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Originally Posted by ECart
having little to no shot with ~90-95% of girls and having a really easy time with ~5-10% of girls (who imo are usually not the top of the foodchain) around his age,
This is a good description of most Asian countries. Since many white guys have such abnormal standards of beauty, they find heaven because any petite thin Asian girl is most of the way to 'hot' in their eyes. The locals are wondering why a foreigner with money would go out with some poor and uneducated "ugly" girl, but it's all in the eyes of the beholder, isn't it?
The real answer is to move to a country where that 5-10% of girls is what the OP finds irresistably attractive and forget about what everyone else thinks.
As much as people tend to rag on retirees moving to Asian countries and dating local women, I think they're the ones that are actually making the smartest move. Most normal young white guys can do better in US/EU - including with Asian girls if they move to a metro area that has lots of Asian girls.
I propose the idea that most of the young guys who say they're in Asia in part because they like Asian women are actually in Asia largely because they like a little bit of adventure, uncertainty, travel, escapism.