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Old 07-31-2017, 11:14 PM   #1551
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+1 kinda, one of the worst experiences ever, breaking up with a thai girl, mine slit her wrists in a fake way too, didnt work hehe.

u live in Manila now?
Yeah same kinda of sh***, mine locked herself in the bathroom with a butcher knife, I had to break the door.

Im in HCMC now, I might come back this month. Not really living anywhere anymore, just bouncing from place to place. Did you come back ?
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Old 08-01-2017, 01:04 AM   #1552
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If you just looking for casual sex and fun.. there won't be any serious relationship there..define "these girls" - you mean Asian girls general or PI girls? I am sorry,when I am reading your post,I kinda think..in your mind,"your girls" is better than "these girls" (in term of race)
you couldnt have possibly taken my post out of context any more than you did

i would clearly rather get in a serious relationship with an asian girl then a western girl, my comment was more out of respect for any girls at all cuz maybe i am just an old softy but getting in a serious relationship just to have sex with a girl when you know it isnt going anywhere is against my morals....... its one thing to do it with some western girl, its another thing to move to an impoverished country and do it

not in any way saying the OP doesn't actually want a serious relationship as it sounds like he does, but at this point he is clearly done with her and only sticking around because he is afraid (maybe afraid isnt the right word, dont get offended) of breaking up with her and is trying to milk out every bit of free sex he can get while still with her
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Old 08-01-2017, 04:20 AM   #1553
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you couldnt have possibly taken my post out of context any more than you did

i would clearly rather get in a serious relationship with an asian girl then a western girl, my comment was more out of respect for any girls at all cuz maybe i am just an old softy but getting in a serious relationship just to have sex with a girl when you know it isnt going anywhere is against my morals....... its one thing to do it with some western girl, its another thing to move to an impoverished country and do it

not in any way saying the OP doesn't actually want a serious relationship as it sounds like he does, but at this point he is clearly done with her and only sticking around because he is afraid (maybe afraid isnt the right word, dont get offended) of breaking up with her and is trying to milk out every bit of free sex he can get while still with her
My bad then..sorry..Need to learn more English comprehension 😔
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Old 08-01-2017, 04:24 AM   #1554
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Yeah same kinda of sh***, mine locked herself in the bathroom with a butcher knife, I had to break the door.

Im in HCMC now, I might come back this month. Not really living anywhere anymore, just bouncing from place to place. Did you come back ?
And you think that girl was less crazy than mine? How would mine react?

She took a butcher knife? lol...
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Old 08-01-2017, 04:35 AM   #1555
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at this point he is clearly done with her and only sticking around because he is afraid (maybe afraid isnt the right word, dont get offended) of breaking up with her
I wasn't afraid until I heard about the butcher knife

I just find it hard to bring myself to do it. It's like abandoning a puppy. Plus I still see her as like my best friend in this country and I still like her a lot as a friend that I don't like seeing sad, she just doen't make me happy sexually or romantically anymore. My posts make it sound like I'm just milking out every last bit of free sex but the truth is I just find it hard to bring myself to hurt her even though I know waiting will only make it worse. I have never had a dilemma or burden like this before.

When I was "sextorting" her (according to KnightShft) I was just horny and said those things in a tone unclear if I'm serious or joking ("If my gf can't make me cum who's supposed to do it? You want me to text other girl right now to come here?" but breaking up is serious and will be very bad for her

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Old 08-01-2017, 04:47 AM   #1556
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She really doesn't sound that crazy to me. The whole "she's crazy" seems to stem back from the dick cutting off joke, which isn't even seen as that weird in Phils. Besides after you told her to cool it she did.


Sooner you deal with this the better though, for you and her.
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Old 08-01-2017, 05:33 AM   #1557
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Next time she comes over for the weekend tell her you're not in the mood to bang.
That ought to really get the ball rolling.

Really she already knows the break up is coming based on some of your out of character jokes.
It's not going to be some bombshell but ya, it will suck.
Still better to do it now with a clear conscience as opposed to after you've already cheated on her.
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Old 08-01-2017, 05:52 AM   #1558
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while I'm all for guidance and disciplining / sextortioning until she walks the walk of her own 'I just want to do all the things that is needed to make you happy',
the crazyness seems more on OP to run up the variance by 'punishing' her with yet another creampie / 'hope for the best' pills procedure well into a deteriorating interest and shortened relationship horizon..
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Old 08-01-2017, 06:18 AM   #1559
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I don't think straight when I'm about to bust a load. Even if the pills had 100% success rate (no variance) I wouldn't wish the side effects on her. Given that there is also variance involved, taking that risk made no sense

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Old 08-01-2017, 06:24 AM   #1560
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Yeah same kinda of sh***, mine locked herself in the bathroom with a butcher knife, I had to break the door.

Im in HCMC now, I might come back this month. Not really living anywhere anymore, just bouncing from place to place. Did you come back ?
going to Thailand today, will stay a few weeks until im bored then move back to Manila
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Old 08-01-2017, 06:37 AM   #1561
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When I was "sextorting" her (according to KnightShft) I was just horny and said those things in a tone unclear if I'm serious or joking ("If my gf can't make me cum who's supposed to do it? You want me to text other girl right now to come here?" but breaking up is serious and will be very bad for her
Yea, I don't blame you. Just saying it's not gonna solve the issues.

A girl asked me if we could get breakfast after a 1 night stand and I jokingly (but kinda seriously) said "sure if you blow me first". She did her part. So being the gentleman that I am, I walked over with her to mcdonalds. Only to notice she had something hanging from her chin when we were standing in line. I was about to tell her she's got something on her chin when it hit me that it was a glob of jizz dangling there defying physics. I didnt have the heart to tell her so we ordered and I ate my egg mcmuffin across the table from her. After breakfast she hopped in a taxi with it still dangling and i'm a horrible person.

We all do things in the heat of the moment, but it's pretty clear your relationship is a dead end. Best to just get it over with for everyone involved.

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Old 08-01-2017, 07:05 AM   #1562
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That's a beautiful story
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Old 08-01-2017, 01:41 PM   #1563
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Sooner you deal with this the better though, for you and her and us.
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Old 08-01-2017, 01:43 PM   #1564
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you couldnt have possibly taken my post out of context any more than you did

i would clearly rather get in a serious relationship with an asian girl then a western girl, my comment was more out of respect for any girls at all cuz maybe i am just an old softy but getting in a serious relationship just to have sex with a girl when you know it isnt going anywhere is against my morals....... its one thing to do it with some western girl, its another thing to move to an impoverished country and do it

not in any way saying the OP doesn't actually want a serious relationship as it sounds like he does, but at this point he is clearly done with her and only sticking around because he is afraid (maybe afraid isnt the right word, dont get offended) of breaking up with her and is trying to milk out every bit of free sex he can get while still with her

I'm feeling quite proud of K2 with this post. Nice to see you have grown up and matured since you "hate **** ed" a bar girl because she didn't want to do the second round.

Just goes to show we can all change.
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Old 08-04-2017, 08:44 AM   #1565
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July was a bad month poker-wise, especially the first half of the month at 300nl. Setups, more setups and some bad plays too but nothing that should stop me from crushing the soft games that I play imo. Anyway, I've fixed some more leaks in July. The downswing has also impaired my volume as it' taken its toll on motivation and mental game to play many hours-long sessions. Hopefully August will be a lot better. Let's set realistic volume goals - in August I wanna increase my volume compared to June (109.5 hours).




Way to break up with your gf in a text by accident. I wanted to do it in person because breaking up by text seems really disrespectful and coward. But I didn't have my brain on and I'm too honest so when she asked the right questions I just prattled away.

I feel bad but whatever, was my first relationship, can't do everything right. Apart from the final 3 weeks I think I did ok, I was the nicest bf ever, maybe too nice

Note for the future: Break up immediately when you start losing interest in a person and don't accidently do it by text, lol.




I still have clothes and other stuff she has left at my place... that's gonna be awkward. Reading BKKYOLO and Dace's experiences I'd rather meet her in public than let her inside my place during or after breakup. Who knows, she might lock herself in the bathroom with a butcher knife like I heard Thai girlfriends do it

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Old 08-04-2017, 02:02 PM   #1566
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breaking up by text = less of a chance she can chop your dick off, wp
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Old 08-04-2017, 02:03 PM   #1567
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"accident" lol Come on, that's telegraphing it pretty clearly. She certainly picked up on it.
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Old 08-04-2017, 02:16 PM   #1568
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beta weakness indahouse

But yeah defo beats giving her the chance to flip out in your room and make you feel sorry for her by crying and trying lame suicide attempts.

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Old 08-04-2017, 03:34 PM   #1569
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First relationship.. in asia, right?
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Old 08-04-2017, 03:38 PM   #1570
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Don't feel bad about it. Just because it's the Philippines that doesn't always mean you're in the wrong here / unethical / leading on a poor innocent girl etc.

Sometimes you may be, and sometimes not. I've seen her facebook pics you sent me, she's seems like a normal middle class chick who will likely have known exactly what she was getting into dating a foreigner, and letting him bang her so fast.

It may be an impoverished country overall on average but we're talking about individuals. From what we know of this specific girl she's not really impoverished at all.

It's the soft bigotry of low expectations to group all the girls together and see them as being easily led on / as some class that needs to be protected. You actually have more respect for them if you see them as having personal responsibility for their actions. IMO this particular girl is actually not that nice from how she's reacting in that chat, the things she's said before, and the way she's acted all along.
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Old 08-04-2017, 05:03 PM   #1571
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Don't feel bad about it. Just because it's the Philippines that doesn't always mean you're in the wrong here / unethical / leading on a poor innocent girl etc.

Sometimes you may be, and sometimes not. I've seen her facebook pics you sent me, she's seems like a normal middle class chick who will likely have known exactly what she was getting into dating a foreigner, and letting him bang her so fast.

It may be an impoverished country overall on average but we're talking about individuals. From what we know of this specific girl she's not really impoverished at all.

It's the soft bigotry of low expectations to group all the girls together and see them as being easily led on / as some class that needs to be protected. You actually have more respect for them if you see them as having personal responsibility for their actions. IMO this particular girl is actually not that nice from how she's reacting in that chat, the things she's said before, and the way she's acted all along.
LOL, really?
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Old 08-04-2017, 05:21 PM   #1572
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beta weakness indahouse
The thing is she's literally been the only friend I have in the Philippines and only person I've hanged out with for the past 3.5 months. So naturally I would act what you call beta. Sure I could quickly make new friends and I'm not desperate for friends but that's not what I mean, it's just the reason I find it even more hard to separate and particularly care about that one's feelings. She's been a pretty good (girl-)friend by Filipino standards, seemed very true, never seemed to care about money, etc.

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No, the only other one lasted 2 weeks in Germany so I wouldn't even count that. I've banged other girls in Europe but haven't been in serious relationships.
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Old 08-04-2017, 05:49 PM   #1573
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Anyway time to hand out notes
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Old 08-05-2017, 12:15 AM   #1574
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If you don't text her anymore 9 out of 10 times she'll start texting you again soon and then you can tell her that you want to remain friends or w/e if that's your thing, but given that she was kinda possessive that's probably a bad idea.
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Old 08-05-2017, 12:50 AM   #1575
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i never understood the whole need to break up to someones face thing.... same with firing someone to their face

would you rather get all dressed up, spend time going to meet someone or to work, think things are honky dory (however the f you spell that) and then get the bad news in person and have wasted your time?

or get a text saving you time, embarrassment, awkwardness.....

societal rules about 'respect' are dumb
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