First off I don't really take any life advice from the busto english teachers, I moved away from the apartment complex most stay in after 1 month with my roomate and once in a while kick it with them all but it's not very fun. They seem much more lost than me and have resigned themselves to hanging together in a posse and complaining about the same different things that I think are cool. Also I have yet to see a Thai girl around them ever. I like Nakohn and Thailand a lot, even if I'm the wandering falang, it's tons of fun to me. It's just smaller and falang are so rare. So me making an effort to hang out with thai people and do thai stuff is the exception. Would I want to be in a bigger city where there's more nightlife and have both the super-authentic thai world as well as western stuff and some non-busto farang friends and english-speaking Thai people...well ya. Realize I sort of threw myself into this teaching/thailand thing, started looking into it and was on a plane a month later. So you guys help out a lot.
So a little thing i wrote but then my internet cut out -
Last night my weed hook up guy who is also my taxi-guy now came over and I was talking to him about her so he wanted to see her and we went and saw her at work. I bet Brazil with my friends in a pool and saw the own goal so I start drinking whiskey, and go home early b/c apple just said she's coming over later and didn't care about Ghana-Uruguay. Watch my boys lose, am decently drunk and didn't have any food and was bored so go the 7-11 by my house and am just telling the girls, (who know me) to make me something so they do some noodles and stuff and I'm just sitting in a chair behind the counter and being adventurous with my thai which causes lolz makk makk from them and everyone that comes in.
One is good but worse than apple but i'd hit it and you can't win if you fold chaimai? So she is saying how she wants to learn english and I say i'm running private lessons at my house for poo-ying kohn thai, (looking back this might have been a little too much, not sure but i liked it) She's down it seems then apple walks in to buy some **** for the bar sees me and of course they're all friends and **** b/c everyone in this town knows everyone. Apple is like lolzing about it but swooped me away for coffee and then asked for the baht later that night.
Also would like to add that for me the term gf I use in lack of better terms. Like still always get other girls phone numbers and try to set up dates and banged out some rando in Koh Samui etc etc. If I can't have a deep conversation with her or whatever hard to have that much allegiance or true feelings and I just don't know what's going on half the time, (ok more than half). Though she kind seems like a punk at heart which I like and isn't super quiet/submissive and before last night didn't ask me to give her money so seems like a decent one.
From her end I go meet her family we go to the park all together and drive to Surat to meet her grandma. She also is asking me how I plan on becoming a thai citizen and will i live here foreverer. I learned a lot of these interesting facts when my thai friend peter who works in KS [coral bay resort] came and visited me and played translator
I also learned
i'm her boyfriend
she's 18 not 20
her name is apple not bon ple for short and ple=bon in thai speakage
most of the people I met weren't her family just friends, her dad doesn't run the bar
she has only been living here for like 9 months, originally from Surat
she lives by herself (yay)
On the plus side I friended one of the thai teachers on facebook and a bunch of his friends that were girls friended me and I get to video skype with them and practice Thai and ****. They study in bangkok (thammasat) but are from here. Just adding to my desire to have this be my thailand/poker training ground and then go maybe work in Koh Samui, (my work permit can be switched so says Thai peter and he can help me get a job) and eventually teach in Bangkok unless I start crushing the pokerz then just move there.
FMA = if this is the case, i'm so down see above statement about not folding
player bets - yes i didn't really hesitate to pay her other than asking why, and i'm not so busto i'd hope/care to see it again. I still am just looking around for other girls as she's maybe (lol) too young/immature and seems a little too classic thai while I'd prefer the girls you guys refer to who speak a little english and have a little more life experience or have at least met another falang before, hence my ******ed question before. It wasn't really like shooting fish in a barrel to get with her. But on the real, I could've got a whore, a leo and a pad thai for 500bt so this can't be a regular occurence.
Meet up sounds like a good time, have only heard the legend of pattaya. I'm ha-sip ha-sip because I don't know what schools schedule is like but that might be when we have a 4-day weekend. I can just take a day off too. I'm still uncomfortable with the whore thing but it's just another thing I've got to snap out of.
I got to go up and see Bangkok to meet my falang friend, who leaves pretty soon so will holler in this thread for a meet up there too. Also haven't done Phuket yet and want to. Would actually want to sweat a little grind-session if anyone is down. I make the effort to go out and have a lot of these 'experiences' but when I'm more set up and not as omg thailand I plan to play a lot more poker.
Likewise anyone wants to come here and wreck the town, the beer/whores are cheap and we got space for days.