Quick update on Tinder in CDMX:
I had always thought the main advantage over SEA over the rest of the world was the ease in getting girls to come directly to your place. But last week I wanted to see if it was possible in CDMX.
Before, my main focus was a LTR, but in the last week or 2 I've been a bit burnt out by the dating grind. On Tinder I have 2k+ matches b/c I swipe right on everyone and CDMX is massive (21 million people) and there are like 150 fresh girls on Tinder every single day. Up until last week I was only messaging the 7s and above for traditional dates. But I realized I had hundreds of decent looking (5s and 6s) girls just sitting in the queue.
So I decided, why not aggressively ask for sex, and if it doesn't work out, who cares since I wasn't gonna message them otherwise anyway. I'd send my basic canned opener, maybe 2-3 normal messages about them to build a bit of comfort, and then I'd hit them with "hey I'm looking for a FWB...(couple lines about why I'd be a good candidate)...I just wanted to be upfront with you and not waste anyone's time"
The results were actually quite good. I'd say I sent the message to about 40 girls, 20 of which just ignored or said "I appreciate the frankness, but no thanks", another dozen said they liked the idea, but we should get to know each first, and 7 or 8 basically agreed to it flat out.
So I put the plan into action on Wednesday. This girl works from 4-11, so we agreed to meet at the bus stop a minute walk from my place at 11:30. She showed up a few minutes late, we chatted at the bus stop for a minute, then walked back to my place, up to my room, had a beer on my couch and were making out about 10 minutes after we got there. Not the cutest girl ever and a couple lbs. overweight, I'd say she was a 5, but really good in bed, so I enjoyed it.
On Thursday I had planned to meet a 19yo around 5, but she ended up getting cold feet and saying maybe another time. I'm not gonna re-initiate with her.
On Friday, the same girl from Wednesday wanted to meet at 2PM, so I agreed. I also had plans to meet a new girl at 5PM at the same bus stop. So I let FWB #1 know and she was in and out in 2 hours. Met the new girl at 5:20PM. She's super cute, but probably 25-30 lbs overweight, she'd be a knockout if she were skinny. She seemed a bit more nervous, so we stopped at a bar on the way back and had 2 beers each, and then headed back to my place, sat on the couch and were making out shortly after. She ended up staying about 4 hours. Sex was decent, oral was incredible, but I don't like how she kisses and there wasn't much chemistry. So not sure if would repeat.
On Saturday, I planned to meet with a 35yo at 2PM. She was already sending full nudes the night before so it was obvious she was very DTF. Originally the plan was to watch Cpt. Marvel together and then head back to my place, but she audibled and asked if she could come directly to my place, which I obviously agreed. She showed up and we sat at my dining room table chatting for about 15 minutes, eventually she wanted to see the view from my balcony so we went over there and started making out.
Sex with her was among the best in my life, and she ended up being cuter in person, a 6 or slightly above. She's also super cool too and runs her own business, which is a much more compatible lifestly with a poker player than the normal 9-5. So even though I started out thinking she'd just be a FWB, I'm actually more interested in dating her and she seems open to that possibility too.
All in all, 3 girls in less than 24 hours, which isn't too bad. Although the 1st of the 3 was a girl I'd already seen 2 nights ago.
So I was pretty exhausted today, although I think I could have gotten another girl to come over if I really wanted to. There are 3-4 other girls who agreed to my proposal, 1 of whom has even been chasing ME down "hey, haven't heard from you today, still interested in FWBs", and there are probably another 300+ girls that I could go through the whole shtick with if I were motivated enough.
I would suggest that it's quite easy to get average looking girls to come directly to my place basically as often as you want, but it's a bit of a lengthy process. I'm too scared to try it with the hotter girls, b/c I would rather date them for the LTR possibility and don't want to burn the match going for the higher risk FWB play, but I'm sure if you were in full FWB mode that it'd be possible to get a few of the hotter matches to agree to the plan.
So, for me CDMX has been amazing. There are plenty of really cute, smart, educated girls familiar with American culture to date, and also plenty of decent looking girls willing to come directly to my place to bang. If you're a white guy with decent Spanish, it's hard to imagine a better destination. Also has the advantage of being next to America, and tons of direct flights to Europe/Latin America.
Here's a pic of the 2nd girl who came to my place on Friday:
Here are a couple more SFW pics the 35yo sent: