kiss me when we have sex, since im not her boyfriend, I think, or maybe I just smell bad. She just enjoyed hanging out with me and started to love my big dick after a while

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I never tried to describe her as different from all the other girls , only that she is not lying about her situation. Im not sure what im trying to accomplish anymore here, maybe that if you meet a girl that has done better than other girls you have met and carries herself in a better way, it doesnt mean that it is something shady going on, even here in Ph.

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I think it might be valuable to consider the idea that people are not black and white. There aren't just "lying sluts" and "good girls." The behaviors available to women are universal and depending on the circumstances, any girl might adopt behaviors from either end of the spectrum.

Absolutely, I agree.

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I've read everything you've written and actually, I do not believe the girl is being dishonest. However, it's impossible to be sure. Info's similar experience is a great reference point. Whenever you have to write something over and over again to convince others, you have to wonder - am I really trying to convince myself?

Thanks for believing! I agree again, it is impossible to be sure, when I write I was 100% sure, Its incorrect. However, I dont find Infos situation that similar, where the girl all of the sudden sends a pic, where she intends to have PROOF that she is pregnant, instead of going the "long path" and telling the guy from the first moment she sees a sign, but what do I know, girls do it their own way I guess. For more symphaty maybe.

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let's say she is being dishonest. You wonder what her motivations are. She could trap richer guys. Sure, but that's going down an unproductive line of thinking. She's not some criminal mastermind. Trapping a foreigner is trapping a foreigner. Even if you don't have money, there's a great chance that your family does. And even if her family has money, there's always more to be had and it's not just about money - trapping a foreigner has benefits of status, as well.

Could be, yes. Then again, I think she would make me take off the condom way earlier if she wanted to trap me. Maybe she lied about her cyclus, and that the days where I came inside her, she would be the most fertile. Again.. Why would she the last day we had sex tell me that she took her IUD out, and tells me not to cum inside her??? Maybe she never had an IUD, hmm, for me this is too complicated only to get some sperm from a foreigner.

Faking all this would be insane, and it would involve too many people. From my point of view, she makes decent money, lives cheap with her girlfriend(Also met her), doesnt splash around with money and manages to save up a good amount, maybe the 200k is almost all she had left in the bank.. Yes sure, I can still be wrong about all this ofcourse.

She dont know my last name, and for all she knows, I could allready have left the country by now. Status then..

And yes, I do get what you guys are trying to tell me. I shouldnt trust anyone when it comes to stuff like this, especially here in PH and that you have heard this story multiple times before, I fully understand and I dont expect anyone to believe this story. But it seems to me that the general assumption among western people, is that if you meet a girl from SEA, she wants/needs/takes something from you, no matter what, Im not saying all of you believe this, but some does. The older and more ugly you are, the easier it would be to have these prejudices, I think.

Probably a really messy post, sorry I cant figure out this quoting stuff..

Bottom right at the end of a post there's a green plus sign on top of two pieces of paper (first icon right of "quote"). Click that and it will begin a multi quote, finish by clicking "quote" on the last one.

let me give you a possible scenario.
She isnt rich at all judging by her having to pay her brother's tuition and her family wanting her to marry a foreigner.
She had a foreigner boyfriend before who gave her a decent amount of money so she has some savings, now she wants another. Doesnt have to some super complicated conspiracy

Dingafkinling.

What

Yo Dace hit the Nail on the head.
I was waiting to write Similar but the way I write it be a balls up.
Yeah but if You Don't want The Girl Pass on Details as I like the Fact she holds a Good Conversation and Enjoys Her Sex.
You maybe sitting in the Bigblind spot Same spot I normally sit with Chicks . I in Small Blind in this Hand Going All In.

"Hello, my name is Mr. Friendly, when I was in PH many years ago, I met this girl who I dated for a couple months, and before I left, I decided to give her a couple hundred grand, because why not"

Its not my fault you guys cant attract a decent girl here in Ph. Like with Infoshove, have he even been outside Manila? After all I have heard, the girls who live in the city for many years will get more spoiled and materialistic.

Oh btw, the crazy girl I was talking about earlier, turned out her family was The Mafia, not the parents, since they were dead. The brother of this this crazy girl got into a fight with some dude at a club once, he ended up dead a few days after. This was just what I was told, might be a lie ofcourse. I bet iLiveInAsia is happy now.

It's pretty common for girls to look for an older foreign boyfriend that will send them $500-1k every month. They were suggesting something like that, not someone that was vacationing in the Philippines and decided to give a random girl he spent a week with thousands of dollars as a going away gift.

To be honest that does sound a lot more realistic than her side of the story.

Not pregnant, she went to get her IUD back in and they found out she will skip her period because of some change in hormonal balance, because of having sex I guess..

https://imgur.com/a/jIO9gU8

Yes Im aware. Im damn amazed how it seems that no one here have had a good time with a women in SEA, where she doesnt want anything in return.

watch out boys, this ones kickin’