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Clueless kid moving to Manila - Never been to Asia before

02-06-2018 , 03:35 PM
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Originally Posted by Info Shove Clueless kid moving to Manila - Never been to Asia before
She just turned 19!
Don't over think it
02-06-2018 , 03:43 PM
It might make more sense to move to Pampanga, I think you'd see more of that type of girl around and they'd be easier to bang
02-06-2018 , 09:07 PM
I forgot to mention my ex doesn't like blonde on me either, making it 3/5 Pinays who strongly dislike it compared to my dark hair (and the other 2 might just have been polite). In her words I'm looking silly like a cartoon character.
02-06-2018 , 11:11 PM
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Originally Posted by Info Shove Clueless kid moving to Manila - Never been to Asia before
She didn't tell me those things as a compiled list like a **** test. It's what I could pick up from things she briefly mentioned over the course of the 3 hours we hung out in Pampanga. It's pretty clear she wants a handsome movie star settling down with her as iLiveInAsia put it. Her standards are delusional. I don't think there's much I could've said or done differently, she was put off by my appearance from the first second she saw me, treating me like I'm not the average looking 23 year old I am, but the 70 year old guy in above video thumbnail instead.
Ask her where is the best place to buy real estate here in the the Philippines because you are going to receive a ton of money from an inheritance (RIP your grandma). Then if she changes her attitude towards you, ignore her for a while. If she starts to spam you and tell you how handsome you are etc, smash her as much as you can. But DO NOT FALL IN LOVE. Take pics then report back.
02-06-2018 , 11:34 PM
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Originally Posted by GonZo72 Clueless kid moving to Manila - Never been to Asia before
But DO NOT FALL IN LOVE.
You must be new to the thread. Would be a near lock that he falls for her.
02-07-2018 , 01:23 AM
So you're not her type, yet you don't agree with her because you don't think she can get better?
02-07-2018 , 03:54 AM
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Originally Posted by Info Shove Clueless kid moving to Manila - Never been to Asia before
I'm trying. I'm roaming around malls 10 hours a week but nothing catches my eye. I'm not feeling so interested in Filipinas anymore. She was able to restore that interest cuz she's exactly my type.
You might want to switch up countries then. Given that you're relatively broke and didn't go to uni yet you might want to look into scholarships for other places in Asia. China gives them out pretty freely for example and the average girl in China looks much better than the average Filipina.

Also have a look at okcupid.com but most good looking girls there are hurr durr I'm a manager / have a rich father and only want a top tier guy. Unless you go full Spirit Maze on these girls and lie about everything it's gonna be an uphill battle.

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I forgot to mention my ex doesn't like blonde on me either, making it 3/5 Pinays who strongly dislike it compared to my dark hair (and the other 2 might just have been polite). In her words I'm looking silly like a cartoon character.
Pro tip: Don't let bakla hair stylists talk you into changing hair colors etc. They make most of their money on these type of things and know how to work people.

Last edited by iLiveInAsia; 02-07-2018 at 04:05 AM.
02-07-2018 , 09:13 AM
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Originally Posted by Info Shove Clueless kid moving to Manila - Never been to Asia before
On a more positive note, my ex was here from Saturday to Sunday and I got 3 bangs out of it.

On Saturday night I was bored and admittedly missed her a bit. Of course I was also horny and had sex at the back of my mind but it wasn't the main reason. I just wanted to see her again as friends, it's been 5 weeks since I broke up.

No "Hello". When she saw me she turned her back on me and looked for a cab. She didn't talk to me for the whole 15 minute cab ride to the sushi place. At the sushi place she still didn't talk until I said "I'm sorry", she replied quietly "ok", I went on "for hurting you" and she told me to stop. After that the ice was broken and we talked about parents, poker, her work, etc. When we were almost finished eating she was the one to ask if I wanna watch a movie at my place... I was about to ask the same thing a minute later.

Anyway she spent the night and it was fun, but from Saturday till Sunday she kept asking about other girls and I was very clear that yes, in the past 5 weeks I've seen other girls, why wouldn't I? It ended up with her storming out of my condo with no goodbyes on Sunday night. It was right after she had asked about other girls for the 3rd time and for the 3rd time I repeated yes, there are other girls.

Did I get used for sushi and sex?
Awkward first half of the date not talking to each other
02-07-2018 , 09:38 AM
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Originally Posted by Fossilkid93 Clueless kid moving to Manila - Never been to Asia before
You must be new to the thread. Would be a near lock that he falls for her.
Where do I sign to marry her?

Jokes aside, for real though this one is special. I've never talked to a 'hottest girl of the country' before. I'm not gonna give up yet.

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Originally Posted by Ihooper88 Clueless kid moving to Manila - Never been to Asia before
So you're not her type, yet you don't agree with her because you don't think she can get better?
No, I'm gonna become a little bit closer to her type by getting in shape and getting rid of that blonde hair, and do the rest of the convincing by showing her I'm serious about relationship which she says most foreigners aren't.

Last edited by Info Shove; 02-07-2018 at 09:49 AM.
02-07-2018 , 10:34 AM
I mean you are obviously exaggerating with the "hottest girl in the country" but what would you rate her from 1-10, seems like a 6 at most to me
02-07-2018 , 10:49 AM
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Originally Posted by Dace Clueless kid moving to Manila - Never been to Asia before
I mean you are obviously exaggerating with the "hottest girl in the country" but what would you rate her from 1-10, seems like a 6 at most to me
I should've said subjectively hottest, and of course it's likely in a 100 million popolation there exist girls I'd find even hotter, but she's the hottest I remember among the many thousands of Filipina faces I've seen in my 1 year in the country. I can say for sure she's a top <0.1% to me.

1-10 is much harder to say but I would give her a 9.

Last edited by Info Shove; 02-07-2018 at 11:16 AM.
02-07-2018 , 03:27 PM
Dude, the way you're approaching this new hottest girl ever is pretty embarrassing.

First of all, most guys who have dated a lot will tell you that there really isn't any girl that's special and different. You're right to add that she's your type, so you like her more. That's the best it's going to get. However, I don't think you really know what your type means yet. Obsessing over a girl just because of her looks is extremely pathetic. After you're with her a few times, she'll look just as ordinary as all other human beings inevitably look.

Your desire to get in shape and be a better person is admirable, but your motivation is way off. If you do it just for this girl, you're doing it for the wrong reason and eventually your motivation will crash. Do it for yourself! When you do things just to win the validation of a person, it reeks of desperation.
02-07-2018 , 04:00 PM
I've started my diet on 27 December, long before I met her. I've wanted to do this diet for myself for a long time, so don't worry my motivation won't crash. But you're right in that she's currently my main motivation that's pushing me to work out harder, and I don't care if that's pathetic.
02-08-2018 , 12:27 AM
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Originally Posted by Info Shove Clueless kid moving to Manila - Never been to Asia before
I should've said subjectively hottest, and of course it's likely in a 100 million popolation there exist girls I'd find even hotter, but she's the hottest I remember among the many thousands of Filipina faces I've seen in my 1 year in the country. I can say for sure she's a top <0.1% to me.

1-10 is much harder to say but I would give her a 9.
Try wank yourself off and give us the real number

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02-08-2018 , 06:01 AM
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Originally Posted by Mr.DjiSamSoe Clueless kid moving to Manila - Never been to Asia before
Try wank yourself off and give us the real number

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Lol it's my real subjective number, there's no way I could rate her any less than 8.5/10. I don't remember any white girl I find hotter and there aren't many other Asians, certainly none I've met. In person she looks better than in any of her facebook pics. I didn't visit her in Pampanga for the first 6 months thinking she's kinda hot but not worth the long journey, then when I met her she instantly gained 1.5 points on my scale.
02-09-2018 , 10:16 AM
Doh! How do I respond assertively without pressuring her about Valentines? It's gonna be our 2nd date and she's not even into me yet so I don't wanna seem needy.



The only reason I asked about Wednesday was because that's her off day, didn't even think about V-day. But backing out now and saying "oh it's Valentines?" or "nahh I didn't mean to ask you out on Valentines" sounds weak.
02-09-2018 , 10:23 AM
There's no looking 'needy' it's not a western chick, all you need to do is keep talking to her keeping the mood light until your penis is inside her

I'd say yes of course or write it in tagalog chicks like that 'oo siyempre' with some heart emojis. If she says oh wow you're learning or something say yes, make it look like you're serious about living there long term
02-09-2018 , 10:30 AM
I'd reply:

will u b my valentine?

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your scarcity is making you overthink this though

women are random and while some things have a tendency to be +EV in terms of getting laid there could be 100 reasons why something doesn't elicit the wanted response at any given point of time

the key to overcoming this is a lack of scarcity and making quick outcome independent decisions just like in poker

taking the poker analogy further, overanalyzing hands and trying to find the perfect lines for any given situation never got anyone anywhere

focusing on making +EV decisions, putting in volume and being fairly outcome independent on the other hand got a lot of people somewhere
02-09-2018 , 11:57 AM
Hero is all-in

02-09-2018 , 05:47 PM
And vilain probably too much busy swallowing the jizz of Chad, Chang Thunderwang and Dakila (Filipino slayer).

Last edited by GonZo72; 02-09-2018 at 06:03 PM. Reason: Pro tip: never send a second message if she don't answer back after a while
02-09-2018 , 06:14 PM
It has the thread's blessing now that I've sent both messages. It will work.

02-09-2018 , 10:08 PM
Why are you asking us what to say? Haha this is Philippines man. Just say anything positive...keep it not super serious...even send a bunch of emoticons if you want.

Your ex looks hotter than this "best girl ever" btw

Ignore Gonzo about second message...yeh usually sucks to most people in the world but is fine to send second message as long as after you don't come across as super creep.

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02-10-2018 , 10:27 AM
Just tilting at this point

02-10-2018 , 10:49 AM
u should have not said anything
02-10-2018 , 11:25 AM
I know, but then she wouldn't have said anything either, not in a week, not in a month (I know that from our chat history of the past 2.5 weeks - I've ignored her for a week and when I then message her she still takes a day to reply or not reply at all). What would be my plan after a month of silence, get back to her asking if I can please meet her now? Nah, I won't ask again, if she changes her mind in the future then she'll have to get back to me and I wanted to make that clear.

      
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