Don't act like a sex deprived maniac before you meet her would be a good start.

And avoiding the word "slut" in any form unless she initiates sexual innuendo is generally a common sense sort of thing.

Once again you are focused on nitpicking my post without even comprehending what I am saying.

For a change, try to read and respond normally and not automatically trolling me just because it's me.

If you still don't understand this, backread.

Wasn't a nitpick or a troll of you. I'd respond to anyone in the same way. He didn't ever profess undying love for his GF, as you claim, and his text to the girl about to fly out of Manila was just a one-off joke copy pasted from someone else. The word slut was also part of that copy paste.

You're trolling if you call his 'personality brutal' based on that (direct quote isn't a nitpick). And now he's a 'maniac'.

The real question is: Are they potentially entertaining to hang out with?

You don't seem in need of much of a social life, but I like to do stuff other than hanging around at home all the time.

Tell her you ain't a sugar daddy in a joking kinda way (hahahah or some emoticon), but if they want you can hang out at power plant mall for example, play some arcade games at Q Station, grab some cheap stuff at the food court.

Now she knows you are a reasonably normal guy and she may or may not be up for a movie / dinner at your place the next time.

If you think they're lame, dinner for two at your place, you're like the best german cook every totally no space for big bro cause your apartment is too small, so sad

Posts were fine until the last bit. Don't troll each other and preferably put each other on ignore.

FFS just try be yourself..learn from the mistakes.. you'll be fine.. and remember it doesn't matter whether it's Asian/European..all women are the same, they are human too..think about the long term not banging as a target,who knows she might have a lot of 7,8,9 friends with long legs.. good luck..

Yah, maybe she was a leg model and could have introduced you to an endless supply of girls with long, perfect legs!

Just do like Ray, be honest and keep your text game simple!

Solid advice

**** off on picking a model and then get us mere mortals to do the same. The guy literally has to do nothing. Anything he says the girls will still DTF.

Show us your own ****ing text game then talk.

But by doing nothing he is actually doing something. I think that's what youre not getting from that.

Comparing over privileged white girl game to pinay game who is surrounded by poverty in a fairly conservative country...

The focus on finance advice although boring is the best advice.
If OP has some steady income where he was not overly stressing every month he'd exude way more confidence.
Confident, young white guy in the PI? You're not going to be asking about text game advice anymore.

The other problem is that he's seemingly only talking to 1 girl at a time so he's super concerned about finding the "perfect" line. Turn it into a pure numbers game where you're talking to tons of girls at once and you don't give a **** if you mess up with some of them. Also has the added benefit of making you come off less needy.

Women from south east Asia and south America/eastern Europe are very different from Webster European girls in my opinion, they are much more feminine and caring.

Worst text game I've seen lmao

I think you missed the part where Ray say in his profile that he's a rapist and a pedophile and that he's on Tinder to smash sluts.. and.. still get ton of matches from sloots.

Good looking people get more attention, don't need text game, nothing new. This one is probably the most extreme example. Anyway, lol'd hard when I saw his profile

But she'll never discover this thread.... right?

I gotta step in once again here...

OP

YOU HAVE TO DO SOMETHING FOR THEM! Spend money, even a coffee is something. She has to feel like you did something for her.

Take the girl and her brother out. That was the deal. Live up to it, she will be more likely to live up to her end of it.

Be a bad boy or good boy, no in between...

You laid great groundwork with legs and was two MAYBE three dates from heaven. (albeit at a much later date) Never do that again. That text was HORRENDOUS.

Rip pieces of paper the size of those notes and hand write those. Those prepared notes look staged/inauthentic. It should look done on the fly. (my opinion)

Take them out get them smiling laughing. Buy something cheap and tell her you want to put it away before its broken lost, only take a second then you are back out on the town. Once shes in the room, its yours to lose...

/random thoughts

Going on a date with her brother, I think that one will never get old lol

You may finally call me a bad guy and I'll agree as I'm currently trying to win over a girl that already has a boyfriend whom she has been with for the past 2 years. I handed her my number at the mall on Tuesday, she flaked on our planned coffee date on Saturday but is acting surprisingly interested for having a bf and hasn't even mentioned him to me (I found out through fb relationship status and photos of them together). Not sure what her intentions are - wants me to sponsor her? Wants to try white dick? Wants new bf?

I think it's pretty funny her beta boyfriend commented on her new profile pic a bunch of hearts and compliments on her looks, not realizing she's holding my note with my number in the same pic, lol:






Not much news, focusing on grinding poker (still 150nl), no bangs, too picky for Tinder sluts, focusing on finding a hot gf. "Crazy gf" has taken the breakup surprisingly non-crazy - no threats, unannounced visits or any drama, only one text saying she misses me. I decided it's best for her I don't talk to her anymore, could probably have squeezed out another BJ but I'm not that bad.

Would you consider walking up to girl, and rather than break the ice by talking to them instead handing them a piece of paper with the words 'friend request' and a smiley face draw on it beta/alpha? Genuine question as Im not in either camp just want to know your opinion.

How do you break the ice with a shy Filipina that is scared of being seen talking to you in public?

more context, most likely she isnt shy just doesnt want to be seen talking to a foreigner.

I'm talking about Filipinas in general. Most of them are shy but the 'not wanting to be seen talking to a foreigner' is the bigger problem.