You can take the girl out of the bar, but you can't take the bar out of the girl

Once a lying ***** , always a lying *****

Sloot gonna sloot

- OP is naive. He gonna learn the hard way.
- OP is autistic. There is no hope for OP. #prayforOP

pick one

It was a false alarm (probably). We had a 13 minute call that made me feel like an idiot afterwards.

She called me on Viber and I put on my best "I know what you did"-voice of a husband that just found a stranger's male underwear in his wife's laundry. I acted 100% confident in my made up friend that knows someone she has met from Tinder.



After going in circles for 7 minutes (me questioning her, her asking me wtf I mean or who I'm talking about), all I could get out of her was like:

Her: Who are you talking about? I only meet friends.
Me: Friends you know from Tinder? Go on...
Her: No. What? I have classmates I meet. I don't understand...
Me: I'm not talking about classmates. How many guys from Tinder have you met in the past 4 weeks? I know it's at least one.
Her: I didn't!! Zero!

It seemed like she was telling the truth (otherwise great acting). I ended the call, then 10 minutes later called her back to let her know said "friend" doesn't exist and apologized.



The embarrassment was still worth it to me as I can sleep a bit better now. Before the call I used to think there's a 98% chance she's ****ed other guys in the past month, now it's under 50%.

Inb4 several people saying it's 120%...

Oh boy. Youre a weird guy.

"The embarrassment was still worth it to me as I can sleep a bit better now" will only happen for 1 week until the doubt will come back into your mind. I cant believe how possessive you are and its only the beginning.

The fact you are doing this before youre even boyfriend and girlfriend is ****ing insane/weird (super weird to do it even if so). And to top it off, you're given her **** for (apparently) lying to you whilst youre lying to her. As if you carried on lol

Is she a 10/10 or something? How many #'s higher is she compared to the girl you bought pizza with on stream.



also, what was your excuse not to stream this weekend?

The only reason I'm acting this way is because she's telling me all those things (she hasn't banged or even met up with other guys, she wants serious relationship with me and even she loves me) while giving me cheater vibes and lying about a lot of things.

I never had any possessive tendencies with my ex, she even complained I never get jealous or check her phone. Because she's honest and reasonable. For this girl... I can't say the same. She's a compulsive liar, childish and seems unpredictable and I wanted to find out where I'm at.

I hope she won't be pissed and the whole drama you created won't back fire.
if she is super hot she just have to grind tinder for like 1-2 weeks and will likely find equal or better guys.
I mean, if a girl would create a story like that within the first couple of weeks, i would delete her instantly.
It is strange and make you look insecure,.. i dont know.
Gl anyway, hope you have a good time with her

Are you talking about yourself? Get a life! Sociopath and very weird dude. Pathetic loser. It sums it up.

And yes she's obv very hot which makes me put up with all that. It's hard to put in numbers though. She has the perfect body to me and knows how to use it in the bedroom.

Poor girl...

Wow, talk about a huge reverse freeroll. There was no positive outcome for OP.

Either he finds out she's a cheater OR

If she was a high quality, honest girl she now thinks OP is a complete joke and dumps him.

The only way she would actually stay with him in light of all this is if she just wants to keep him around for when she's bored, along with a stable of other guys.

Bro, you are super insecure. That is a teenage bull**** move, trying to physiologically **** with someone who you have no reason to think otherwise except for **** you hear about on a poker forum.

That is so ****ed up. Border line abuse and I am the farthest ****ing thing from a white knight. You don't make other people feel like **** and confuse them to make peace with yourself, just laughable.

I think you need to just start fresh, admit you suck at everything and take ****ing baby steps instead of making these massive unrealistic goals. Also need to check your emotions at the door , or at least learn to control them a little bit.

You're completely right.

The decision to send her those messages doesn't achieve anything except give me some answers to questions that have been on my mind a lot lately (is this girl exclusive with me? what are her intentions? etc.)

I satisfied some of my curiosity but it achieved nothing but -EV outcome, whether it's for ever banging her again or for GF'ing her up.

I'm glad she's still talking to me lol. I'll try to tone that stuff down.

lol, I don't know about "borderline abuse", but still good input that overlaps with some of fossil's post and my reply to it.

Emotions are an issue because I always want to know where I'm at with girls. I can accept a 'yes' or a 'no' but not a 'being mysterious'.

I attribute 50% of that to the fact I usually give most of my attention to 1 girl and forget all the others, so if that one girl acts mysterious and isn't clear about her intentions then those questions will be on my mind everyday and I have to force myself to not message her everyday to find answers.

The other 50% is because I take far too much free time and work too little, allowing me to put so much unneccessary focus on girls (or the 1 girl that I currently have a crush on at the time)

Today I didn't have anything to do because my poker site has been down, allowing me overthink and to go full autist in my conversation with Sarah

in b4 Info creampies Sarah

Already happened a month ago, but on her period. Not taking those risks anymore like last year.

Oh nice! I've not read your thread but I'll look a few pages back.

What are you doing for a living? Only poker?

Mainly poker

Then you're really smart. Only a few people are making it at poker these days. I gave up 3 years ago.

I have a question.

How big are you?

lol

probably the LB from the laundry shop

I just wonder for this guy.

What will happen when he goes busto? When his papa and mama don't send money anymore?

He will be back in Germany and there he can't get laid. If he's big enough like 7inches he can please himself..I mean suck his own Willy.

lmao

Info, I think you're on the right track in your thinking and alluded to a few things that I think could really help you out. It's super normal for anyone to obsess over a girl/guy when it's the only person in their life and also when they're sitting around doing nothing.

I think it'd be better for you to have a few girls that you like. Hang out and meet up with them occasionally. Don't settle for a girl after a week or 2 of seeing each other, you should be wanting to see what's out there, and only settle for a girl if you've been seeing each other 2-3 months and it's going well. Abundance mentality. You will no longer obsess over 1 girl if there are a few occupying your mind/time.

You need to have other things going on in your life. Work, projects, travel, hobbies, going out with friends, whatever. If you're keeping busy and enjoying life, you don't have time to obsess over what Sarah's doing every second of the day and don't have time to send long walls of text.

You mentioned how girls who are "mysterious" drive you crazy, but that's exactly the type of impression you want to give to girls. Being the guy/girl who is around 24/7 to respond to texts is not very attractive. You want to be the guy who seems like he has a lot going on, seems like he has several female options, and they aren't sure of his interest level. That's the guy that intrigues girls and they want to chase and lock down.

the sad thing is you actually think you 'got some answers' from whatever it is that happened there

this is why its better to just do friends with benefits type stuff... but i know that takes a lot of work that you arent willing to put in

this half in half out crap where you expect the world from them while offering them nothing in return is only going to lead to more questions that never get answered

why should this girl not see other guys right now? why should she wait for you?

i dont know the full back story on this, dont care enough to read about it....


honestly this is a prime example of how many foreigners are a reason why so many filipina girls get a bad rep..... not saying they don't deserve some of it but obviously this girl is still going to try to meet other guys, and obviously she is going to lie to you about it, just as most guys would lie as well......

hookers, friends with benefits when both know its the case or marriage.... choose one of those three

we call them grey area girls, well there are grey area guys too

Girls love drama, so honestly I think info shove is playing this perfectly.