Don't over think it

It might make more sense to move to Pampanga, I think you'd see more of that type of girl around and they'd be easier to bang

I forgot to mention my ex doesn't like blonde on me either, making it 3/5 Pinays who strongly dislike it compared to my dark hair (and the other 2 might just have been polite). In her words I'm looking silly like a cartoon character.

Ask her where is the best place to buy real estate here in the the Philippines because you are going to receive a ton of money from an inheritance (RIP your grandma). Then if she changes her attitude towards you, ignore her for a while. If she starts to spam you and tell you how handsome you are etc, smash her as much as you can. But DO NOT FALL IN LOVE. Take pics then report back.

You must be new to the thread. Would be a near lock that he falls for her.

So you're not her type, yet you don't agree with her because you don't think she can get better?

You might want to switch up countries then. Given that you're relatively broke and didn't go to uni yet you might want to look into scholarships for other places in Asia. China gives them out pretty freely for example and the average girl in China looks much better than the average Filipina.

Also have a look at okcupid.com but most good looking girls there are hurr durr I'm a manager / have a rich father and only want a top tier guy. Unless you go full Spirit Maze on these girls and lie about everything it's gonna be an uphill battle.

Pro tip: Don't let bakla hair stylists talk you into changing hair colors etc. They make most of their money on these type of things and know how to work people.

Awkward first half of the date not talking to each other

Where do I sign to marry her?

Jokes aside, for real though this one is special. I've never talked to a 'hottest girl of the country' before. I'm not gonna give up yet.

No, I'm gonna become a little bit closer to her type by getting in shape and getting rid of that blonde hair, and do the rest of the convincing by showing her I'm serious about relationship which she says most foreigners aren't.

I mean you are obviously exaggerating with the "hottest girl in the country" but what would you rate her from 1-10, seems like a 6 at most to me

I should've said subjectively hottest, and of course it's likely in a 100 million popolation there exist girls I'd find even hotter, but she's the hottest I remember among the many thousands of Filipina faces I've seen in my 1 year in the country. I can say for sure she's a top <0.1% to me.

1-10 is much harder to say but I would give her a 9.

Dude, the way you're approaching this new hottest girl ever is pretty embarrassing.

First of all, most guys who have dated a lot will tell you that there really isn't any girl that's special and different. You're right to add that she's your type, so you like her more. That's the best it's going to get. However, I don't think you really know what your type means yet. Obsessing over a girl just because of her looks is extremely pathetic. After you're with her a few times, she'll look just as ordinary as all other human beings inevitably look.

Your desire to get in shape and be a better person is admirable, but your motivation is way off. If you do it just for this girl, you're doing it for the wrong reason and eventually your motivation will crash. Do it for yourself! When you do things just to win the validation of a person, it reeks of desperation.

I've started my diet on 27 December, long before I met her. I've wanted to do this diet for myself for a long time, so don't worry my motivation won't crash. But you're right in that she's currently my main motivation that's pushing me to work out harder, and I don't care if that's pathetic.

Try wank yourself off and give us the real number

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Lol it's my real subjective number, there's no way I could rate her any less than 8.5/10. I don't remember any white girl I find hotter and there aren't many other Asians, certainly none I've met. In person she looks better than in any of her facebook pics. I didn't visit her in Pampanga for the first 6 months thinking she's kinda hot but not worth the long journey, then when I met her she instantly gained 1.5 points on my scale.

Doh! How do I respond assertively without pressuring her about Valentines? It's gonna be our 2nd date and she's not even into me yet so I don't wanna seem needy.



The only reason I asked about Wednesday was because that's her off day, didn't even think about V-day. But backing out now and saying "oh it's Valentines?" or "nahh I didn't mean to ask you out on Valentines" sounds weak.

There's no looking 'needy' it's not a western chick, all you need to do is keep talking to her keeping the mood light until your penis is inside her

I'd say yes of course or write it in tagalog chicks like that 'oo siyempre' with some heart emojis. If she says oh wow you're learning or something say yes, make it look like you're serious about living there long term

I'd reply:

will u b my valentine?

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your scarcity is making you overthink this though

women are random and while some things have a tendency to be +EV in terms of getting laid there could be 100 reasons why something doesn't elicit the wanted response at any given point of time

the key to overcoming this is a lack of scarcity and making quick outcome independent decisions just like in poker

taking the poker analogy further, overanalyzing hands and trying to find the perfect lines for any given situation never got anyone anywhere

focusing on making +EV decisions, putting in volume and being fairly outcome independent on the other hand got a lot of people somewhere

Hero is all-in

And vilain probably too much busy swallowing the jizz of Chad, Chang Thunderwang and Dakila (Filipino slayer).

It has the thread's blessing now that I've sent both messages. It will work.

Why are you asking us what to say? Haha this is Philippines man. Just say anything positive...keep it not super serious...even send a bunch of emoticons if you want.

Your ex looks hotter than this "best girl ever" btw

Ignore Gonzo about second message...yeh usually sucks to most people in the world but is fine to send second message as long as after you don't come across as super creep.

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Just tilting at this point

u should have not said anything

I know, but then she wouldn't have said anything either, not in a week, not in a month (I know that from our chat history of the past 2.5 weeks - I've ignored her for a week and when I then message her she still takes a day to reply or not reply at all). What would be my plan after a month of silence, get back to her asking if I can please meet her now? Nah, I won't ask again, if she changes her mind in the future then she'll have to get back to me and I wanted to make that clear.