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Originally Posted by poker_triad
Khmers you dealt with were easy to get along with because they were in a position beneath you and had to prostrate themselves in order to have any hope of ever benefitting from you.
This feudal thinking where people carefully want to figure out your position in life and how it fits into their feudal hierarchy and how you ought to give people handouts that are "beneath" you generally doesn't fit into first world thinking and is much cause of resentment / conflict.
If you go to Japan, Korea, Singapore etc. you expect halfway decent service without having to explain your life to people, being expected to build relations resulting in special opportunities / handouts etc. In Japan there aren't even tips and if you buy a water bottle for 1$ in the countryside people act like you're their best customer ever.
Grandpas on retirement seemed all too eager to re-enforce the feudal thinking for some reason, probably because they're largely blue collar simpletons that have never gone to first world Asia and think locals are simple children that need handouts and aren't forced into a place in their caste systems, educated with rote learning and adherence to authority with zero way to move up for the most part.
Now the same people responsible for the feudal system in Thailand have made it known through their media and education system that westerners are neither desired to be in the country or protected anymore and beneath anyone but the lowliest peasants.
All the light skin obsession is just about the ethnic chinese upper class btw. and as a caucasian you're just a means to have a kid that might blend in, but in reality is a perpetual outsider relegated to the entertainer class.
Last edited by iLiveInAsia; 07-04-2021 at 11:03 AM.