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Originally Posted by Fossilkid93
Zara, thanks for the suggestion, I will give that a try.
Good info re: BsAs. How is your Spanish? Have you been able to make friends with any locals?
I wanted to try out BsAs last Winter, but it wasn't open so I checked out Brazil instead. Then I wanted to move there later this year and it STILL isn't open, so I've given up for now. I've already booked a flight for Spain in November and am gonna slowly make my way over to Tbilisi, Georgia and then live there for a year starting in March. It seems like another digital nomad hotspot that has a very nice cost of living. After that, I may finally give BsAs a look and then have a better idea of which place might be a good long-term fit.
CDMX I think you would have better luck with women. Even though walking the streets you won't encounter near as many cute girls as Colombia, Brazil, Argentina, it seems like on the dating apps there are quite a few and a lot of the upper echelon girls will be interested and won't be time wasters.
spoink, I first arrived in February 2018 and would say it's stayed mostly the same. I hope it doesn't get more overrun by expats now that more people are getting a taste of working from home and living as digital nomads.
Buenos Aires:
My Spanish is pretty advanced now but back then it was a lot more intermediate/conversational. I did well with the ladies down there, but it can be a pretty epic minefield of time wasters, especially if going the nightlife route. My advice would be to screen for dates (and friends too for that matter) with people who moved from outside of BsAs. Portenos are comically aggressive and a bit slimy so the Portenas can get a bit jaded and adjust by being very passive/skeptical but many of them get a bit addicted to the attention. They will sometimes string you along for hours even if they have a boyfriend just to get their attention fix.
Another good idea (easier said than done) is to avoid the 10PM-6AM nightlife time blackhole in favor of meeting people elsewhere and then hosting asados to build a social circle. The super late night seven day a week nightlife was quite the temptation and slippery slope into degeneracy for some of my poker friends. It is pretty easy to make friends down there, however the average young Argentine is pretty basic/intermediate at English. Locals and gringos alike were pretty down to come out for a party or pregame.
I would recommend staying in a building with amenities so you can invite friends to the communal grill area or the girl you are dating to the pool. Both are pretty standard amenities in building complexes. It sounds like La Condesa/Roma Norte in CDMX are the Palmero Soho/Palermo Hollywood equivalents as the latter are by far the best areas to live for walkable bars and restaurants.
All things considered it is a place I am considering moving back to in the next year as I still have friends there, but it has its pros and cons. A second tier city is also something worth considering given that some cost less than half of BsAs, especially since I suspect rent prices in BsAs are going to pop once the borders reopen. There is an oversupply of short term tourism rental inventory sitting empty and artificially dragging down Airbnb prices so I am skeptical that the ultra bargains will still be there.