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how do you tell her not to worry when you have no long term life plans and dont give a ..... ??
There is nothing you can do to completely assure her here, she will always be mom and she will always be a bit worried. For a mother to stop worrying about your wellbeing you pretty much have to be living in a Manhatten penthouse with the whole world at your beck and call. Until you are overly financially secure your mom will never stop worrying about you IMO.
Btw, I've found from personal experience that if you are low on money and don't have much in terms of financial resources, not giving a **** can actually be to your benefit, not to your detriment.
It's like Bob Dylan once sang
'When you ain't got nothing, you got nothing to lose."
7k may not be much in Asia, but as you pointed out here as little as it is there, it's far far less here, here it is truly nothing, essentially meaningless.
So it's not as if you're giving up some great life hear for a big risk in Asia, you are taking a risk, but you aren't giving up much.
And if mom is sending you "I'm worried about you" letters, then if you really get in a bad spot and go totally busto, I am sure she will spring for a plane ticket home for you.
At this point, if you're heart is clearly set on going for it, with so little else but your hearts desire anyway, there is really no reason not to go for it.