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Originally Posted by Paul B.
Gonna rehash some stuff that I've written on another board.
1. I think if you're moving away from your home country to the Philippines your lifestyle should definitely be better than what it was back home.
2. I live in a condo for several reasons:
- Safety.
- Location.
- Convenience.
My two cents on this...I lived with a Filipino family in a rural area three miles from a city of population 100k+ near Cebu City. Obviously, the areas are different.
1. I will agree with you on this point...but also disagree. It really depends on what you define as lifestyle and what you want out of life.
You will have fewer luxeries/amenities available in the Philippines. It's much harder to just think up something to do and find somewhere to go and do it. There is less variety in groceries and you need to learn to adjust. Getting anywhere can be a pain and if you're planning a 45 minute trip, that can last literally half the day.
On the flip side, I feel MUCH more at home in the Philippines. I'm never pressured to do anything immediately and everyone is extremely friendly. I love the culture, and that alone is an "upgrade" in my lifestyle.
I GUARANTEE you will have many headaches if you don't adopt an attitutide of "eeeeeeeh...OK...whatever!" You need patience or you'll never survive. Lifestyle is less about material objects and more about enjoying life and adapting to the culture.
I've met many (MANY!) grumpy and unhappy foreigners living in the Philippines. Many of them are "just trying to get by." Some give up completely after a number of years and head back home. Not sure why they stayed so long in the first place...you either love the country for what it is or you don't. You will know after six to nine months.
The initial three to six months can be a mixture of excitement about the newness and culture shock. For some people, the culture shock never ends. They never attempt to understand the culture and cannot adapt.
I'll quit rambling about this...but if anyone has specific questions about living experiences, I'd be happy to talk about it.
2. Safety. Definitely a possible concern. I never felt in any way threatened while I was there (three and a half years). However, I had a good family looking out for me, and they kept pretty close watch on me. I didn't quite have the freedom that I wanted, but it was worth it (to me) to keep out of trouble while learning the ropes. I could ask them anything about the culture and learned a ton.
Location. Again, two sides to this. I like a somewhat more peaceful nature-esk (is that a word?) setting. A condo will (potentially) have much easier access to common spots you want to go to. If you live further out (impossible in some spots), you need to deal with the headache of transportation. It can be a pain having to hunt down the right motorcycle/jeepney to take you to your destination.
Convenience...no comments here.