Quote:
Originally Posted by Lessu
"Drug use in Laos will result in heavy fines and expulsion at best, and imprisonment or even execution at worst. "
A "secret" Lao law says that foreigners cannot have sexual relations with Lao nationals other than their spouses. The penalty, if caught, is US$500 for first time, though as the text of the law is not available, may be much more (the US embassy says $5000); the foreigner may be jailed or deported and the Lao woman may find herself in jail - and that is really the last place anyone would want to be here. If you take a girl to your room and she robs you this law makes it almost impossible to obtain assistance from the police. Foreign women should note that, while rare, there have been cases of the police enforcing this law on both genders. Bar tenders are happy to provide stories of angry tourists confronting girls in the same bars they picked them up the night before! Anyway, many hotels do not allow foreigners to take girls to their rooms, as it is officially prohibited. Those that do allow it must have some financial arrangement with the local police - this is Laos where the only thing more powerful than the Law is money.
from wikitravel.
does it work like this WhoIAm?
From my
blog:
The Final Word on Sex with Foreigners
]Yes, it’s illegal for Lao nationals to stay overnight with foreigners of the opposite sex. It doesn’t matter if she’s a hooker, your fiancé, or a misunderstanding—if you’re not married, it’s technically illegal.
Foreigners sleeping with foreigners and Lao-on-Lao sex is ok.
I’ve spoken about this with several other foreigners who have been here longer than I have. The only confirmed cases we’ve heard of
in Vientiane were foreigners living with their Lao girlfriends. None of us had heard of a single verified case of anyone getting fined for a one-night fling or relationship where the Lao girl did not live with the guy
in Vientiane.
This has happened in Vang Vieng and Luang Prabang, which are much smaller than Vientiane.
I’ve known two foreign women who have openly lived with their Lao boyfriends without incident.
If you bring a girl back to your hotel/guesthouse, there is almost no chance of getting in trouble for it, but it is possible. If you can’t afford the $500 (or possibly more) fine, keep it in your pants.
How do people deal with this? Some people only date other westerners, some live with their girlfriends from surrounding countries, and some live with their Lao girlfriends in other countries (usually Thailand). I even heard about a guy who officially employed his girlfriend as a live-in maid. If you have a Lao girlfriend, you will probably be fine as long as she doesn’t move in with you or make a habit of staying over.