Lmao the guys who are trying to predict everything you say in this thread is hilarious...people think they know how to chat to girls and filipinas but very clearly not.

She isn't interested from what you said mate. Move on. Don't hook up with your ex as it makes you an *******...find a new girl


You saying that as a hail Mary is fine. Aslong as it was actually hail Mary and what you said in this thread is true.



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Your ex looks hotter than this "best girl ever" btw
^^^^^

You should pick the girl who makes most things easy for you.

Dump this one the damage is done.

As a guy who also loves the skinny body type I get where Info is coming from. When you find one that also has a cute face, you're on cloud 9.

Now that it's all lost, there's no point in me swooning over her looks anymore, but I'll say this: There's no way in hell my ex looks hotter than her. Pampanga girl's face is wayyy prettier. While I agree in our selfie she looks slightly ladyboy-ish due to the lighting, in person it's simply one of the best Filipina faces. It's the rare type that looks better with less makeup than with more makeup imo, her skin is flawless. Pictures can't express it at all.



With her looks she has reason to be picky but she screwed up by being too picky. Good luck to her chasing handsome foreign DJs and handsome foreign doctors in their 20s living in Angeles (actual examples of what I saw on her facebook or what she told me about meeting - and they don't want her for serious relationship, surprise!!)

/rant

Anyway I'll stop talking about her and try to forget her now. At least poker has been treating me well, over the past 4 days I've grinded 28.5 hours and made $730 at 60nl.

Yeah she really screwed up missing out on you man.

If she lowers her standards just a bit maybe she can get a 2+2 troll, that would be a great catch too.

I'm not saying she's ugly but just a bit better than average she still has that trademark flipper bulging eyeball look.

Why is info making this seem so hard?

I have never banged as many non hooker hot chicks as i have when i lived in the Makati, they're queing up for it on on dating apps and the fact they have zero shyness makes it so easy.

You should be posing about how to get rid of women, not how to make one super standard girl fall in love with you.

I was banging, nurses, IT workers, call center chicks and hotel staff all the time, aswell banging those street massage girls.

Match on an app, invite for a few drinks near my condo, back to condo bombom sexy time, ignore her 3000 sms's until you wanna bang her again.

Standard.

Butthurt doesn't work well with women, frame is even more important in SEA than in the west given their unstable circumstances. They want a calm collected guy who isn't phased too easily.

I'd have said something like:

y u break my heart?

j/k just let me know when you feel out hanging again another time

then she'll either say nothing or something vague like sure or give you a specific date

if she doesn't say anything or something like sure you she may or may not get back to you in weeks, a month or w/e and if she does you can then push for the lay from a position of power

At this point it sounds like you need to go to a place like Seoul where you can at least approach hundreds of girls who meet your standards.



Cheapest places cost about $600 a month though and there are enough foreigners around that live there long term and make at least 2k a month as English teachers to make this far from ez game but with enough volume even the biggest fish can run good some time.

What's just a bit better than average to you is the hottest 1 in 1000+ Pinays to me. To each his own.

Pasig isn't Makati. Pasig girls are less hot, more conservative, and the nearest mall is 2 km from my condo. But the biggest difference between us: I'm not willing to spend time and money on 99% of Tinder girls unless they come straight to my condo which is such a rare occurence it's not even worth swiping. Or they're hot enough I'm willing to spend time and money on them in the hopes of sex, which is 1% of Tinder girls and also not even worth swiping.

I'll open Tinder right now and screenshot the first random 3 profiles I see and I already know it will probably make me want to puke on my phone. I can swipe 20 times and 19 of them will look similar to this quality. I'd rather watch grass grow than spend time swiping and chatting with Tinder girls.



Confirmation how conservative Pasig girls are: my only 2 ok-looking Tinder dates that were willing to come straight to my condo in Pasig, came here all the way from Paranaque (she drove 90 min here and 90 min back) and Taguig (she paid ₱400 in Uber rides), none from Pasig even though we're neighbours.

I've tried keeping the mood light with fun messages, but ever since we've met 2.5 weeks ago she's been responding 24 hours late with one word messages, or not responding at all. Then I tried ignoring her for a week, with no success, she's still as desinterested as before. It's game over, she's 0% interested. I'm basically letting her know if she changes her mind she can get back to me and I'm done trying.

Soon!

Maybe Cebu for now if it's not too expensive. 5 weeks left here in Pasig

I've never understood this "I'll only use Tinder if girls come straight to my place" mentality. What makes Tinder different than handing out phone numbers?

Spending money is a misconception, too. I use Pooters strategy but my adaptation is meet for coffee (instead of drinks) and then back to mine. A 1-2hour conversation during which I pay for my own coffee and not hers yields huge returns.

The fact is that girls don't like to act like prostitutes unless they are prostitutes. They want to meet you in public, make sure you're not a total creep, and then often they'll be willing to spend more time with you. In my experience, Tinder has huge ROI and really doesn't make me want to puke at all.

Info is the one trying to sleep with her, doesn't really matter what anyone seen else thinks about her looks.

Seems like you're putting in basically zero effort at banging girls. Wasn't that part of the reason for going over in the first place? Instead of banging randoms until the right girl shows up you just get one-itis over a new girl every couple months and obsess over her. I guess it's cool that you're living in a place where there's less pressure to make money and you can probably enjoy life more, but feels like you're missing out on one of the huge advantages of living in the Philippines.

Also, those 3 random Tinder girls weren't quite as terrible as I was expecting. 1 has terrible makeup in that pic but looks like she could be cute, and is a dancer, so presumably has a great body. Even if only 1 out of 20 girls meet your standards, that's plenty and doesn't require much effort to start banging droves of quality girls.

Your standards seem off too. You say you find Asian girls way more attractive than western girls, but that in Philippines only like 1 girl out of 1000 is attractive. That must mean you find basically no white girls attractive. Are you sure you're even interested in girls?

No I'm gay.

The 1 in 1000 girls or whatever is what I'm willing to put effort to enter a potential LTR. I know Pampanga girl would take 5+ dates to bang (she's never had a bf and is probably virgin), but with potential huge long term value for me (like my last LTR that provided me with 100+ free bangs of a hot girl).

I'm willing to put some effort (1 coffee date) into just banging a much wider range of girls, like 1 in 30 Filipinas if I'm really horny, but the quality on Tinder is so bad it's more like 1 in 100 there.

Over the past 4 weeks I've had coffee dates I didn't mention ITT with 3 Pinays (2 from notes and 1 from Tinder) that didn't result into sex on the same day because of them being rather conservative, their parents expecting them to be home (21-23 year olds) and all 3 dates being 2-3 km from my condo.

i forgot the origins but didnt u meet her on tinder or some dating site? Then she isnt a virgin plain and simple, probably far from that, the sad fact is guys will **** a lot below their own level so random girls like her can get action from models if they are at the right place at the right time.

and yes I agree even in bgc i swipe right mayyybe 1 out of 30

not necessarily true

Ride donkeys to find a horse.

+1 Dace

That's something that shocked me a lot when I went back home after 2 years. I was surprised at how tolerant they can be of "beta" behavior for lack of a better word (in Canada, that is). After doing some **** that i'm in my head "u ****ed up m8", they would still show massive indicators of attraction. Something happened like this in Thailand i would bet on being gg hardcore. They definitely expect you to be the typical alpha figure way more, which doesn't necessarily mean being aggressive or anything of the sort. Just being cool and collected at all times. Obviously this all only matters if you're with a girl who's around your league in the dating market. If you're way above, you can take a **** on her cat and still get laid.

You definitely need "game" with the high value girls in SEA. You can make it as hard as you want depending on what kind of girls you're looking for. The group of guys I hang out with are really interested in game and are all decent looking/got their **** together, and I think we've banged collectively only about three to five 9/10 in 3 years, and this is probably over a 400 lay sample or something. We're not gods of pickup or anything but don't believe the bs that it's a cakewalk with the super hot girls (there's also obviously not that many...). It's also completely okay to not shoot for those girls and get the easy lays, it's the beauty of SEA.

Speaking of Tinder, last night I saw a YouTube live stream of someone inviting a fattie from Tinder to his condo, acting weird and trying to creep her out in a hilarious manner. When I saw this it got me thinking that idea has potential to make popular content for streaming on YouTube or Twitch, especially in SEA with the abundance of chicks willing to come to your place.

After swiping on Tinder on stream, she comes to his condo at the 2:00:30 mark, I had some good laughs.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iTu_jJ8r_Qs&t=7230

I'm thinking of giving it a try making streams like that. It for sure would make Tinder more fun for me and could make some hilarious streams.

Not sure yet if I'll do it on my YouTube channel (which already has 4,300 subscribers) or start from 0 on Twitch. Twitch has some advantages for livestreams that Youtube only has for videos, but obv on YouTube I have a headstart with the subs.

It has potential, but it relies a lot on the girl being entertaining and open-minded like the one in this video. Also, she had to be pretty uncomfortable, yet went along with it anyway.

Seems like you probably need a lot of props and antics to make it work, even then it could be kinda dull with girls who don't speak English well.

I'd be a little worried about legal ramifications, especially if anything sexual goes down.

I would be cautious, I am sure you can get into really deep trouble pulling stuff like that

I find it amusing that Info Shove thinks this girl is 1 in 1000 but then is surprised that she isnt interested in him.

I think this is a different problem. He lives in a country with very few super hot girls so the hot girls and even 7+ girls are super spoiled with the amount of the attention etc they get. Add to this that he is quite poor and not really well educated and not planning to stay there in Philipines long term .


The best solution would be move to another country like Thailand,Vietnam, South America where I lived in the past would be great for it if you know Spanish and have more money obviously.

It is not like Philipines are known for having hot girls :
https://www.targetmap.com/viewer.aspx?reportId=32066

The map isn't ideal but I would say from my experience traveling the world is quite accurate.

I mean he lives in a country with limited amount of really sexy girls and is close to the bottom of the "food chain" in terms of what he can offer the girl.

So obviously he sets himself up for a failure.

Basically with his current conditions he should either focus on banging bunch of average girls or try to move to another country.
The idea of banging hotties in Philipines is outright crazy unless you are really alpha guy and even then you would be a lot better livng elswhere.

sounds an absolute c*nt which 10 year olds would find enjoyable. Dont be a ****.

ddint watch the video but from what you describe...sounds like what those *******s who used to racially abuse, be sexist or straight up rude, and then claim everything is "just a prank" if people didnt react calm to their abuse. apart from the victims have 0 idea it will be on YT after as its being livestreamed. Its a terrible idea


and here you claim that hotties arnt coming back to your apartment to bang straight away but you want to do this....hmmm