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Thanks for this. A couple questions.
Can you comment any on Liepaja? Are the people the same? Same cultural trends?
I like Liepāja. It's nothing like Rīga. It's much smaller, feels more friendly and has more of a youth, musical, culture to it. It also has a bit of history, some older buildings (nothing spectacular, just nice) and is a seaside town. If I had to live in a town in Latvia, Liepāja would be top of my list. Not sure about the people, as I've only visited the town 3 or 4 times and spent maybe a week there in total, but, come to think of it, I didn't notice the usual staggering drunks on the streets there. Most tourists to Latvia go to Rīga. IMO they'd enjoy themselves much more in Liepāja, at least in the summer.
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There is a girl from my university from Liepaja who I am pretty good friends with who displays some interesting characteristics. She tends to be a bit bossy and make decisions for the group she is with without taking into consideration other peoples feelings. She also makes many comments about how things are better in Latvia (restaurants, TV, etc..) When it comes down to it I like her and enjoy her company, and I honestly think she is a good person. However, she is pretty selfish at times. Is this typical of a Latvian girl?
Oh yes. I know this girl very well
She probably is a good person at heart. Her problem is that she's been raised in Latvia. People here do not give consideration to others. A small example: when I first came here, soon after independence, I would stand in a queue waiting to be served in a corner shop. Being British (and stubbornly stupid), I would stand back from the person in front of me to give them some personal space and wait until their transaction had been completed before addressing the shopkeeper. This turned out to be a futile, yet interesting, exercise. I could stand there until the shop was empty before I'd get served. Other customers would just jump into the space I'd left, even though it was clear that I was queuing. The shopkeeper never gave a **** who's turn it was or how long someone might have to wait. It's every man for himself here. The same goes on the roads. On the plus side there's little road rage, presumably because that would lead to a continuous state of apoplexy.
Presumably because Latvia is a small, inconsequential country, Latvians tend to overcompensate by being overly patriotic. They think patriotism is a
good thing and cannot understand my arguments against it. However, it is very difficult for me to understand what, exactly, they are patriotic about. Your friend quotes restaurants and television. IMO restaurants and television are extremely poor. To be frank, the food here is really awful. I won't go into detail for the time being, but believe me it is bad. Television consists of news (just don't look for in-depth analysis); watchdog shows that chunder on about inconsequentials like shops refusing to accept a jar of small change as payment, while the whole bloody infrastructure of the country is corrupt; interminable re-runs of American films of the Jim Carrey and/or talking animals variety; and originals or local copies of the most dumbed-down reality, quiz and sit-coms. Oh, and the interminable "dance/sing/suicide pact (please!?) with a ****** Star" type shows. There is absolutely NOTHING of quality. They do not even understand what quality is. OK, I know the TV companies do not want to spend a lot of money when buying foreign shows, but would Dad's Army really be much more expensive than "Are you being served". Would Frazer or Mash really be so much more expensive than Married with Children. Guess what we get? That's right: just the dumbed down trash. Oh, and there are no controls on sponsorship or advertising and I'm yet to meet a Latvian that has understood my arguments for the need to be. In effect State control of the media has simply been exchanged for corporate control of the media. Independence has been bypassed.
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She is trying to get me and my girlfriend to come stay with her this summer for a month or so during some music festival. I am considering it but really dont wanna go if the people are really like you say.
Give some serious consideration to coming. Liepāja is a nice place in summer and bear in mind that I've lived here a long time and, like Leonard Cohen's song, "this one has grown old and bitterrr" LOL! Take what I say with a pinch of salt as I'm an old nuģis really. Don't let me put you off. I think you may enjoy it. I could never recommend Rīga, but Liepāja is much more provincial and there's not the foreign tourist rip-off culture there. Have fun! If Prāta Vētra are playing at the festival - definitely go. They are a quality act.