I'd reply:
will u b my valentine?
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your scarcity is making you overthink this though
women are random and while some things have a tendency to be +EV in terms of getting laid there could be 100 reasons why something doesn't elicit the wanted response at any given point of time
the key to overcoming this is a lack of scarcity and making quick outcome independent decisions just like in poker
taking the poker analogy further, overanalyzing hands and trying to find the perfect lines for any given situation never got anyone anywhere
focusing on making +EV decisions, putting in volume and being fairly outcome independent on the other hand got a lot of people somewhere