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Originally Posted by Swimmin
i need to be asexual like c00n i guess
The official opinion of most ace communities is that one cannot
become asexual at free will*. It happens either at birth or (like some but not all aces think) 'by nurture' in childhood; the real reasons are yet unknown.
I'm sure you meant 'celibate' instead of 'asexual'.
* I beg to differ and suspect that asexuality and aromanticism, like any kind of absence of attraction, can be attained along the Buddhist path, but my opinion is a 'heresy'.
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Originally Posted by Pooter
Would love to hear c00ns thoughts on the above.
I respect Michael ('Mic' as we call him amicably) and agree with all he said there. Asexual spectrum people come in different varieties; I think what unites us is the community spirit, not necessarily the likeness of what we can or cannot feel. Thanks for taking the time to educate yourself and other readers of the thread
I belong to the category of asexuals who masturbate and even have a high masturbation drive (well, it's lower now than 5 years ago). To me, it's indeed a separate experience, not a simulation of sex. (The way I hold myself is not even close to the way a woman would hold me, and I doubt that a mouth could do a similar thing either.) I like looking at selfie pics/videos of transwomen because they're beautiful like paintings, but I don't like to get personal with them.
Last edited by coon74; 01-01-2016 at 01:39 PM.