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Originally Posted by Manimal1988
Was looking for some advice on a gf problem. I have been living in CM for 3 year and with a gf for 2 year, she really has been a great gf and I really don't have anything bad to say about her, when I meet her she works in a resturant and as far as I know was neevr a bg.
I am thinking alot about going back home(not sure for good or not) and I wouldn't want to stay with her if im not in Thailand. I have thought about this before and tried to finish with her but she got very upset and due to me caring about/loving her alot I stayed.
I feel very guilty that I have gave her 2 years of living in a very nice house, not having to think about money at all and basically having a nice life, but if I go she has to go back to living in a really cheap sh**y room and working 12 hours a day 6 days a week for 9kb.
I am sure the advice will be "don't be a pu**y" which I am sure is correct, but bare in mind I really care about this girl and its very hard to make her upset and send her back to a shi**y life.
just tell her the situation, when are you thinking about going back home? best to tell her now so she can take it in her stride etc.Also tell her to a get a job now too while she lives with you. I set rules with my "GF" in place, she dont live with me, nore will she ever, and she pays her own way (well 30-40% of every bill usually). So if I went, nothing changes expect she has a big broken heart which may not be fixable, but I also told her I wont be here for ever.
You will feel bad now but with time, everything heals. So just man up now, tell her your going, you will feel bad/sad for a week/month or whatever, then you will move on, she will too.
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Originally Posted by Giffordonian
Is anyone here going to the Full Moon party on the 26th?
try lonely planet forum, were have a bit more class on here than that