Pretty good point. I think "it's disrespectful to break up over the phone/text" became dogma at some point.

I don't disagree with you but at the same time these "dumb" folkways do exist, so it is disrespectful whether you like it or not if youre a part of the society. For example when someone dies, the last thing I wanna do is go see their rotting corpse at a funeral but if you just don't show up it's a sign of disrespect. dumb tho, I agree.

Definitely shoulve made sure you had none of her belongings first though. I'd be shocked if she really stops messaging you - that's just the filipina defense mechanism that won't last more than a couple days.

the persons dead so they cant feel any disrespect

i'd hire a grab bike or car to drop the stuff off at her house so she at least gets it back

So are you finally going to hit burgos ?

Plot twist:

Her reaction of never wanting to see me again was obv just temporary and today she agreed to meet in person to talk about everything. I kept insisting we talk in person because I felt very guilty and I knew this wouldn't feel like a finished chapter for both of us unless I explain I'm breaking up in person. I decided we meet at my place because I was pretty sure she wouldn't do anything crazy, probably cry in my arms but none of the butcher knife crap.

Btw it turned out she was still a bit drunk from partying Friday night. This will make a lot of sense and explain her behavior when you read the rest below.

She comes at 11:20AM and as I open the door storms into my place packing all her things without looking at me like she just wants to get her stuff and leave with no goodbye. I convince her we should sit down on the couch and talk for a minute. I try my best to comfort her and explain why I'm breaking up, we end up talking for like an hour while cuddling which turns into making out. Before she had come over I wasn't expecting to get any sex, I thought we would just talk and I had already fapped twice that day. Anyway, we are making out and naturally I go for the butt and touch her between her legs only to discover she has like 20 layers of napkins in her panties, turned out she's on her period (after 33 instead of 28 days - phew!) and it's bleeding stronger than ever because of the morning after pills so I stopped thinking ok no sex. But then she starts touching my dick, I stop her thinking she wouldn't be able to finish anyway given that I had already come twice in the past 5 hours. But she asks if I want her to suck it and I can't say no to that. So she gives me the first blowjob that she has initiated herself without me doing anything or asking for it, and the first time she doesn't need to spit out every few moments! She goes deeper than ever, uses her mouth more than ever and even does stuff like taking my balls in her mouth without me saying anything or asking for anything. It took around 45 minutes because I had already cum twice that day and I'm slow anyway, but she didn't complain once for 45 minutes of sucking! While I was cumming in her mouth she didn't stop and kept sucking for another good half minute just as I like it, until I told her to stop. I never saw anything like it from her. Best blowjob of my life so far, closely followed by Stoner Girl. Her words were literally "I was just pretending I'm bad because I don't like it". The most shocking part to me is how she always had to run to the sink to spit out and wash her mouth every 30 seconds like it's unbearably disgusting to her and appearently all of it has been a show given that today she's sucked it in my bed for 45 minutes without having to run to the sink once.
Cliffs: OP got best blowjob of his life so far, from what he thought was the least talented girl at sucking.

After that it felt like nothing happened in the past couple days like we're together again and I think she was having hopes I wouldn't break up with her after proving her true talent. We sleep for 3 hours until at 4:20PM I tell her I'll go to the barber in 40 minutes and she needs to leave by then. I wasn't lying FWIW, I was actually going to the barber, but only to afterwards go to the mall to hand out notes, it's Saturday! Anyway she said in a sad voice she will leave now and was visibly pissed off as she was expecting me to at least spend the night with her after that BJ. She went to the bathroom, packed her stuff and left, all within a couple minutes without saying goodbye, just as she had originally wanted to do 11:20AM.

I'm feeling slightly guilty but not much as she's the one who initiated the blowjob. What guy would say no to that? I'm mostly just glad I finally broke up in person and I'm feeling less guilty than yesterday.

Anyway, gotta go. Feels good to be officially back in the market.

Lets hand out some notes


Thread saver (wouldnt mind next gf looking like this)

I guess thats why you break up in person

You are evil.. repent repent..😂

breaks up per sms before confirmation of her late periods...
then gets live confirmation and bonus breakup BJ CIM

some people just keep running good a little longer...

obviously she was LAZY if she was pretending all along to not be able to give you what you were asking despite her supposed willingness to just do everything needed
hope your budget does not get in the way of finding better value than her

lazy is not going to cut it for a long term relationship.. she can blame herself indeed

I was expecting a make up sex story , bit its break up sex.

Feels bad man

Still a happy ending

Not sure you needed to go into quick as much detail with the BJ story but WP nevertheless, GL in your future endevours. Same hole syndrome was always going to take effect here.

Pretending to be bad at it or pretending to not like doing it is a pretty common tactic imo. If a girl's pulling that even though you're willing to eat her out, it's a huge, huge negative.

To reveal the trick and suck it like a pro after months of pretending... didn't she just cost herself "face?" Or would she only lose face if OP accused her of pretending before she confirmed it?

Probably just wanted to blow his mind before they went their separate ways.

I don't think she cared about losing face at that point, especially being a bit drunk. She just wanted to change my mind and obv the alcohol may have made her more honest. I also don't think she thought anything bad of the word 'pretend' or knows that it's a very negative word in the West. Filipinas lie all the time and pretending all kinds of stuff may be seen as normal here (just speculating).

Asians lie all the time, its a cultural thing

It's really irrelevant that she can give a good "chupa". The point is she didnt/doesnt want to.

But kudos to her for going 45 mintutes. Can't say i've ever let a girl go more than 10 minutes without feeling the need for reciprocation.

+1

At the 10 min mark it's customary to flip them into 69 potion, side on, then slowly move to rimming her bumhole, hoping she'll reciprocate that.

Pics of GF now you've broken up?

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If I was a genuinely bad person I'd post pics of my ex gf's face on a public forum a couple days after breaking her heart after over 3 months of relationship and calling her my best friend. No.

Do you have any magical advice how to bang this girl tonight before she leaves Manila? If I get to bang I don't care I will post a hundred pics of ex gf's face.

What do I need to say or do? Help



I handed my number to her at the mall yesterday. Her face is only average but her legs are to die for, I want!

Lol @ nice butt.

Although the hotpants make her look like a sloot, she texts fairly conservative, as in "I'd like to do stuff together with you and get to know you but I ain't no sloot going to some random dudes apartment I didn't even get to look at".

Now if you really ain't down or too broke to hang out or to do even basic stuff together the last ditch effort is: No offense and I don't think you're a slut, but I think you're really hot and if you'd like to try it with a white guy before you fly home you can come to my place if you feel like it.

And text her some decent pics of yourself as she apparently doesn't even remember what exactly you look like.

Her face is ugly tho. Would need a paper bag.