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12-23-2016 , 09:06 AM
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are there any PLO games in Manila that run every day?
Not really

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12-24-2016 , 06:11 AM
What do you think of Paul B's post in another forum? He used to be one of the earlier posters here but stopped posting in this thread. I think if you don't get involved with the locals too much, don't play live and live in an expat area or you clearly look busto / live modestly like k2d you have nothing to worry about, but that's just my opinion.

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To the previous guy or to anyone thinking about retiring here, starting a business, or anything like that... here's my opinion. With the way things are right now, and as someone who brought $100,000+ to invest in the Philippines and recently got out, I would say don't do it.

First things first, for me (and feel free to disagree), the Philippines isn't exactly a pussy paradise anymore. It was, but the glory days are over. I think everyone who was here pre-2014 (and maybe even until 2015) would agree. Just personally I can say that the number of beautiful Filipinas that were more or less offering themselves to me was unbelievable. I was spoiled for years. But things were deteriorating right up until I left and the people I kept in my social circle didn't hear the end of it. With that said, I recommend visiting but nothing more.

If you're a humble modest guy willing to stay under the radar, you can still visit the Philippines and spend your dollars there as many do. In general, I recommend guys do a bit of traveling, spending some money, and living it up.

But if you're thinking about living here long term and building an actual life in the Philippines, I think right now with Duterte in charge seems like the worst time ever to get your feet wet in these waters. Life means nothing to this guy.

Keep in mind the Philippines was and still is very much like the wild wild west. I can't even tell you how many stares I got from men who thought I was only in the country to **** their women, and every now and then I would get a death threat for sleeping with someone's wife/girlfriend/mistress. I've gotten a ****ing death threat for not showing up to a date (not my fault, she was over two hours late).

The difference now is that people can actually shoot you in a dark alley for whatever reason and put a "Pusher Ako" sign on your body and you'll get written off as a bystander in the drug war. It doesn't matter if you're involved in drugs or not. That's the unfortunate reality of the Philippines right now.

I think many will say it won't happen to you as long as you don't ruffle anyone's feathers but really it can happen to anyone. A good friend of mine was kidnapped, shot in the head twice, body dumped on the street a number of years back, for something very trivial, and this was back when things were "normal."

Now that I look back at it, I feel immensely fortunate to have gotten out with my life, my money, and half of my health in check (a few years of non-stop partying will wreck your body I've come to learn). Honestly there are some days when I wake up thinking I won the goddamn lottery.

But again, that's just my opinion. Some of my good friends are still in the country and I worry for them but I take solace in the fact that they've been settled in for years and have long-term girlfriends or wives. Anyone else, just know that there are real risks involved now and not a lot of upside. The Philippines now is no longer the same Philippines that we once knew.

Last edited by straightflushin; 12-24-2016 at 06:18 AM.
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12-24-2016 , 07:20 AM
Overly melodramatic, same guy that called dante a rapist for telling a mamasan a bargirl only banged him once not twice
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12-24-2016 , 07:27 AM
All the du30 stuff just isnt going to affect the average foreigner what so ever. Seems to be going a bit over the top about it all. The only drug-infested area a foreigner would be going to in manila is ermita. And thats always had trouble of being robbed/wrong place wrong time before he even come to power. It may have even got better there as quite a few hookers who i know from the area have stopped taking shabu, so i imagine a loot of people have also and maybe its got safer.

Not like any of us is going into tondo


question, if hes getting stared at, how does he know its because they thought he was only in country to **** their women? maybe its becuse hes a pogi white guy. Or an ugly joe



more risk of gtting mugged by ladyboys near burgos. (Actually been growing number of reports of this lately lol)


And du30 isnt going to last very long. Itll be maximum one term.


"The difference now is that people can actually shoot you in a dark alley for whatever reason and put a "Pusher Ako" sign on your body and you'll get written off as a bystander in the drug war. It doesn't matter if you're involved in drugs or not. That's the unfortunate reality of the Philippines right now."

this is true for filipinos. Would be a ****storm if this happened to foreigner surely?

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12-24-2016 , 07:51 AM
i want to play 100/200nlhe. Best place CoD or solaire? Ive never played in casino before. What are the regs like there? they snobby or? Reading cambodia thread made me want to check out live scene.
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12-24-2016 , 07:54 AM
Some people like to act all cool and big time, they can't just say oh I'm moving to another country to try something new. They're worried people will think they failed somehow, so they come up with a bunch of justifications and grandiosely announce their exit stage left, when no one really cares.

There will have been Thailand expats complaining about the extrajudicial killings of drug addicts and dealers there around 2002-3 under Thaksin, same thing as is happening now in PI. And then Facebook and the iPhone came out shortly after, and everyone was moaning about how it was killing the bar scene and making girls bitchy because they had tons of options. But we'd all love to go back to those years.
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12-24-2016 , 07:54 AM
Costa Rica really beginning to look attractive to me.
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12-24-2016 , 07:56 AM
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Some people like to act all cool and big time, they can't just say oh I'm moving to another country to try something new. They're worried people will think they failed somehow, so they come up with a bunch of justifications and grandiosely announce their exit stage left, when no one really cares.

There will have been Thailand expats complaining about the extrajudicial killings of drug addicts and dealers there around 2002-3 under Thaksin, same thing as is happening now in PI. And then Facebook and the iPhone came out shortly after, and everyone was moaning about how it was killing the bar scene and making girls bitchy because they had tons of options. But we'd all love to go back to those years.
Don't get me started on this ****. The real glory days were when Thai girls didn't even have mobile phones, what a time to be alive that was.
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12-24-2016 , 07:59 AM
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question, if hes getting stared at, how does he know its because they thought he was only in country to **** their women? maybe its becuse hes a pogi white guy. Or an ugly joe
He's korean american. I'm not sure what the average perception of koreans is in the pines.

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this is true for filipinos. Would be a ****storm if this happened to foreigner surely?
Foreigners get shot all the time in Angeles if they own a business (mostly hooker related ones), property or decided to invest into a business.

Your average retiree / monger gets left alone though.
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12-24-2016 , 08:17 AM
If the risk of getting robbed or shoot somewhere in Europe in the middle of the day doing nothing wrong not being completely drunk is 0,001% it is 0,005% in the safe areas in Manila. Get drunk and walk alone somewhere in Europe in the middle of the night risk of bad things happen might be 5%, Manila 20%-30%.

My survival instinct awake in Manila and told me not to get involved with hookers and not to get drunk and just walk there like a headless chicken - aswell I had no need to do neither of them and was completely fine. I dont have experience of starting business there but 1) very likely it ends very -EV even by getting scammed alot of times 2) Some hooker business sounds as risky as smuggling drugs for mafia - probably even riskier.
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12-24-2016 , 08:57 AM
Yeah from what i have heard starting a business in PI is not the best idea. However there are quite a few successful westerners living there who have owned and run business for years both in and outside of the red-light industry, however i guess horror stores far out weigh the successes.
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12-24-2016 , 09:54 AM
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First things first, for me (and feel free to disagree), the Philippines isn't exactly a pussy paradise anymore.
Did Angeles City shut down and not announce it to anyone?
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12-24-2016 , 01:54 PM
Anyone worried about their safety in SE Asia, a good general rule of thumb is "keep your head down". Don't do anything to get noticed. I've been living in Thailand for years and I've never felt threatened. Act the big shot or stick your nose where it doesn't belong and you'll find out where you stand real quick. Keep your head down, be a nobody among nobodies, no ploblem.
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12-24-2016 , 02:27 PM
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this is true for filipinos. Would be a ****storm if this happened to foreigner surely?
No, it's true for foreigners too. It's incredibly easy to have someone killed in Philippines, and with over 1000 murders a month, overworked police and approximately 0% chance that anyone would come forward to help the police, the chances of getting away with it are close to 100%.

This isn't because Duterte though, and it was the same way before he took office. Murder is cheap in Philippines, so don't piss people off and stay in safe areas.
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12-24-2016 , 02:55 PM
i have a very hard time believing that if a white guy who is likely to be known by everyone to not be doing or dealing drugs was found with a sign "pusher ako" on the streets dead in makati/fort that it will be a throwaway murder (bystander of drug war) like other filipinos. I think it would be very big news tbh.


Ill be amazed if those very small politicians who has balls to stand up to du30 wouldnt be using that kind of murder as a way to try convince people that EJK is wrong and how its going to hit tourism etc

Last edited by sihcnople; 12-24-2016 at 03:16 PM. Reason: its probably better to not link it to the drug war
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12-24-2016 , 02:55 PM
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Anyone worried about their safety in SE Asia, a good general rule of thumb is "keep your head down". Don't do anything to get noticed. I've been living in Thailand for years and I've never felt threatened. Act the big shot or stick your nose where it doesn't belong and you'll find out where you stand real quick. Keep your head down, be a nobody among nobodies, no ploblem.
I think this is good advice no matter what part of the world you travel to. I act/dress completely differently when I'm in a third-world nation than when I'm home in Vegas. It takes practice to keep yourself from pulling your iPhone out in public
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12-24-2016 , 10:38 PM
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I think this is good advice no matter what part of the world you travel to. I act/dress completely differently when I'm in a third-world nation than when I'm home in Vegas. It takes practice to keep yourself from pulling your iPhone out in public
I wasn't really referring to flashing an iPhone etc. If showing your phone is a problem then you probably shouldn't be anywhere near where you are. I was talking about foreigners sticking their nose where it doesn't belong and playing the big shot. For example, getting involved in the real estate business in Thailand...many foreigners end up dead. Also doing things that cause an Asian to lose face can be a very quick death penalty. Foreigners have to understand that we are tolerated as long as we are here to spend our money and get the **** out. If you hang around here and try to make a living by competing with the locals you are asking for trouble. It's best to to stay unnoticed and just act like a tourist on holiday. They won't bother you if you open a bar though. Many foreigners lose their life savings opening a bar so they are happy to watch you burn your money.
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12-24-2016 , 10:46 PM
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I wasn't really referring to flashing an iPhone etc. If showing your phone is a problem then you probably shouldn't be anywhere near where you are.

If you've never traveled to a country where an iPhone is a liability then you haven't traveled nearly enough.



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12-24-2016 , 10:52 PM
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i have a very hard time believing that if a white guy who is likely to be known by everyone to not be doing or dealing drugs was found with a sign "pusher ako" on the streets dead in makati/fort that it will be a throwaway murder (bystander of drug war) like other filipinos. I think it would be very big news tbh.

Not really sure how you see that playing out. Who exactly would you go to? Who exactly would you rely on to do something about it and follow through on their promises? Who is even available to help you, given the sheer number of murders there? And then which of these people are (1) not already paid off and (2) not going to shake you down for a payoff?

I don't think you have realistic expectations on how the police work in foreign countries and what makes "news" there.


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12-24-2016 , 11:02 PM
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If you've never traveled to a country where an iPhone is a liability then you haven't traveled nearly enough.



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I've been to 60 countries and counting LOL, some of the worst ****holes on earth(I was kidnapped once in West Africa). I wasn't talking about flashing wealth though, that is basic common sense for most travelers. I was talking about another aspect. Its the kind of thing you have to spend time in Asia to understand.
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12-24-2016 , 11:30 PM
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I've been to 60 countries and counting LOL, some of the worst ****holes on earth(I was kidnapped once in West Africa). I wasn't talking about flashing wealth though, that is basic common sense for most travelers. I was talking about another aspect. Its the kind of thing you have to spend time in Asia to understand.


Flying to capital cites and staying at the Hilton isn't "traveling", bro Anyone to ask about living in the Philippines?


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12-25-2016 , 12:16 AM
think paul's post is definitely overdramatic, cant ever recall getting death stares from dudes

however i do agree that the girl scene has deteriorated over the last few years, still better than most places tho
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12-25-2016 , 12:20 AM
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however i do agree that the girl scene has deteriorated over the last few years, still better than most places tho
I'm genuinely curious about this - in what way would you say it's deteriorated?




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12-25-2016 , 01:08 AM
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I'm genuinely curious about this - in what way would you say it's deteriorated?
i dunno it could just be that im either A) not putting in the same effort I used to or B) not as thrilled about having any non fat girl hop on for a ride cuz im burned out of SEA girls but it seems like they are more work, less interested in foreigners, less likely to come straight to the room

also definitely feels like i see less hot ones around, not that i ever saw a ton of hot girls but it feels to me like too many of the sexiest girls have been scooped up already, maybe moved with their husbands to random places around the world, maybe working in other countries as hostesses, or just laying in bed all day getting all the affection they need from facebook likes

i blame all the *******s who started blogging about how great the place was to make a small profit, ruined it for the rest of us

Last edited by kick2dante; 12-25-2016 at 01:09 AM. Reason: could very well be that ive been here too long and am jaded
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12-25-2016 , 01:17 AM
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i dunno it could just be that im either A) not putting in the same effort I used to or B) not as thrilled about having any non fat girl hop on for a ride cuz im burned out of SEA girls but it seems like they are more work, less interested in foreigners, less likely to come straight to the room
So it seems like you're referring mostly to the "dating" scene as opposed to mongering. I guess I took the initial post (the other quote) to be referring to the mongering scene and that dying out just didn't make any sense.


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i blame all the *******s who started blogging about how great the place was to make a small profit, ruined it for the rest of us
Oh, I see what you did there . . .
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