My main takeaway from the culture of the people is that they are passive/non confrontational.. better for them to ignore or to say 'yeah' to something they did not understand than to say 'what do you mean?/entering a dialogue' or 'no'..
regarding the choice of woman, here is my experience..
->the main filter for them is to the downside..
1. will you stick with them/be faithful and 2. not hit them (everyone of them had that question!)
-> once their downside filter is satisfied, they will look at your upside package in terms of marriage/baby/support to the family:
you only need to satisfy one of those 3 fully, and if you do 2 of the 3, you are the King
Of course, this experience of mine is maybe biased as I have my own first filters and this is the result in my sample after my main filtering...
reality :
. one of the sisters here married a guy from Australia who was 69 (she was 18), but he delivered on marriage and two kids to her now.. she is fully on his side and they are not helping her family.
. another sister also married an Australian.. he is the main family support and she is honest and devoted to him.. no kids
he bosses the family around when here. They married at around 22 & 47. He actually had plans to marry off 'my girl' to one of his friends.
. a third sister married a local young guy.. as he is on many assignments away from home, she lazies around with the family, singing karaoke, not contributing and picking fights when being put in her place (very seldomly) for exagerated profiteering.
Whatever you are looking for, the balance of offer and demand is completely inverted from the west.. You have the choice of 10 to 1.. know your own priorities and meet 10 of them and you'll always end up pretty good.. or in heaven..