The 'HOOKERS ON SOME LEVEL??' debate will never end... there is not clear cut answer. It's not like there's some secret just out of reach. Eg, consider the stickmanbangkok article about Thai Women / Farang Men written by a thai guy. Sounds pretty authoritative, a Thai guy finally weighs in and settles the matter: 'Farangs are the second choice of thai girls who can't get a nice thai guy'
Wait a minute. What the f*** does he know? What the f*** does anyone know? If some random guy in your home country started telling you his theory of girls, you'd probably just think 'yeah whatever'... and you'd be right , because he'd be extrapolating: from 1 or 2 experiences, onto half the human race.
More illuminating is to ask : why do we ask 'HOOKER ON SOME LEVEL?' about girls who we aren't considering for LTR/Marriage (ie, all of them). It's an ego thing, and that's OK to indulge now and then, but you gotta realise it's unhealthy: propping up your ego because a girl likes you, that's like building your house upon the sand. I think is why these arguments get so heated, because people feel they have a lot at stake: those who feel good about shipping lots of girls, those who feel insecure and would love to tear down other guys, etc.
How are you ever going to know the answer? Maybe 'bargirl X' is genuinely attracted to you, maybe 'cute hiso girl' Y just got railed by the basketball team before she came to meet you. WHY DO YOU CARE? (as long as Y had a shower) The madonna/whore complex is not good, it's got to go, the Thai guys have it worse than anyone, and its clear as day how it can drive them crazy and screw up the girls ('I never do this before!' etc) .. think of it as something to get over or grow out of
I think the answer is, just dont overthink this stuff. Worrying too much is not only a waste of time, it's just a negative attitude. Live in the moment, keep an open mind, don't take girls seriously (let's face it, we're not here to take girls seriously), have fun
Last edited by molotom; 07-24-2010 at 06:56 AM.